Nasihat Tentang Rogol Disalah Anggap, Nazim Othman Diserang Kaum Wanita

ayjay

Orang punya pakaian suka dialah nak pakai macam mana. Asal bersesuaian dengan tempat dan majlis.
Hak masing2.
Yang merogol memang sah2 tak betul dan kejam dan tidak normal dan salah and a crime.

armin

pocongkiutss replied at 3-12-2016 11:55 PM
Kalau bukan nazim yg cakap pun..kalau ko islam bukan ke Allah suruh tutup aurat?

Kalau ko kapir ...

So yang perogol ni hanya naik nafsu bila tengok melayu islam seksi? Kalau cina india seksi tak naik nafsu la? LOL what a joke.

pocongkiutss

armin replied at 4-12-2016 04:26 PM
So yang perogol ni hanya naik nafsu bila tengok melayu islam seksi? Kalau cina india seksi tak nai ...

Abistu ko nak expect apa?

Perogol kalau kunci kot* dia sekali pun..kalau perempuan pun sama naik menayang aset sama je kan??

Abistu kalau yg islam tu kalau nak fikir perogol akan rogol even yg berkelubung skali..alang2 tu korang leh tayang aset sesuka hati ke? Yg non muslim tu bukan wajib utk diorg pun..ko nak paksa dia tutup kang kena gelar taliban..yg islam pun just nasihat decently dah sentap bagai nak rak..inikan lagi yg non muslim

Sama aje kalau korang nak suruh perogol tahan nafsu..korang pun sama je sibuk menayang aset buat apa? Motif?

Orang nasihatkan dress decently pun nak jadikan isu..akhir zaman sungguh..nak tayang sgt aset tu tayanglah..rugi kan sorok org tak nampak?

stania83

Selagi dok asyik suruh pompuan berbungkus selagi tu masalah salah laku susah nak bendung.  Buktinya mak mak zaman sekarang risau nak tinggalkan anak perempuan ke bApak atau saudara lelaki. Punya teruk komuniti kitaa. Nak suruh budak kecik berbungkus juga. Aku pegi shopping mall cina elok je amoi pakai hotpants takde pon lelaki cina tengok mcm nak merogol. Cuba cina pakai hotpants pergi alam sentral habisla jate melayu meratah mata.

armin

pocongkiutss replied at 4-12-2016 04:41 PM
Abistu ko nak expect apa?

Perogol kalau kunci kot* dia sekali pun..kalau perempuan pun sama nai ...

Point dia sbb dia salahkan org merogol sbb perempuan pakai seksi. Padahal org islam je wajib cover so masalah kat sini bukan psl perempuan seksi, masalah lelaki yg merogol la salah tak reti kawal nafsu. This is victim blaming! Kau xleh salahkan pompuan kena rogol walaupun dia bertudung kau pegi marah dia, ha tula sbb org lain seksi kau kena rogol. Bangang tak alasan tu? So stupid.

pocongkiutss

armin replied at 4-12-2016 05:01 PM
Point dia sbb dia salahkan org merogol sbb perempuan pakai seksi. Padahal org islam je wajib cover ...

Sis..i rasa dah berpuluh kali i taip kat atas tu..takde sapa pun nak salahkan victim..tak pernah sekali pun..baik kes canny ong atau suzaily tu org semua maki perogol tu adela

Nazim tu kalaulah ayat dia just komen pasal dress decently sahaja pun org tetap akan bash dia sbb balik2 pointnya " org yg berkelubung pun tetap kena rogol "

I rasa fair kalau cakap
- Lelaki tundukan pandangan..jaga kot* tu jgn nak menggatal :
- Perempuan esp muslim dress decently..free hair pun ok je dari golongan jilboob tu..benci menengoknya : At least kita dah usaha & ikut suruhan tuhan

Non muslim pun kalau tak silap i..if ikut ajaran agama diorg yg betul2..rasanya boleh pakai terdedah2 kan..kalau tak silap i lah..

mommymonster82

Me rasa korg kena baca ni....

Rapists Explain Themselves on Reddit, and We Should Listen

http://jezebel.com/5929544/rapis ... nd-we-should-listen

mommymonster82

How Do Criminals Choose Their Victims?
“In the rush to examine a criminal’s behavior, it is not difficult to become distracted by the dangling carrot of that criminal’s potential characteristics and forget about the value of understanding his victims.” – Brent Turvey



Since the late 1930’s, many have studied how a victim’s behavior, lifestyle, and interaction with the suspect(s) affect a violent outcome. However, it wasn’t really until the 1970’s that  imagesMRSJXFVNvictimology truly bloomed, and we began to study how and why one individual becomes a victim while another does not. Some important questions that are addressed in victimology include: (1) Why was this particular person targeted?, (2) How were they targeted, or were they a victim of opportunity?, and (3) What are the chances of the person becoming a victim at random?

