Nak share dgn sapa2 yg ada experience jadi close friend dgn Koreans..

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 01:01 AM

Edited by appleringo at 22-4-2018 05:35 AM

Just nak share. Sy umur awal 30, somehow bukan Kpop fan ke apa. Tapi sy jenis suka belajar foreign languages. Sebelum ni belajar Japanese language, tp sebab nak fokus habiskan PhD, jadi sy stop dulu study foreign languages. so right after sy grad PhD in 2015, sambil kerja sekarang, sy attend kelas bahasa. tp masa tu sy habiskan belajar Japanese language. so starting 2017 cmtu for the time being, attend korean language class kat PJ ni je since dekat dgn Uni tmpt sy bg lecture. sy dah masuk level 3 korean language. somehow sebab nak cpt fluent in speaking korean, sy sign up satu website ala2 langauge exchange camtu. ni masa mid of 2017. dlm website tu kita boleh carik2 virtual penpal mcm tagging buddy.

so dipendekkan cerita, sy kenal dgn sorg Korean guy yg datang kerja kt KL & dlm proses nak belajar English sebab English dia level hauk sgt.haha. since sy pulak nak belajar korean, so we exchanged phone number n byk contact via whatsapp. memang byk sgt belajar korean dr this guy. sebab dalam whatsapp we both akan distribute masa, ada masa ktorg akan text dlm hangul (tulisan korea)..and ada masa lain akan guna full English. so dh lepas few weeks dok borak2 via whatsapp, this Korean buddy ajak i jumpa for the first time. I 50-50 je. haha. once he told me he's 39 years old, agak jauh jugak la beza umur. plus sy nak belajar bahasa je kan. ok I gelar dia Oppa je la kat sini ye. Tp Oppa ckp sy boleh je bawak text book utk jumpa dia for the first time tu. Means dia memang nak jumpa utk belajar bahasa jugak la kan. So, ok last2 I cakap ok fine, kita jumpa. Tapi Oppa yg datang Univ. sy naik Grabcar for the first meeting tu. katanya laki yg kena dtg kat prmpuan. haha.

so our first meeting sy takkan lupa sampai bila2. sebab even setuju sy takde lah rasa nak jumpa sgt sebenarnya. main reason is sy br lepas trauma dgn laki, sbb sy baru melepasi tempoh sukar lps bercerai. lps cerai sy memang fokus kerja n buat benda2 yg menghappykan diri. so in the end, Oppa text n inform dia dah sampai kat depan my faculty. so my plan is, I nak drive kereta n lalu depan dia. sebab sy membygkan dia umur 39 mesti dah ke arah pakcik2 sikit. haha. jahat kan. so I pun buat drive2 depan faculty, then I nampak ada sorg guy tinggi tgh terlindung dgn payung, sebab hujan masa tu. sy pun text Oppa, tanya "are u the one holding a blue umbrella?". Oppa jawab "네 (yes)". so right after I lalu depan dia sambil drive slowly I pun smpat la tgk muka dia. masa tu memang totally unexpected jugak sebab he didnt look like nearly 40s pun. So ok la sy pun decide utk jumpa.haha. bkn sebab muka dia tau. I jenis tgk 1st impression cmtu la. so I pergi park kereta n jumpa dia yg berpayung tu. then we both duduk lepak kat nearby cafe n borak2. tapi 1st meet up tu sgt positive la bg sy n Oppa pun kata best jugak borak2. tp sy byk bukak text book jugak tanya dia here n there.

then lps 1st meet up, next meeting Oppa ajak jumpa lg tp this time kat pool condo rmh dia. smbil borak n study. lama we both borak n study. smpai nak dekat maghrib, so sy nk mintak diri nak blk. tetiba Oppa tanya lapar ke tak..nak dinner dulu ke mcm tu la. so sy ckp ok je if nak dinner together. but the thing is, Oppa ckp dia dh siap beli ingredients nak masak utk sy mlm tu. so sy masa tu tolak elok2 la. sbb rmh laki kan. tp mamat ni beria ckp dia masak kejap je ayam tu like 10mins. dlm hati sy ckp masak ke tak ayam tu 10mins je

ok later sy share lagi la. sebab sy nak settlekan few things kejap. if sapa2 ada experience jugak being a close friend with Koreans share la ye. mcm dorg punya drinking habit la semua. since dorg famous dgn drinking habit semua kan. thanks n sorry jugak. selama ni silent reader je. hari ni saja je nk share something here.

KILL_NANCY · Post time 21-3-2018 01:25 AM

pernah dengar 'perenggan' tak?

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 01:30 AM

KILL_NANCY replied at 21-3-2018 01:25 AM
pernah dengar 'perenggan' tak?

haha...baiklah..sy edit. ampun...

KILL_NANCY · Post time 21-3-2018 01:46 AM

hah ada pon perenggan.

kawan dengan korea takde la dik.dengan jepun ramai la.tapi culture dua bangsa ni berbeza.tapi elok la bergaul terbuka sikit minda tu dik.

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 01:59 AM

KILL_NANCY replied at 21-3-2018 01:46 AM
hah ada pon perenggan.

kawan dengan korea takde la dik.dengan jepun ramai la.tapi culture dua b ...

hehe..but japanese punya drinking habit boleh tahan jugak kan sis..

