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Edisi negeri pedo : 15 tahun kawin 44 tahun!!!
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TUMPAT: Yet another case of marriage involving an underage girl has taken place in Kelantan.
This time, it involves a 15-year-old girl, who tied the knot with a 44-year-old People’s Volunteer Corp (Rela) member, who is a father of two.
The girl is the man’s second wife.
The union was approved by the Syariah Court. The ‘akad nikah’ (solemnisation of vows) took place at the Masjid Kampung Laut in Tumpat in July.
Her parents said poverty drove them into giving their consent to their youngest daughter’s marriage with the man, who is 29 years her senior.
Her father, Che Rahim Che Deraman, 60, said he and his wife, Mariam Hassan, were introduced by one of their sons to the man, who hails from Gua Musang, several months ago.
The couple, who run a small sundry shop in front of their home, have 13 children.
Che Rahim said they make only around RM200 to RM300 a month, which he said is hardly enough to make ends meet.
The 15-year-old girl with her mother Mariam Hassan. The ‘akad nikah’ (solemnisation of vows) took place at the Masjid Kampung Laut in Tumpat in July. Pix by Syamsi Suhaimi
They said they only gave their consent because they want their daughter to have a better life.
“No parent wants to see his or her child live in hardship. We do not want our daughter to live in difficulty as we did, raising 13 children.
“We want our children to live a more comfortable life, and this includes our youngest daughter.
“Her siblings are all married and now have their own lives. We know that she is underage, but we only want the best for her,” said Che Rahim, who has 30 grandchildren.
Che Rahim said he and his wife only agreed to have their daughter married off after they were convinced that the man could make her happy.
“Even though he is married with two children, he applied for polygamy status from the courts and was granted permission,” he said.
He said his daughter, who only studied up to Form One, did not object to the marriage.
Meanwhile, NSTP spoke to the girl, who said she was happy to be married.
The girl, who appeared cheerful, said she had no hesitation about marrying the man although she had only known him for several months.
“Honestly, I don’t mind what people say about me. The most important thing is that I’m happy with my husband, and I will try to make him happy for the rest of my life,” she said.
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adeh tringt dulu2 anak2 perempuan dr family susah
xperlu dhantar ke sekolah
belajar tinggi2 pun ke dapur juga
so duk rumah kalo ada orang nak meminang
terima so mak/ayah dah lepas tanggungjawab....
skrng dah jd trend semula la erk |
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dah jodoh dia
elokler dari dia jadi bohsia
korang jgn lurus bendul sgt
otak tu biar terbukak
tak smua kehidupan dia dunia ni berada pada grid yg sama
moga till jannah
aku sbgi mak
awal2 lagi aku dah didik dia utk berjaya dlm pelajaran serta berjaya
maka kesitulah jadinya
semua atas didikan kita sbgi ibubapa
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#ohindahnyaisele |
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Miskin kan.. What to expect? |
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Bersyukurlah kalau tak dapat mak bapak bingai singkat akal cam ni. |
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Susah tapi anak 13
Lepas tu kawenkan anak bawah umur |
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13 anak tu..wow
Brapa.org anak pompuan yang akan dilepaskan lagi tu...
Sambil kirai duit hantaran |
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Dh kongkek smpi kuar 14 anak barubteringat diri tu susah..
Selama ni happy je la ek pakcik.. |
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kalau dah tau hidup susah, tak mampu jaga anak berbelas2 tu, knp tak fikir sblm memberanakkan diorg...selfish betui la cik rahim & mariam ni.
tak fikir ke bila dikawinkan anak ni kalau tetiba dia diceraikan bila anak dah merenyut nanti or mewarisi pulak cara hidup makpak .... ni bukan nak tgk anak hidup senang tp nak menjahanamkan masadepan si anak tu |
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Ade lg |
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Edited by sarahmirza at 18-9-2018 11:03 AM
Dah tau miskin tapi tak didik anak sedar diri supaya belajat rajin2 supaya pandai dan ubah hidup keluarga.. sekolah tak habis, kahwinkan je jadi bini no 2.. harap anggota RELA itu seorang berharta yang mampu bagi pelajaran kat anak2 yg bakal dilahirkan tu pulak.
Tetiba I teringat satu sessi bual dengan budak bermasalah... bapaknya kerja driver, maknya tak kerja, rumahnya pacak tiang atas tanah orang..
Bila di tegur.... tak terasa ke nak ubah nasib keluarga? perbaiki diri, taraf kehidupan... bla..3x
Dan I dituduh menghina keluarganya yang miskin dan tak berpelajaran itu
Dik, kalau sudah bapak kau lulusan srp kerja jadi driver, takkan kau nak terus mewarisi hidup dengan berkelulusan upsr aje? |
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Edited by leylapple at 18-9-2018 11:03 AM
aku takder bangkangan sbb nie atas umo 12 thn.... budak tu pun dah bsr panjang 15 thn...
esok lusa mati si laki....dan si bini ada anak 2-3 bulan...makin susah la... sbb mana nak carik laki yang nak ambik janda beranak....
konon2 nak kawinkan anak sebab nak senangkan family, entah2 makin susah
sebab tu la pentingnya pelajaran.... nie dah zaman 2020... mcm hidup tahun 1950an....pil perancangan rm1 kat klinik pun tak terambik...
tak kesian ker dgn anak2
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macam mana mak pak dia yakin yg anok dia akan bahagia ngan pkcik tu??dah belikan banglo,tanah bendang 10 ekar...mcm jual anak je aku ase..budak tu mmgla kata ok jer..umur 15 tahun bukannya matang sgt
Harap2lah berbahagia hingga ke syorga |
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Amboi jawapan budak ni macam dh hidup 100tahun. Tggu la Esok2 nnti laki kau tinggal kau bawah jambatan ke apa, baru ada akal! |
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Dah tau miskin yg kau mengongkek pancut dalan tue dah nape? Pancut la dalam molot bini kau kalau dah takut rugi protein kau tue. Tak pon buat masker bini kau. Hade gak pekdahnye |
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simpatinya, tak kisah kahwinkan walaupun tua gila suami anak, penting mak pak dah kurang satu mulut untuk disuap. |
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Ofkozzz kau happy dan dont bother about people dikk....kau pun gatal. Lepas ni aku harap wan jijah banned jantan nak poligamy sebab itu jer cara lelaki pedo nak halalkan rogol. Kalau nak kawin lebih kawin la janda ke ibu tunggal. Ni semua pakat kawin kanak2. Is just nak menghalalkan rogol jer. |
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Che Rahim & Puan Mariam... u guys r so foolish, in every ways! |
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