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hensem2012 posted on 16-6-2014 03:24 PM 
baby shower tue binatang ape??
Traditionally, baby showers were given only for the family's first child, and only women were invited.[2] The original intent was for women to share wisdom and lessons on the art of becoming a mother.[[url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia itation_needed]citation needed[/url]] Over time, it has become common to hold them for subsequent or adopted children. It is not uncommon for a parent to have more than one baby shower, such as one with friends and another with co-workers.
Baby showers are an alternative to other European celebrations of nativity such as Baptisms. However, these can tend to be less materialistic as what is commonly known as a baby shower in the twenty-first century.
According to etiquette authority Miss Manners, because the party centers on gift-giving,[3] the baby shower is typically arranged and hosted by a close friend rather than a member of the family, since it is considered rude for families to beg for gifts on behalf of their members.[4] However, this custom varies by culture or region and in some it is expected and customary for a close female family member to host the baby shower, often the baby's grandmother.[5]
There is no set rule for when or where showers are to be held. The number of guests and style of entertainment are determined by the host. Most hosts invite only women to baby showers, although there is no firm rule requiring this. If the shower is held after the baby's birth, then the baby is usually brought. Showers typically include food but not a full meal.
Some hosts arrange baby-themed activities, such as games to taste baby foods or to guess the baby's birth date or sex.
InternationalBaby showers and other social events to celebrate the impending or recent birth are popular around the world. They are commonly "women-only" social gatherings.
- In Canada, it is traditionally known that only women may attend this event.
- In Brazil, a party called "chá de bebê" (baby tea) is offered before birth and is often a "women-only" event.
- In Chinese tradition, a baby shower, called manyue (满月) is held one month after the baby is born. Due to the lack of advanced medical technology in ancient times, the high infant mortality rate prompted families and friends to celebrate if a baby survived more than one month after birth.
- In Armenia, a baby shower is called "qarasunq" (քառասունք) and is celebrated 40 days after baby's birth. It is a mixed party for all relatives and friends. Guests usually bring gifts for the baby or parents.
- In Iran, a baby shower is called sismoony party which in the family and close friends of the pregnant woman 1–3 months before delivery will provide her virtually all accommodation and accessories her first baby needed. This includes but is not limited to bed, toys, clothes and dishes.
- In Costa Rica, a baby shower party is called té de canastilla ("basket tea").
- In Hindu tradition, they are called by different names depending on the community the family belongs to.
- In northern India it is known as godbharaai, in western India, especially Maharashtra, the celebration is known as dohaaljewan, and in West Bengal and Odisha it is called saadh.
- In Southern India, in Tamil Nadu/Andhra Pradesh it is called Seemantham or Valaikaapu (The expecting mother wears bangles) and in Karnataka it is called shreemanta and is held when the woman is in her 5th or 7th or 9th month of pregnancy. Although Seemantham and Valaikappu might be celebrated together, they are very different. Seemantham is a religious ceremony while Valaikappu is a purely social event much like Western baby showers. In a Valaikappu, there is music played, and the expecting mother is decked in traditional attire with lots of flowers and garlands made of jasmine or mogra. A swing is decorated with flowers of her choice, which she uses to sit and swing. At times there are symbolic cut-outs of moons and stars that are put up. There are blessings showered on her by the elderly ladies from the household and community. Gifts are given to the expecting mother.
- In Kerala, it is known as 'Pulakuli', and is practiced predominantly in the Nair community, though its popularity has spread to other Hindu sects as well over the years. On an auspicious day, after being massaged with homemade ayurvedic oil, the woman has a customary bath with the help of the elderly women in the family. After this, the family deity is worshipped, invoking all the paradevatas (family deities) and a concoction of herbal medicines prepared in the traditional way, is given to the woman. The woman is dressed in new clothes and jewellery used for such occasions. A big difference in the western concept of baby shower and Hindu tradition is that the Hindu ceremony is a religious ceremony to pray for the well-being of the baby. In most conservative families gifts are bought for the mother-to-be but not the baby. The baby is showered with gifts only after birth.
- In Islam adherents are required to perform aqiqah[6] of newly born child. This involves the sacrifice of animals. The meat is then divided in three equal parts; one for the poor and needy, one for relatives and friends which can involve inviting them at home for a feast, and finally the last part is utilized by the household itself.
- In South Africa, a baby shower is called a stork party, and takes place typically when the mother is about 6 months pregnant. Stork parties are usually not attended by men, and South African men do not have an equivalent party of their own. The stork party is accompanied by silliness such as dressing up, and babycare related gifts are given to the mother. A stork party is often organised as a surprise without the mother's knowledge.
- In Nepal baby shower is known as "dahi chiura khuwaune". Expectant mother is given gifts from her elders and meal is cooked for her according to her cravings. Pregnant mother normally gets invited for dinners and lunches by her relatives. Also the tradition of Pasni(celebration) is popular after the birth of child. It is often done exactly at the age of 6th months after their birth for boy child and about 5 months after their birth for baby girls. Carbs is introduced in the baby's meal from this day onwards. People give blessing, money and other gifts during the Pasni.
- In Guatemala, only women attend this event. Middle class women usually celebrate more than one baby shower (one with close friends, co-workers, family, etc.).
sumber dari wikipedia
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baby_shower
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