In 1978 Michael Hindeland, Michael Gottfredson, and James Garofalo presented a theory which attempted to understand how the victim’s lifestyle influenced their chances of becoming a victim. This theory has continued to be studied, and it has been shown that if the victim himself is involved in criminal activity, he is more likely to associate with others like him. Statistically, the majority of homicide victims are young (<25 years old) black males, and the majority of homicide suspects are also young black males. This is not coincidental. “Because individuals are most likely to interact with those who are similar to themselves, individual’s victimization is directly proportional to the number of characteristics they share with offenders.” So what our mothers have told us about choosing our friends carefully has actually been proven to be statistically true!

Victim-offender interaction looks at the exchange between victims and offenders, which may not even be an intentional interaction. The victim may say or do something, or be part of a particular social group that the offender views as either a threat or an opportunity. Similarly, the victim precipitation theory is based on the idea that the victim may initiate the confrontation, many times unknowingly. This theory does not imply that the victim is to blame, but instead theorizes that the victim’s actions or behaviors, intentional or not, may have contributed to them being chosen as a victim instead of the person walking behind them.

walking            Now, let’s talk about what criminals tend to look for. Much like a wild animal, a human predator wants an easy prey, which means they will seek out someone they perceive as weak, submissive, and unlikely to fight back. Because of this, any sign of strength or defiance the criminal perceives when approaching their chosen victim can in many instances be enough to turn around and look for a more suitable victim. In 1984, Betty Grayson and Morris I. Stein conducted a study to determine the selection criteria used by predators. As part of their study, they videotaped over 60 people walking on a busy New York City sidewalk without their knowledge over a three day period. This tape was later played for convicts of violent crimes who identified those they would consider desirable targets. Within seven seconds, the participants made their selections, and shockingly, there was a huge consistency.

Contrary to what many would have predicted, in this experiment, some small women were passed over for larger men; the convicts did not base their decision on race, age, size, or gender. Instead, upon further analysis of the selected victims from the tape, they realized that they all had several things in common. Those selected as victims dragged or shuffled their feet, and tended to walk slower than the flow of pedestrian traffic, lacking a sense of purpose. Also, unlike those passed over, the selected victims tended to move awkwardly, with less coordination, balance, and confidence. Finally, they all had a slumped posture and walked with their eyes to the ground; a downward gaze implies unawareness, and can be perceived as submission, making for an apparently easy target. Basically, the criminals were assessing the ease with which they could overpower the victims based on nonverbal signals which the victims were not even aware of.imagesWMGXDCT1

Brad Morrison, convicted sex offender who raped 75 women in 11 states, is quoted in Predators: Who They Are and How to Stop Them, as saying, “If I had the slightest inkling that a woman wasn’t someone I could easily handle, then I would pass right on by. Or if I thought I couldn’t control the situation, then I wouldn’t even mess with the house, much less attempt a rape there […] Like, if they had a dog, then forget it. Even a small one makes too much noise. If I saw a pair of construction boots, for example, out on the porch or on the landing, I walked right on by.”

distraction            Another common trait criminals look for is distraction. When someone is on their cell phone, listening to music, not paying attention, they are much more vulnerable. Criminals will feel much more powerful and invisible if their target is unaware of their presence. In fact, upon interviewing thousands of convicts, one study showed that 60% of criminals would move on to a different person if the person they were targeting simply made eye contact with them. In another study, in which researchers interviewed hundreds of rapists, most of them said they looked for women who were on the phone, with their hands full; basically, women who were not paying attention to their surroundings.

How do all of these statistics and studies fit into our lives? Grayson, co-author of the study on body language and exploitability, believes that to reduce the chances of becoming a victim, you can’t look like a victim. Topalli said it very well; “Walk in an alert fashion, walk with purpose, with your shoulders held back.” While I agree with both of them, I also believe you can do one better by not putting yourself in dangerous situations AND being aware. Location is always going to be an important factor in street crime, so avoid isolated locations, and areas with poor lighting and visibility. Not putting yourself in dangerous situations doesn’t simply mean avoiding shady neighborhoods, though. Studies have shown that drinking, drug use, and frequenting public places late at night increase the chances of victimization, because these “high-risk” activities tend to create opportunities for criminals.

So as you go on with your busy day to day living, keep in mind that you do have a say in whether or not you will be someone’s first choice as an easy target. Be careful about who you associate with and allow into your home, for example. Walk with confidence, and without distractions. Pay attention to what is going on around you, and go out of your way to avoid creating an opportunity that a criminal won’t be willing to pass up.

ienna2403

Nasihat Nazim ni ok je. kalau baca dengan hati terbuka sikit.

pocongkiutss

mommymonster82 replied at 4-12-2016 05:36 PM
How Do Criminals Choose Their Victims?
“In the rush to examine a criminal’s behavior, it is not d ...