KILL_NANCY · Post time 21-3-2018 02:02 AM

appleringo replied at 21-3-2018 01:59 AM
hehe..but japanese punya drinking habit boleh tahan jugak kan sis..

japan suka tanik dik.sake, asahi pelbagai.macam SIS

kawan je dik tak leh join to the club nak tanik2 ni.tapi kawan dengan diorang best, nak2 diorang tengah mabuk...time tu la kita nak maki dia kan.kita maki dia gelak je..

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 02:09 AM

KILL_NANCY replied at 21-3-2018 02:02 AM
japan suka tanik dik.sake, asahi pelbagai.macam SIS kawan je dik tak leh join to the club nak t ...

hahaha..mean japanese to your colleagues eh sis? yg u tnggu chance maki time di mabuk. haha..as for koreans, dorg lebih ke Soju.apa2 hal semua nak ada Soju. beer mcm kurang sikit. iols x minum. tp iols byk kwn dgn non-muslim, so if dorg nk minum sekitar iols, iols ok je. hak dorg. iols minum soda sudah

KILL_NANCY · Post time 21-3-2018 02:11 AM

hari tu saya bagi dia barbican dik.dia minum sungguh2 ya.sampai separuh dia teguk.pastu dia marah saya...kenapa dia tak mabuk.

KILL_NANCY · Post time 21-3-2018 02:16 AM

appleringo replied at 21-3-2018 02:09 AM
hahaha..mean japanese to your colleagues eh sis? yg u tnggu chance maki time di mabuk. haha..as fo ...

jangan ikut dik.aah la colleagues dik kebanyakannya bos2.SIS dah cakap sis tak minum.diorang paham.order je la coke zero ke apa ke.kalau diorang paksa sis bagero kan je dik.

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 02:33 AM

KILL_NANCY replied at 21-3-2018 02:16 AM
jangan ikut dik.aah la colleagues dik kebanyakannya bos2.SIS dah cakap sis tak minum.diorang paham ...

haha...so far ok je sis.. member sy chinese, korean pun ok je minum. tp dorg fhm sy x minum. but later sy kena buat research kat jepun sis. dlm Sept nanti. agak2 Japanese Prof jenis kena teman minum jugak ke eh?

KILL_NANCY · Post time 21-3-2018 02:40 AM

wow congratz saya ucap kan dik.bumi jepun belah mana nak jejakkan kaki tu?orang jepun ni dia humble dan fokus bekerja.so kalau dia ajak minum pergi je la.diorang jenis hormat orang dan tak memaksa.cuma sekor dua je la yang degil tapi tu pon bole handle.bila adik teman dia, dia rasa appreciate la then senang la nak mintak pape.

ok la dik saya minta diri dulu ya.nak basuh telekung.

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 02:54 AM

KILL_NANCY replied at 21-3-2018 02:40 AM
wow congratz saya ucap kan dik.bumi jepun belah mana nak jejakkan kaki tu?orang jepun ni dia humble ...

baik sis. thanks. kat Kobe nanti

mziskandar · Post time 21-3-2018 03:33 AM

Soju 25% alcohol, 3x lebih drpd beer, 5%.
Korean guys (mostly), member2 aku dulu bersikap kengkonon malu2 kucing. Sebenarnya sama je mcm lelaki2 lain.
Expat, kebiasaannya ada private entertainment, underground eg. Club, spa, etc.
Korean manusia biasa ada baik, ada jahat. Semoga saudari pilih jln n yg betul. Berhati bila melangkah. Engkau pun tahu.. aku pun tahu.. beralun rumput nan panjang, dibukit tanpa pohonan..

appleringo · Post time 21-3-2018 04:05 AM

mziskandar replied at 21-3-2018 03:33 AM
Soju 25% alcohol, 3x lebih drpd beer, 5%.
Korean guys (mostly), member2 aku dulu bersikap kengkonon ...

thanks. yup mana2 laki pmpuan pun x kira bangsa agama, ada baik n x baik. but so far sy jenis x suka judge org. common for them kan utk lepak kt club or mana2 tmpt to drink with friends. but so far, when we meet up, i mean that Korean buddy and I, we both selalu lepak kt rmh. either dia masak kat rmh dia with his sister or dia masak kat rmh sy. he's a good cook n good language teacher too

myakayina · Post time 21-3-2018 09:12 AM

Edited by myakayina at 21-3-2018 09:15 AM

klu rupa hauk mesti TT takdenya nak kawan dgn oppa tu kann? sorry, just kidding.. ada kenal sorg korean ni since dia ada bukak medical klinik kat sini dan guna my office punya services utk design klinik dia..rupa so-so jela ala2 mcm stok muka Psy tu..

so far ok je korean ni, polite la klu berckp cuma aku pening nak fhm english dorg..kdg tu aku betulkan sebutan dia..tapi kami just jumpa kat opis saja takdela sampai keluar..

klu dtg opis utk discuss project dia..dia akan borak2 dgn staff..peramah..tapi dia pandai mandarin sbb ambik class..aku kdg biasa je tegur dia bahasa korea since selalu tengok K-drama..tu yg dia mcm rajin layan..sampai bos aku ingat aku ambik class korean language..

bab minum ni mmg budaya dorg pun kann..my bos rajin la ajak mamat ni minum after work..so yg tu no comment la..

so, klu oppa tu ok, kawan jela TT..terbuka sikit minda kenal org baru, bahasa baru..yg penting tau batasannya..