[Merged] Persiapan Lepas Kahwin...What should buy n What shouldn't?

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Tak tahu kalau2 thread bincang pasal nih dah ader...But just to share opinion ngan forummers sumer...
Bila dah kawen mesti kena buat preparation gak utk hidup berdua...:ah:
Peralatan umah kena beli...pinggan mangkuk..katil tilam...;)
Yang tinggal dengan family/mertua bleh save a lot...sebab barang sedia ader..
Yang hidup sendiri macam Storm...ngan bakal hubby...we have started to buy the things for our house..:ah:
So far, dah beli a few dining sets...n yesterday...dah terbeli dining table..gara2 IKEA sale..:..konon2 nak jimat at first...but when we went there..we both became crazy..:gila:...at last umah dah penuh ngan barang2 IKEA...not because of the brand..Because of the price...Murah giler!!!..:..Spent about 1K for the complete kitchen set, kitchen utensils...dining sets..n dining table...memang puas ati...;)...
TV, Fridge, Fan n Washing Machine dah ader..
But some of my frens said tak payah nak spend banyak for the pinggan mangkuk n basic electrical items such as kettle,iron,toaster...lepas kenduri banyak set yg akan dapat...
So forummers sumer korang punyer preparation hidup berdua mcm mana plak?..Share ler skit...:hug:

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white pearl

tahla yer...

sebab saya pun cam storm jugak.. hidup berdikari terus ngan hubby... so, barang mmg lepas kawen hubby beli semua.. set sofa, fridge, mesin basuh, set katil, dapur gas, tong gas, tv, hi-fi..

saya cuci kaki ngan tangan jerla.. macam barang2 elektrik yagn kecik2 tuh.. toaster, tea set, dining set, punch set, rice cooker, electric kettle mmg tak payah beli, semua orang bagi hadiah... jimatttt... :lol

cadar2 tuh.. beli sikit2 jer... beli yang berkenan di hati... itu jerla...

storm

Originally posted by white pearl at 5-1-2005 12:23 PM:
tahla yer...

sebab saya pun cam storm jugak.. hidup berdikari terus ngan hubby... so, barang mmg lepas kawen hubby beli semua.. set sofa, fridge, mesin basuh, set katil, dapur gas, tong gas, tv ...

kesian kat hubby kan..dah abih duit for wedding..kena spent lagik utk umah...

ahysa

adoi storm....syah pun tengah poning dok pikir pasal ni....

syah bukan pindah rumah jer...terpaksa pindah negeri skali.

sbnrnya barang yg ada kat rumah skarang ni semua syah nyer. tapi kalau syah bawa, alamat kosong lah rumah ni kan....

so i guess i havta start from scratch jugak lah...

tak tau lagi apa yg patut dibeli dan apa yg dah ada...part perkakas dapur, syah rasa semua kena beli punya sbb bakal suami memang tak pernah masak atau makan kat apt dia skarang.

lagipun kita dah agree nak cari apt lain sbb syah takmo dok tengah2 kota kl, skarang dia menyewa kat service apt kat jl imbi tu....alamat tak leh tido lah malam...;)

so tentang perabot rumah tu, mesti tuan punya rumah tu dah sediakan skali, kan? or penyewa mesti beli sendiri? :stp:

bLUe_jaMBu

Pengalaman blue gini,

clue kenal hubby kejap jek sebellum decide for engagement & wedding so x sempat sangat nak berdikit dikit dari sebelum kawen..

masa perkenalan kami beli TV, VCD player..
Rumah utk kami sewa dah dapat 3 bulan sebelum kawen..
tapi masa dah kawen pon mmg tak isi apa2 lagi tapi dah beli Washing Machine ngan Peti Ais (kebetulan samsung wat sale masa tu mmg untung banyak)..kat hall yg ada karpet ngan rak TV..

barang dapo cam gas, dapur & kabinet tu beli masa seminggu dah kawen..barang cam periok belanga mmg dah ada sket2 dr rumah bujang so tak risau sangat..so kami tambah rak utk letak mende tuh..

2 minggu masa pindah masuk kami cuma tdo atas comforter jek..coz bedroom set 2nd hand yg kami beli tu letak rumah mertua (coz dekat so selalu balik sana nak selesa)

kendian kami beli katil ngan tilam dulu..baju2 sume taruk lam drawer masa bujang tuh...

kendian 3 minggu lepas tu beli almari sliding door ngan meja makan..

so kesimpulannya rumah kami ada rupa rumah org berkeluarga setelah 3 bulan kawen..ahaks!
tapi okla..kami appreciate sgt masa2 yg tak selesa tuh..

brg yg kecik2 cam dinner set, pinggan, iron apa bagai sume tuh mmg dapat hadiah...coffee maker pon hadiah, microwave pon hadiah...so save gak..ehehhehe..

thats my side of story lah..

tina^^

me masok umah hubby nanti pon cuci kaki ajek.complete serba serbi.

tapi skang nie...kumpul sket2...set cadar, langsir, bunga2..more on decorations part..

bebenda lain, overall dah complete by himself.

eRiKa

mcm ika..stuff macam tv,dvd player tu die beli sendiri..but the other stuff,we all share beli sama...cam washing machine,fridge,kitchen stuff...iye la..kami ni sama2 susah,hubby ika bukan org senang  jadik wife kena bantu skali laa...x leh cuci tangan n kaki aje...sian la kat hubby...

