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Edited by green~tea at 16-2-2021 04:06 PM
one of the things that's important tp ramai yang terlalu terlajak buat atau tak buat langsung sbb terlalu obses nak mengumpul harta atau mengejar kerjaya...
SELF REWARD..
membelanjakan some portion of your hard earned money to reward yourself, membeli barang mengikut kemahuan you for self-motivation, setelah lama berjuang utk capai target (savings, kerjaya, diet etc)
Ramai yang terover buat, self reward ni.. sampai tahap 7-8 kali sebulan duk reward diri, end up jadi hoarder... dan bertimbun2 bebanan hutang....
ramai juga yang obses nak melabur, focus keje, kedekut yakmat... gila nak kejar jadi millionaire.. end up jadi exhausted, hilang motivation...
husband i ada bagi tips to me.. its okay to reward ourselves, tp kena letak limit setahun sekali je... itu rule of thumb yang dia pegang lah.. kesabaran itu indah... its a good timeframe
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Post time 16-2-2021 08:49 PM
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Ladies.. what did you do for self reward?
Mcm iols, beli handbag.. tak minat beli jam |
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Edited by Lula2 at 16-2-2021 10:04 PM
green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 08:49 PM
Ladies.. what did you do for self reward?
Mcm iols, beli handbag.. tak minat beli jam
I sekarang banyak spend duit untuk rumah. Beli robot vacuum la.
Now i tengah aim nak siapkan home office.
I consider benda2 tu self reward sbb nanti kita akan happy berada dalam rumah kita sendiri.
In my 20s i suka beli baju2. Now no more. Banyak baju i dah let go. |
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Post time 16-2-2021 10:03 PM
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Lula2 replied at 16-2-2021 09:51 PM
I sekarang banyak spend duit untuk rumah. Beli robot vacuum la.
Now i tengah aim nak siapkan home ...
Bila u nak sambung study? Dalam bidang apa? I duk berangan nak sambung MBA lepas retire ni.. urgh.. byk betul planning.. semoga materialised |
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Sayangi diri sendiri= self confidence |
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Align with your values. Nilai-nilai merupakan self confidence terdalam yg kita miliki tentang cara kita hidup, membuat pilihan / memutuskan sikap, yg biasanya berhubungan pada area seperti keluarga, pasangan, pengasuhan anak, pertemanan, kehidupan sosial, lingkungan, karir, rekreasi, edukasi, kesehatan, dan pandangan spiritual. Nilai-nilai tersebut biasanya didapat ketika kita masih kanak-kanak sesuai dengan apa yg diajarkan oleh family, yg dikenal sebagai benar / salah, dan penting atau tidak penting. |
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 10:03 PM
Bila u nak sambung study? Dalam bidang apa? I duk berangan nak sambung MBA lepas retire ni.. urgh. ...
I plan tahun ni, tp tgk la mcm mana jumpa supervisor ke tak, bos bagi cuti ke tak.
Nak kumpul duit bayar yuran lg huhu.
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dulu kalau self reward selalu beli mcm mekap ka, baju ke.. skrg sebab pkp more to upgarde brg kt rumah jer.. nak selesa.. deko sikit.. pastu tanam bunga.. funny part dia i minat bunga tapi tahla org kata tgn panas kot selalu tanam tak menjadi.. so selalu jiran i yg tanam smpai jadi elok baru i amik tanam dlm pasu rumah sndiri.. jiran i tu mak i.. hahaha |
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Edited by green~tea at 17-2-2021 08:30 AM
Redmyvi replied at 17-2-2021 08:00 AM
dulu kalau self reward selalu beli mcm mekap ka, baju ke.. skrg sebab pkp more to upgarde brg kt rum ...
Hahaha sama sikit part semai benih tu... PIL i selalu bawak anak2 pokok tanam kat rumah i.. kdg2 diorg semaikan cilipadi kalo dia jumpa yg cantik, daun kuchai... usually weekends diorg suka datang lepak lama sikit kat kebun kitorg sambil minum2 kopi... pokok buah2 ada la tanam, tp tak banyak, rumah i tanam longan lada hitam & mangga je..
Kdg2 kitorg pi rumah diorg, dah dekat je pun kan... kebun diorg tepi rumah tu lg best.. ada kuinin, mangga, nangka cempedak ciku, ubi kayu etc.. tp indon2 suka curi mangga berguni kdg2 kantoi PIL nampak... itu la the downside kebun dlm area bandar tepi jalan besar.. indon datang curi siap dgn lori... sbb tu i BOIKOT beli jeruk mangga jual tepi traffic light and roundabout....
seberang kebun dah jalan besar hari2 jem and bising, kecuali hari raya je aman.... dah immune kalo ambulan ke apa lalu.. kitorg not really berjiran satu taman la tp taman berdekatan less than 7 km je.. iols takde bakat tanam pokok... i cuma tukang siram je.. husband la suka gardening, sbb tu beli rumah ada tanah... |
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bg self reward..dulu i suka beli baju, bra/panties..
tetapi sejak mco rasa x byk beli lagi dah.. lebih kpd menabung..maybe for future use like travelling when the covid is over..
