Suami Hanez Suraya (Romie) vs Liyana Manan #231 #310

hzln

mulianyaaaa romieeee....mulianya hanezzzzzz

hzln

chazey replied at 15-12-2015 04:48 PM
Ntah?

Walau LM hanjeng sekalipun perangai, perlu ka Romie tu berskandal berzina dengan pompuan  ...

jika dibaca pada thread ini, seakan halal lah jua berskendel mencelop sana sini sbb bini perangai huduh

chazey

pichee replied at 15-12-2015 04:54 PM
btl...

skrg ni ade 2 kisah yg berbeza...

Aku tak puas hati dengan bini aku so instead of bimbing dia, didik dia cukup2 supaya boleh jadi isteri yang aku banggakan aku decide untuk cari puki lain dan bawa puki itu melencong ke sana ke mari untuk ditala.

Bila puki baru aku buat press conference attack bini aku, aku decide untuk back up puki baru aku sebab puki lama tak guna.

Bila bini aku minta cerai, aku ugut kasi anak2 kat aku, kalau tak pi jahnam dengan bini aku.

Eh aku lelaki la. Aku kepala, aku ketua, aku berkuasa buat apa saja.

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kimK punya jantan yang fikir camni.

pichee

hzln replied at 15-12-2015 05:36 PM
jika dibaca pada thread ini, seakan halal lah jua berskendel mencelop sana sini sbb bini perangai  ...

kan...

mcm x salah lgsg hal die berscandal dlu..x phm btl..

pichee

chazey replied at 15-12-2015 05:46 PM
Aku tak puas hati dengan bini aku so instead of bimbing dia, didik dia cukup2 supaya boleh jadi is ...

btl...

nper la lelaki mcm ni wujud... lelaki ke jantan ni?

mcm bini a.k.a ex-wife tu xde sumbangan lgsg dlm kehidupan die smpi die berjaya..

chandrahusin

betullll komen2 atas2 aku ni
mmg yg ptt dimaki jantan tu
senang2 goyang telur sana sini
ujung2 bini yg salah
yg pempuan ada jgk yg nak back-up jantan mcm tu
sbb tu la jantan besar kepala atas bwh
jantan mcm ni buat baik luaran
jadi org tak nmpak mental damage yg dia buat kat bini
ko usung pempuan ke hulu ke hilir sbb bini kau tak betul?
are you stupid or something?

ajak_ajak

it is about time utk salahkan jantan sama.
romie oii
slh ttp slh kerana curang tempohari

chazey

hzln replied at 15-12-2015 05:36 PM
jika dibaca pada thread ini, seakan halal lah jua berskendel mencelop sana sini sbb bini perangai  ...

Muduh kan.

Sebab fikiran camni la wanita asyik teraniaya - bila laki curang, wanita asyik cari salah diri; masyarakat lak asyik cari salah wanita.

Muduh.

Ada beberapa part aku nak komen:

1. Part Romiang komplen badan anak berbirat pastu anak kena penyakit hands n mouth tapi Liyana lambat bagi treatment pastu Romiang jadikan alasan untuk ambik dua2 anak.

Hello jantan, ada ko fikir sejauh mana tekanan perasaan yang Liyana alami? Tak mustahil ini buat sheol neglect anak2 atau lepas geram dengan anak2 bila meka buat hal. So punca semua ni berbalik pada ko juga.

2. Part mak sendiri pun burukkan Liyana.

Korang ada masuk PP? FD? Ada baca luahan forumner pasal mak2 hansuang anak dah buat sehabis baik pun macam dendam tak habis gitu kat anak asyik nak seksa perasan anak or mengata anak jah kat orang? Mak, pak, sila sadar diri anak2 itu cermin diri kamu sundri jadi bila kamu kutuk anak kandung kamu, kamu hanya buka aib diri sebagai mak dan pak yang fail mendidik anak. Lagipun ada terfikir perangai buruk anak itu diwarisi bad gene dari kamu jua?

3. Part apsal tak fight untuk anak2, apsal tak jumpa anak2 kat sekolah.

Sheol jah yang faham apa sheol rasa. Aku tanak judge lebih2. Tapi aku faham rasa menggelupo kuciwa dalam cinta sampai ko abaikan diri sundri, abaikan orang yang ko sayang, abaikan segala2 sebab terlalu ikutkan rasa kuciwa yang membawa kepada ketidakwarasan dan keterdesakan.

jula7

omai...biarlah doorg setel sendiri masalah konflik keluarga dorang.
kita irg luar ni better makan poocorn and tgk je..
kang jadi kat barang hidung sendiri..seronok ke org duk bongkar baik buruk kita?
masing2 ada lah salah masing2 tu..sebab tu..biarkan dorg urus sendiri..jgnlah kita lg yg duk nak speku memacam..duk nak hukum mcm2 jugak..
rilek la kwn2..

chazey

chandrahusin replied at 15-12-2015 05:56 PM
betullll komen2 atas2 aku ni
mmg yg ptt dimaki jantan tu
senang2 goyang telur sana sini

Aku ada baca artikel kokesen yang kata kecurangan dalan perkahwinan ni sebenarnya domestic abuse. Jap aku cari artikel tu.

Nah.

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Myfriend Kate finally collected enough courage to end her 12-year marriage to Will, she was suffering all the symptoms of avictim of domestic abuse. She had panic attacks, was in a state of depression, her self-esteem was in the gutter, and her sense of reality was distorted.

In the beginning, Kate would have scoffed at the idea that she had been a victim of domestic abuse. After all, Will “had only cheated” on her. He had not laid a hand on her, yet he had managed to undermine and diminish her through his long-time affair with an old high school girlfriend.

Kate had done what many victims of infidelity do. She failed to realize that in trying to save her marriage, she had destroyed herself by not recognizing that she was as emotionally vulnerable as any abuse victim.

Why do I believe thatinfidelity is a form of domestic abuse?Because infidelity can be as devastating as a physical attack. Infidelity makes a spouse humiliated, hurt, and helpless. Ultimately, it is experienced as a grave loss, the death of trust. When a husband cheats, he directly attacks his wife’s sense of worth.

In coaching women who are going through divorce due to a husband’s infidelity, I’ve found there to be common characteristics with victims of domestic abuse:

Both can become an ongoing aspect of marriage. There is a recurring cycle in which the abusive or cheating husband is repentant and the marital relationship functions well. Then there is another episode of abuse or infidelity.

The husbands may show brief periods of guilt or remorse, but usually seem insensitive to the pain they have caused. Most will not accept responsibility for the suffering they cause.

The victim suffers from low self-esteem, a sense of worthlessness, a lack of control over her life, a dependency on her husband, and a distorted sense of reality in which she believes that what happens is her fault.

If you’ve found yourself in the same situation as Kate and have become an unwittingvictim of domestic abuseisn’t it time to break the cycle? Instead of driving yourself to distraction why not face the simple fact that your husband’s infidelity is his choice and that choice was abusive in nature. His choices may leave you with no choice but to end the marriage.

InHow To Survive The Loss of Love, Harold H. Bloomfield states that “starting over seems too big a task and often the victim feels as though she cannot live without her once-true other. Infidelity shatters her assumptions of what her life once held true. The one who was her security is now her source of danger. When safety is threatened, we have abuse.”

If your husband is cheating, take action. Tell him that his behavior is unacceptable. Set boundaries and be able to stand by those boundaries. Don’t allow dependence on an unhealthy marriage to tear down your ability to live life on your own terms and free of abuse.

You may not save your marriage, but you will save yourself.

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fynnkakiblock

chazey replied at 15-12-2015 07:15 PM
Aku ada baca artikel kokesen yang kata kecurangan dalan perkahwinan ni sebenarnya domestic abuse.  ...

Kalau kat overseas ko ada anxious stress sikit jer dorg refer kat counselling. Padahal stress biasa2 jer. Ada tu gaduh laki bini sent msg jer maki2 cakap nak bg penampar bagai kena buat social hours haha mendapatlaa