Calla lily

Originally posted by ahysa at 2005-1-5 01:05 PM:
adoi storm....syah pun tengah poning dok pikir pasal ni....

syah bukan pindah rumah jer...terpaksa pindah negeri skali.

sbnrnya barang yg ada kat rumah skarang ni semua syah nyer. tapi kalau  ...

syah,

since you and future hubby tak plan nak duduk lama2x kat sini, i suggest you sewa rumah yg partly furnished jer cukuplah. maybe just beli barang keperluan cam pinggan mangkuk, washing machine etc. furniture cam living room or dining room set tuh boleh guna landlord punye. so u kene carik rumah yg partly or fully furnished lah. nanti nak pindah senang, tak yah angkut semua.

Calla lily

Originally posted by tina^^ at 2005-1-5 01:43 PM:
me masok umah hubby nanti pon cuci kaki ajek.complete serba serbi.

bertuahnya tina....:hug: mana nak dpat hubby baik gitu kan ? you're sooo lucky :love:

Calla lily

Originally posted by eRiKa at 2005-1-5 01:59 PM:
mcm ika..stuff macam tv,dvd player tu die beli sendiri..but the other stuff,we all share beli sama...cam washing machine,fridge,kitchen stuff...iye la..kami ni sama2 susah,hubby ika bukan org senan ...

takper ika, beli yg mana penting dulu, yg lenlain tue kemudian, but what you need first, then what you want

tina^^

Originally posted by Calla lily at 2005-1-5 02:09 PM:


bertuahnya tina....:hug: mana nak dpat hubby baik gitu kan ? you're sooo lucky :love:

tenkyu calla...:hug:

i am very much thankful to God..

now me byk beli decorations..nak tau naper?

konsep umah dier skang nie mostly black and white (actually black and light creme) sofa color creme, carpet warna black campo2 creme...tapi langsir dier kaler ijau :kant:

adusss...me kena jadik interior advisor dier...kalau tak rumah gue nanti  boleh jadik macam "The COlor of Ranggoli" :lol :lol :lol

storm

Originally posted by ahysa at 5-1-2005 01:05 PM:
adoi storm....syah pun tengah poning dok pikir pasal ni....

syah bukan pindah rumah jer...terpaksa pindah negeri skali.

sbnrnya barang yg ada kat rumah skarang ni semua syah nyer. tapi kalau  ...

kesian kat syah...storm tumpang simpati...sebab jodoh tu datang tak terduga kan...but i believe there's always something good in the future...
macam storm perkakas dapur tuh langsung takde..yg ader tv,dvd player,kipas,iron..fridge tuan umah punya...storm pun sewa jek umah lepas kawen nanti..
luckily bakal hubby dah ader washing machine (storm anto laudry jek so washing machine takde )..tak payah nak fikir beli...
skang tangah fikir should i buy the smartcooker...or ader gak ker owang nak kasi smartcooker kat storm...;)
ttg umah...kadang2 tuan umah dah sediakan perabot,dapur,fridge..macam umah storm..but most of the time...kene beli sendiri...

tina^^

Originally posted by storm at 2005-1-5 03:21 PM:

kesian kat syah...storm tumpang simpati...sebab jodoh tu datang tak terduga kan...but i believe there's always something good in the future...
macam storm perkakas dapur tuh langsung takde..yg a ...

smart cooker tue bagos jugak storm...tapi mcm one of our frenz cakap kat atas tadik..mostly bebarang dapor sumer tue leh dapat masa adiah kawen nanti.

tapikan...tina rasa utk those yg kena start beli sket2...yg penting rice cooker atau periuk satu, kuali satu. tue ajek paling basic tina rasa and plus sudip and senduk.

plus bahan basic cam minyak, gula, garam. and jgn luper sudu sket, garfu sket. satu set kat sogo tue baru 5ringgit kalau tak silap.

aperlagik barang basic yg storm lom ada??

storm

Originally posted by bLUe_jaMBu at 5-1-2005 01:21 PM:
Pengalaman blue gini,

clue kenal hubby kejap jek sebellum decide for engagement & wedding so x sempat sangat nak berdikit dikit dari sebelum kawen..

masa perkenalan kami  ...

