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[Tempatan]
Rotan Anak Bakal Jadi Kesalahan Jenayah
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Patutnya yg jeniss bodohh mentaliti pprt ni phu keyy tu kena ikat jgn produce anak2, sian kat anak n ujung2 menyusahkan masarakat klu anak tu tak menjadi dek kebodohan parents! |
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Akak2 bimbo mentaliti pprt dunia ketiga selepas ambik kursus kawin n ujiqn HIV dinasihatkan terus buat rawaatan ikat phu keyyy sekali! |
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Mak pak kaki togok bekas bihsia je ajar anak sampai jadi murtad..
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Patutnya utk kesalahan pukul budak ni kena tambah hukuman sebatttttt baru padan mukaa!!! |
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melentur buluh biar dari rebungnya
dari kecil lah kita kena mendidik anak
kalau salah, kita kena lah ambil tindakan
bukannya rotan sampai nak mati
tapi rotan untuk mendidik
itu ada bezanya
tapi apaibla kerajaan yang tidak prihatin melaksanakan undang undang anti rotan ini, anak anak tidak akan dapat membezakan hitam dan putih dari kecil kerana mereka tidak boleh dididik lagi
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aku sbg ibu bapa pun xde rotan anak..malah aku yakin kebanyakkan forumer/ibubapa yg lain pun xde rotan anak.yg menjadi isu disini bila mana kes penderaan atau peaniayaan tu berlaku dan nak buat revision act tiba2 rotan tu jd satu jenayah plk..soalah2 skop tu sempit sangat..action nampak tangkap muat..xboleh ke buat undang2 yg adapt dgn budaya kita....xyah sanjung sgt budaya barat...aku mmg knl ramai parent yg lgsg xjentik anak...larang ank gitu2 je....anak jd xtakut.xtakut dlm erti kata xdgr ckp ibubapa..bkn mengigil2 tgk ibu bapa..aku ingat revise act nk kenakan hukuman berat pada pesalah.ni dok create benda lain..choii. |
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haii entahla... ade pro n kon nya benda ni..
ai tak setuju jugak parents belasah anak, sampai satu blok dgr...
apapun, melentur buluh biarla dari rebungnya..
my mum akan rotan utk mendidik. kalu nakal sgt.. atau menjawab mulut celupar mase kecik..
tp my dad tk perlu nak naik tgn ke tinggikan sora.. cukup ngn jegilkan mata...haii, kecut perut dah..
dah besar kitorg ni..elok jek jadi org
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Entah lah sis, pro and cons jugak. I tak setuju rotan anak anak namun tiada formula terbaik sebenarnya mendidik anak anak zaman sekarang. Kokesyen yang guna psychology tu pun I tengok lagi kurang ajar anak anak dorang pada parents. I have seen first hands banyak cases. Kita pun banyak cases jugak. Jadi melainkan ada research yang membolehkan kita adopt the better way, kita sukar nak kata yg melayu buat ni (bukan mendera) adalah buruk belaka.
Sebaiknya tak payah la beranak, children they are parasite. They will take away your life and will give very little in return hehe.
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Mendidik bukan melalui rotan kak oiii itu sadisss sgt pemikiran gini bery sad day for our education system!
Disciplining Your Child Without Beating
Many parents think that beating, slapping or hitting is the correct way to prevent undesirable behaviour or to punish unwanted behaviour among children. Hitting a child is NOT an effective method of parenting. Hitting, slapping, beating, "thumping", pinching or "boxing" a child only reinforces violence. IT IS ABUSE.
Some children are afraid of this abuse and it may seem to the parent that this method is working. Unfortunately the only thing that physical punishment teaches a child is that violence is an acceptable way of solving a problem. Some children soon get used to the physical punishment and it means nothing to them. Other children may rebel and act out against this harsh treatment. Sometimes parents cause serious physical and emotional damage to their children when they use corporal punishment.
As an adult, just imagine how you would feel if someone tried to correct your behaviour by hitting you!!! Don't you think your child has feelings just like you do?
Providing discipline and guidance to your child should not mean punishing your child. There are different ways to teach your child the lessons in acceptable behaviour that you want them to learn.
1st - Set the right example for your child. Children learn by example. They watch you and follow what you do. If you set rules, you must also follow them. You must use language that you would want to hear your child use and behave in the way you would want them to behave.