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hrap kak green tea share lg tips2 yg menarik.. suka baca |
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Baru terjumpa benang ni best sume share2.
Last year kerja stress sgt smpai i rasa most of the time sugar craving. Pulak personal shopper asek cover sale coklat klia (which way cheaper tho dh nak dekat best by date..tp coklat best by which means still boleh makan few months after the date). So menjadi2 makan coklat share dgn anak2
Starting this year slowly nk cut sugar. Since berat pun ayo tak turun2, while husband almost hit his target ..tp itule asek terbayang sedapnya coklat..so just started to replace dgn tomato cherry. Hopefully by year end dah tak heran makan coklat |
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Edited by green~tea at 17-2-2021 05:51 PM
choc ni problem husband i.. hahahahha
i ada la sikit2 that kinda cravings.... kalo nak kurangkan rasa bersalah tu.. biasa nya i beli atkins snacks from iHerbs...
harga dalam list ni belum discount, ada freee shipping.. biasa 5 jenis ni i suka beli.... semua yang i paste kat bawah ni i dah rasa and confirmed sedap
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tudungpurple replied at 17-2-2021 05:24 PM
Baru terjumpa benang ni best sume share2.
Last year kerja stress sgt smpai i rasa most of the tim ...
Bila u mention tomato cherry tu okay lahhhhh emmmmmmm.. not that palatable for me as compared to those sinful indulgence chocs... 
Cuba la that atkins snacks.. sedapppppp.. tp please dont binge eating it... just makan utk lepas gian je |
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takpe jugak camtu.. aim for later reward, set aside some money every month
jgn tetiba sampai masa aih.. sayang pulak dah kumpul byk2 , baik sumbat asb
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Edited by green~tea at 17-2-2021 08:08 PM
sasasoso replied at 17-2-2021 07:06 PM
pelik. katanya marriage without sex is helpless, tp bnyk cerita marriage with sex jua berterabur,mar ...
Sexless tu sendiri dah langgar basic fundamental tujuan perkahwinan.... tanggungjawab perkahwinan tu nafkah batin, nafkah zahir & id like to add komunikasi... mostly laman KRT duk perjuangkan nafkah zahir, sedangkan punca perceraian adalah nafkah batin...
Fetish pelik2 melacur bini tu dah different story... bg i itu dah jenayah... ngeseks tukar2 pasangan tu pun bg i tak masuk akal dan hilang tujuan perkahwinan... apa guna kawen kalo masih BERZINA...
We use our common sense.. communicate suami isteri.. draw the line mana u boleh tolerate while at same time kita fulfil keperluan pasangan.. spice up sex life... contoh some woman tak suka blowjob.. some woman okay je in which usually the husband sangat suka receiving blowjob... then kalo xleh terima, dah byk tips2 i share kat posting sebelum ni cemane nak hilangkan geli.... guna essential oil wangi ke, guna sugar free mints ke yang kecik2 tu....
use your creativity , imagination and communication utk please pasangan lah... be open minded to discuss with husband... state your preference pada husband.. setiap wanita ni lain2 sex level nya... |
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Edited by green~tea at 17-2-2021 09:12 PM
Im trying as much as possible here, to advocate betapa pentingnya kita aware apa yg penting utk buat kita happy... there are of course many ways yg i dah kupas above...
kita kena tau orgasm tu wujud... and most women tak tahu pun orgasm tu apa.. even dah puluh tahun kawen... boleh refer statistics bawah ni... in fact i mmg yaqqin, dalam masyarakat melayu jumud, statistics perempuan pernah experience orgasm adalah jauh lagi rendah |
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sasasoso replied at 17-2-2021 09:20 PM
yaa sistur jwpn itu..masalah utama adelah isu komunikasi.tak cakap ( sbb taknak disclose jujur ant ...
Iya, i pun belajar pasal benefit meruang tu.. cuma i tak berani nak masukkan chemical or pencuci semasa douching ke apa... insert jamu pun i tak berani buat.. jamu consume orally ok je bg i.. bawah tu biar lah probiotics do the work... |
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Edited by green~tea at 18-2-2021 04:31 PM
sasasoso replied at 17-2-2021 09:20 PM
yaa sistur jwpn itu..masalah utama adelah isu komunikasi.tak cakap ( sbb taknak disclose jujur ant ...
Actually i ada pernah buka thread on tips penjagaan rose / vagina... tp board tu tak popular, orang jarang masuk.... situ la i belajar cara buat jamu sendiri... puas hati...
board tips dan petua.... thread penjagaan rose/vagina specific utk discuss dgn geng2 wanita... sini more general lah.. boleh nak selit2 tp thread ni lg detail... boleh nak sampuk situ.. heheheh dipersilakan mencemar duli uolz 
https://mforum2.cari.com.my/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1141605&mobile=2 |
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