macam blue gak..kenal bakal hubby 6 bulan jek...n bakal kawen bulan 2 nih...itu yg sibuk beli perkakasan umah...
planning penting...congrats sebab berjaya mengharungi zaman susah tuh...
as for me so far..dia ajer yg spent for all the things..Alhamdulillah si dia memahami...
At first dia sibuk nak beli tilam n katil besar..:hmm:...but recently he changed his mind...sibuk beli perkakasan dapur plak...

ahysa

Originally posted by Calla lily at 5-1-2005 14:07:
syah,

since you and future hubby tak plan nak duduk lama2x kat sini, i suggest you sewa rumah yg partly furnished jer cukuplah. maybe just beli barang keperluan cam pinggan mangkuk, washing  ...

that's wat i exactly plan to do calla...:ah:

kalau tak, mcm mana nanti kalau tup2 dia nak pindah...habislah syah kena pack barang...:gila:

tok sah barang lain, baju dgn kasut syah jer, mak syah dah usik...mesti sewa 1 container kapal :lol. ni tak tau mcm mana nak bawa barang2 ni semua :stp:

but i really hope we can settle at one place for long period of time...at least 10yrs...tapi tengoklah...susah nak cakap skarang...

storm

Originally posted by tina^^ at 5-1-2005 01:43 PM:
me masok umah hubby nanti pon cuci kaki ajek.complete serba serbi.

tapi skang nie...kumpul sket2...set cadar, langsir, bunga2..more on decorations part..

bebenda lain, overall dah complete by ...

bertuah badan tina......bleh kumpul barang for interior design...for the time being tak bleh lagik nak fikir ttg sumer tuh...g IKEA pun butakan mata jek nengok frame2 dia yg cantik...plus vases n flowers...n so many pretty n cute items for decoration..nanti2 ler dulu..beli yg penting dulu..

ahysa

Originally posted by storm at 5-1-2005 15:21:
kesian kat syah...storm tumpang simpati...sebab jodoh tu datang tak terduga kan...but i believe there's always something good in the future...
macam storm perkakas dapur tuh langsung takde..yg a ...

terimakasih lah...ada jugak yg 'senasib' dgn syah rupanya

syah belum survey lagi apt dia skarang...apa yg ada, apa yg harus diadakan...org lelaki ni...kalau kita tanya, dia cakap takyah pening kan kepala, kalau perlu gi kedai beli.

tapi kita kena lah check apa yg dah ada supaya tak bazir. insyaallah, minggu depan syah nak selongkar apt dia dan buat list apa yg perlu dibeli.

sheebby

shebby pon nak share gak experinced kumpul "asset" utk rumah nie.

mcm org lain gak, i tak beli pinggan mangkuk banyak. tau, sure wedding ader org bagik nanti. i beli sudu garpu, sudip, kuali, basic kitchen utensils la.

iron, toaster, rice cooker, electric kettle i tak beli pon, dengan harapan aderr kot yg bagik masa wedding.  but know what? i tak dpt langsung hadiah  electrical goods. no rice cooker, no iron, no stand fan!. chehh, penat jer mengharap. tapi! i dapat 5 toasters. ya Alllah, punyer lah banyak toaster. sampai the same brand /model pon ader.

yg lelain, i byk dp hiasan2 kat dinding. Little Egypt punyer frame sampai 3, jam dinding 2, lampu tido 2,  pinggan mangkuk mmg banyak. tapi pinggan mangkuk pon, i dpt only 2 sets of diningware. yg lelain semua gelas, tea set yg banyak. tapi okay lar, dh org bagik, terima jugak la kan..

pas tuh, i kena beli sendiri electrical goods,,,

bLUe_jaMBu

so planning mmg penting..list down apa yg perlu..ekceli me pon tak banyak keluar duit..hubby yg banyak..tapi takdelah sume sekali harung..one by one lah..
bila ingat semula i think i'm the lucky one..
coz ada my fren yg dah kawen tu cuma ada tilam bujang jek..rumah mmg empty!
so derang beli sket2 & now derang dah boleh dikatakan senangla..
as for us, kami dah menyewa kat rumah uncle hubby ni belum setahun pon..but we decide to buy our own home this year...we think harta tu yg penting..barang2 dlm rumah setiap bulan kite beli..kumpul sket2 lama2  cukupla sumer..

eRiKa

Originally posted by sheebby at 5-1-2005 04:26 PM:
shebby pon nak share gak experinced kumpul "asset" utk rumah nie.

mcm org lain gak, i tak beli pinggan mangkuk banyak. tau, sure wedding ader org bagik nanti. i beli sudu garpu, sudip ...

lebih kurang aje la kite sheeby...:ah:...ika langsung x dpt toaster sbg hadiah tapi ika dapat 4 biki rice cooker...cooking pan sampai 5 set...tu e x masuk lagik tea set yg sama sejibik dekat 2-3 set gak..hiasan langsung x dapat...ika wonder gak nak buat apa la rice cooker byk2...nak buat kenduri kawin lagik ke..??:cak::gila: