Do you think that parents should limit teenager's freedom?

Kosai

From what I see during after school times..

I frequently see students go to places like Times Square or Sungei Wang Plaza
Right after school time over.
I don't really know why , but they should at least tell their parents.

Some of them wander around those places like until 6~7 PM
And may cause their parents to worry...

The question is :

Should parents limit their freedom? :hmm:

(I ain't teen anymore... so don't count me in , though I have a 16-year-old-like appearance)

[ Last edited by  Kosai at 15-1-2007 09:37 AM ]

meitantei

I'd say yes.

The thing is, parents should first understand to what extent should they have control over their children's freedom... which most parents fail to do...

jpl_fan

kalo ko tanyer aku..aku akan jawab yup..they should...:pmuka:
cthnyer mcm parents aku...aku x pernah kuar ngan member until form 5...but after that diorang bg kelonggaran sikit..cause aku dah major...leh buat my own decision making..:cak:

redsinner

i think u shud curb your sons/daughters from having TOO MUCH of freedom.
kawal anak2 la. not necessarily giving em total grounding all d time but give balance to study and fun time.

dulu aku dah abes seklah menengah baru parents aku kasi kuar dgn kengkawan.
skrg? aku duk sorang2 pun derang nak ok sbb probably they know i can control myself.
maybe i'm big enuff to know which one is wrong n right.

ekshenkamen

mase aku time skola2 dulu mak aku x bg kuar langsung

mmg memberontak gler ar aku

siap benci parents aku..siap tpu kuar senyap2

tp bler dah besar , br aku sedar mak aku wat tok kebaikan gak

kalau die lepaskn aku kuar senang2 , mmg aku budak rosak arr skang ni

mekaseh mak:love:  me loves u:love:

Bugger

freedom through responsibility but yet students are still under their guardian n the guardian of course would play their role.Each of every moves,there is always a limit and u cant simply go beyond the limit unless u are ready to accept the consequences

hardeyboyz

amik contoh dari lagu senario sebelum dan sesudah...

Parent have their RIGHTS:setuju:

snow_queen

i'll say yes!!!!
kne ade cerfew balik pkl bape.....
bdk2 skrg sush ank jangka.....
but 1 question laaa.....
if a gurl like me yg umo 20....
went out till 3 am..it's ok???
or still parents kne kongkong????

hardeyboyz

Originally posted by snow_queen at 23-1-2007 11:13 AM
i'll say yes!!!!
kne ade cerfew balik pkl bape.....
bdk2 skrg sush ank jangka.....
but 1 question laaa.....
if a gurl like me yg umo 20....
went out till 3 am..it's ok???
or still parents k ...

pempuan tmptnye dirumah...

patutnya pas maghrib pempuan dah xleh kuar...mengelakkan tanggapan2 negatif..

my 2 cent..

snow_queen

da tuh laki bole laa????
but den zamaan skrg....
we are ol equal.....
so boys went out...so did da girls....
da jd kebiasaan but den still ade batas2nye....
as long as thau jge diri its ok i think

Ustaz_SUFI

YESSSSSSSSS ...

Gunner

ye patut..sbb remaja masih perlukan bimbingan daripada ibubapa lagi...

adiraa

ibu-bapa perlu mengawasi anak2 remaja terutama yg tengah naik remaja dan nafsunya supaya dapat memikir baik dan buruk sesuatu perkara yang yang ingin dilakukan. Remaja pula sepatutnya menerima segala teguran dari ibubapa.. kerana ibu-bapa adalah insan yang tidak ingin melihat kehancuran hidup remaja terutama anak2nya.

FAC

ya mmg patut!!!!! saya dlu time pmr mak ayah kontrol giler..pas pmr time form 4 mak ayah bg kebebasan skit honeymoon giler saya langsong tk jd manusia..pastu time form 5 mak ayah kontrol balik baru jadik manusia..skang ni dah abes spm mak ayah bg totally freedom! huahuahua

Deadgurlzz

for me, parents should limit da freedom :ah:


but............


jgn smpi underground :ah:


juz they can hang out (yela rmaje kan...) tp jgnla blk lewat...tu je..


n teen pon kne pk pki otak ler..hang out boleh tp hang out jelah...xpyh nk smpi ponteng ke ape ke....


4 me la.......

FAC

saya setuju dgn pendapat anda..bdak2 remaja zaman skang mcm takde mak bapak..sedih sungguh melihat tingkah laku mereka di waktu mlm..mane la pegi mak ayah dorang yer

ako_chan

hu...pada ako...parents mmg kena control anak2....
maksud ako.....control ni bukannye kongkong....but...
Cntrol financiall anak...limitkn duit blanje diaorg...klu duit diaorg 2 b'lebih sure diaorg akn gune duit 2 kt tmpt n benda yg x sepatutnye...

pas 2 control social time diaorg....check la ngan sape diaorg b'kwn....
amik no phone kwn2 diaorg.....n slalu la gi spot check port lepak diaorg.....
limitkn time diaorg kluar hang-out ngan mmbr....
better klu mak bapak allowed mmbr diaorg lepak kt umah....

lastly control pakaian diaorg.....parents yg syg anak diaorg...diaorg x bg anak diaorg pakai baju yg x senonoh yg cam hampeh 2...

j009zai

ye lah... parent berhak limit teen's freedom.. tapi jgan la lebih sgt.. teens nie nak freedom gaks.. macam aku.. parent limit freedom ku sgt2....geram btul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :@

supekjabe

of kozzz maaaa...no freedom at all to all teenagers under 18..pasai apa..pasai depa blum matured lagi utk tempuhi dunia yg fana lg berpancaroba  ini...
lg satuuu..time nie laa depa2 nie nk try bende2 xbtul dan abnormal...
biarlaaa xfreedom skrg jgn nanti dh beso panjang sok jd baru nak itu xleh ini xleh....time2 depa mcm nie diorang harus tau limitation of somethin...everythin must be limited...especially tang social aspect...
.......

snow_queen

freedom bole bg...
tp pandai limit laaa...
bdk2 pon kne pandai pk....
jgn nak ikut jiwa je...