2nd -Let your children help you as you set the rules for the family. Get them involved in deciding what is and is not acceptable and what should be done when the rules are broken. In this way, children will understand clearly what behaviour is required and they will feel that they have a say in the family rules.
3rd - If your child does something wrong, give them a time-out - that is make them sit in a quiet place away from others. A time-out gives you time to cool off and also gives the child time to think about his behaviour. After the time-out discuss the problem with the child.
4th - Taking away something the child likes is another option if your child has misbehaved. You can take away a favourite toy or snack for a time or prevent them from playing with friends for a particular period. Again it is important to have a discussion with the child about his or her behaviour and reinforce what is acceptable in the family and why it is acceptable.
5th -Praise your child when he or she does well. Reward good behaviour and let your child know how proud he or she makes you when they behave well. Show your children lots of love generally to help them feel secure and to build trust. A child who does not trust his parents or does not feel confident enough to talk freely with them can be difficult to deal with.
6th -Spend time with your children. Get to know them. Communicate with them. Try to find out what their concerns and problems are. Encourage them to speak freely with you.
7th - If you feel that parenting is challenging and that you cannot provide discipline for your child, please seek help. There are many counsellors, teachers and social workers who can help you work with your child. Don't resort to hitting or beating. There are other, more effective solutions to the problem.
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Patut rotan mak bapak dulu sbb diorg gagal diduk anak diorg |
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apa rabangggggggggg pakai rotan..buh kayu beluti tgh belakang ja. |
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geng kapir lahanat tgh betepuk tgn lani....... |
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Banyak faktor kanak kanak rosak. Didikan sikit saja memainkan peranan, in my opinion dan dari pemerhatian. Environment, peer pressure, dan banyak lagi faktor mempengaruhi. Ada kawan yg memang educated dan ikut semuanya apa buku kata tentang didikan. Anak tetap setan.
Rentikan lah blaming the parents/didikan.
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Lol!
Tak pukul tak semestinya tak didik anak. Cuma org kita salah konsep bg dorg hanya pukul dpt didik anak2. Budak2 perlukan kasih sayang, mahu rasa disayangi mahu rasa selamat n jika buat salah bagitahu mereka n jelaskan supaya mereka faham n belajar. Ini bertempik2 dgn budak2 pukul2 skit2 pukul terjerit2 environment mcm tu akan mempengaruhi budak2, cepat marah tak sabar n sewaktu dgnnya. Sbb tu org kita cepat amok skit2 naik angin kat jln raya benda kecik blh jd besarrr sbb aura terroriss dah dipupuk dr kecik. Ya solusi terbaik jgn beranak klu rasa diri tak mampu handle n bg didikan kat budak. |
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Bila fikir balik, aah la, rumah aku masa kecik pun takde rotan. Patutla aku sabar je menghadapi jem dan cabaran mendatang. Kahkahkah.
Tapi ustaz nouman cakap, nak ajar anak kenala jadi besfren dia sampai dia besar. Supaya dia tak mengidolakan artis, kengkawan bila dah remaja nanti. Mebi cara ni boleh makpak kat sini cuba kot
Yang benar, Satrika |
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Ada yang orang tua dah six feet under masih DATANG dalam mimpi anak sambil terus bagi nasihat...'kalau nak kawen jangan cari yang tak sunat Trulee."
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Maksud I tiada formula sebenar yang terbukti berkesan, tu jer. Yang pukul terjerit jerit ni, entah la rasanya sikit jer. I have seen lots of my friends yang berlembut dengan anak anak dorang, didik dsb, but when it comes to certain age, kanak kanak tu akan start berpemikiran sendiri dan yang tidak pernah di jentik ni ada yang tiada rasa hormat lagi pada ibu bapa. Merasa terlalu besar. Ni yang I nampak lah.
Cakap dari teori memang ideal tetapi hakikatnya kokesyen sendiri berdepan anak anak kurang ajar.
Di kampung mungkin lah masih pukul tapi di bandar dan orang terpelajar (walau di Malaysia) dah tidak PPRT pemikirannya. Rasanya sis Orange terlalu memandang rendah pada Malaysians, yang sekarang banyak well travelled dan terpelajar.
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Biar je ank buat apa
Nnti salahkn gomen  |
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exactly mcm citer p ramlee 'anakku sazali'
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