Intresting

"Those selected as victims dragged or shuffled their feet, and tended to walk slower than the flow of pedestrian traffic, lacking a sense of purpose. Also, unlike those passed over, the selected victims tended to move awkwardly, with less coordination, balance, and confidence. Finally, they all had a slumped posture and walked with their eyes to the ground; a downward gaze implies unawareness, and can be perceived as submission, making for an apparently easy target. Basically, the criminals were assessing the ease with which they could overpower the victims based on nonverbal signals which the victims were not even aware of"

Tp ni kalau kat luar kan...if mangsa duduk serumah dengan predator..aduh kesiannya

Selalunya yg trigger2 keinginan dot3 ni ialah porn..tak boleh ke malaysia ni buat filtering untuk porn..merisaukanlah  

Levespa

mommymonster82 replied at 4-12-2016 05:36 PM
How Do Criminals Choose Their Victims?
“In the rush to examine a criminal’s behavior, it is not d ...

good info mommy

mommymonster82

Levespa replied at 4-12-2016 06:26 PM
good info mommy

Sharing is caring u....

mommymonster82

pocongkiutss replied at 4-12-2016 06:20 PM
Intresting

"Those selected as victims dragged or shuffled their feet, and tended to walk slower ...

Nonverbal signals sgt bahaya...harap kita semua hati2...

armin

pocongkiutss replied at 4-12-2016 05:12 PM
Sis..i rasa dah berpuluh kali i taip kat atas tu..takde sapa pun nak salahkan victim..tak pernah ...

Memang victim blaming pun. I nak tanya, kalau semua muslim kat malaysia ni pakai tudung dan cover, tp still ada kejadian rogol u nak salahkan siapa pulak? Nak salahkan bukan muslim menyeksi pulak? So masalah dia bukan org yg kena rogol tp memang salah lelaki pun. Semua kesalahan perogol nak blame perempuan pulak.

Memang lelaki salah pun.

armin

mommymonster82 replied at 4-12-2016 05:36 PM
How Do Criminals Choose Their Victims?
“In the rush to examine a criminal’s behavior, it is not d ...

Takde pun artikel ni cakap rapist pilih sebab pakai seksi

armin

stania83 replied at 4-12-2016 04:59 PM
Selagi dok asyik suruh pompuan berbungkus selagi tu masalah salah laku susah nak bendung.  Buktinya  ...

Kannn.. pucuk pangkalnya lelaki yg kena jaga mata. takkan nak suruh amoi pakai jubah pulak

kibodwatriuh

armin replied at 4-12-2016 06:39 PM
Memang victim blaming pun. I nak tanya, kalau semua muslim kat malaysia ni pakai tudung dan cover, ...

dia bagi nasihat jah, camna victim blaming? kapla otak feminists ni memang berair ka apa?

mommymonster82

armin replied at 4-12-2016 06:56 PM
Takde pun artikel ni cakap rapist pilih sebab pakai seksi

Me nk tarik perhatian u kat ayat ni...

“If I had the slightest inkling that a woman wasn’t someone I could easily handle, then I would pass right on by. Or if I thought I couldn’t control the situation, then I wouldn’t even mess with the house, much less attempt a rape there […] Like, if they had a dog, then forget it. Even a small one makes too much noise. If I saw a pair of construction boots, for example, out on the porch or on the landing, I walked right on by.”

Nasihat yg baik... yg elakkan kita jd easy target susah sgt ke nk terima... jgn defensive sgt sampi lupa realitinya..

U igt gini jela..pompuan. pki baju dedah2kan senang org nak rogol bukn sbb dia horny tgk u..tp pompuan tu akn jd easy target sbb senang je dia nk buka baju pompuan tu...bila pompuan paki baju nipis2 or singlet ke senang2 je dia koyak ke or tanggalkn baju pompuan tu n rape... rentap je baju tu dah koyak or rentap je dah kuar tetek selambak...so masa yg dia amik untuk abduct n rape maybe less than 5 minutes..so itu yg buatkn seseorg tu jd easy target .

Berbanding yg pki berlapis2..hbis2 dia boleh raba jer.. nk buka berlapis2 amik masa... so kurg2 dah tambah masa untuk penjenayah tu buat keje jahat dia..so dah nyusahkn dia ...tp xguna jugak klu dah pki tutup2 berlapis2 jln di tempat sunyi xde org lalu... serupa jugakla..

Klu kita fikir gtu adakh dikira victim blaming jugak?  Just nasihat utk elakkan pompuan jadi mangsa..

Utkk jadikan kita mangsa atau tak its all about masa n peluang.. cukup 2 tu..mmg menjadi..

pocongkiutss

armin replied at 4-12-2016 06:39 PM
Memang victim blaming pun. I nak tanya, kalau semua muslim kat malaysia ni pakai tudung dan cover, ...

Tapi nazim tu just suh dress decently...yg ramai kat cni butthurt apsal??

pocongkiutss

armin replied at 4-12-2016 06:57 PM
Kannn.. pucuk pangkalnya lelaki yg kena jaga mata. takkan nak suruh amoi pakai jubah pulak

One sided sgt..suh lelaki jaga mata..tp perempuan suh dress decently tak boleh pulak

Sama je dua2 belah pun kena jaga k