HONESTY is d best policy. Or HYPOCRISY?

seribulan · Post time 12-4-2007 07:11 PM

There is time where we need to be honest.
There is time where we need to give white lies.
Or would that term us as hypocrites?
Sometimes it is better to be a hypocrite, rather
than be honest to achieve things in life. Agree?

ct_og · Post time 12-4-2007 11:55 PM

kejujuran penting namun memainkan kata-kata boleh menyelamatkan diri dari tidak berlaku jujur...

yellow belmont · Post time 13-4-2007 01:40 AM

Originally posted by seribulan at 12-4-2007 07:11 PM
There is time where we need to be honest.
There is time where we need to give white lies.
Or would that term us as hypocrites?
Sometimes it is better to be a hypocrite, rather
than be honest ...

this honesty things always reminds me of my 2nd relationship .. "dont be too honest" ..

so i would agree with u .. there are times to be honest n there are times u dont have to be honest .. focus on the intention n what consequences it would bring if u r being honest or not ..

nu_Ouija_Board · Post time 13-4-2007 10:28 AM

honesty is the best policy... memang betul, ini menunjukkan kita berani dan bertanggungjawab dengan apa yang kita buat...

tapi kalau bohong sunat.. takpe laa

kyoko_asouka · Post time 13-4-2007 11:25 AM

sepatutnye jujur la kan...
tp kdg2 tu kalo terpakse, xpe la...
kdg2 sbb nk jage ati org, kdg2 sbb nk slmtkn diri dan mcm2 lg...

ct_og · Post time 13-4-2007 01:28 PM

Kejujuran lebih mengembirakan walaupun apa yang dikatakan itu lebih menghempit diri... namun kebijaksanaan adalah perlu untuk tidak berbohong...

nu_Ouija_Board · Post time 13-4-2007 03:08 PM

kebanyakan orang berbohong memang sbb nak selamatkan diri... lebih baik mengaku la...

canna · Post time 13-4-2007 04:19 PM

hypocrisy desires to appear raher than to be good...
honesty - to be good rather than seem so.

at times it is necessary to be hypocrite .for example...we hate our boss so much but infront of him we have to act cool and put our sweet smiles ....bla bla...!

journey7148 · Post time 13-4-2007 05:25 PM

Yes, honesty is always the best policy. Sooner or later the truth will reveal.

True-X · Post time 14-4-2007 10:27 AM

aku slalu gak terpikir mende gini...

korang perasan tak time korang bebudak dulukan...dlm umur 4-6 thn ker kita tak kisah pon mende yg kuar dari mulut kita.. kita cakap je mende yg ade dlm kepala otak kita.. tak pikir pon kesannya... nak marah marah.. nak heppy.. heppy lah.. kl kawan kita busuk.. kita cakap jer busuk...

tp biler dah dewasa.. kita semakin camourflage persepsi kiat.. sebab nak jaga /nak kontrol situasi... kerana kita dah mula pikir sebab dan kesan... soo things become complicated

redsinner · Post time 14-4-2007 05:40 PM

berkatalah benar walaupun yang benar tu selalunye menyakitkan

tu yang aku belajar. so sesape yang aku rase nak fire and kalo bicara aku tu tak keterlaluan aku berkata benar ajer.
tak elok nak berselindung sbb kekadang kita perlukan teguran utk memperbaiki diri sendirik.
betul tak kawan2?

redsinner · Post time 14-4-2007 06:02 PM

maybe a bit younger?

4-6thn tu dah kira bley pk gak ar

yellow belmont · Post time 14-4-2007 06:05 PM

Originally posted by True-X at 14-4-2007 10:27 AM
aku slalu gak terpikir mende gini...

korang perasan tak time korang bebudak dulukan...dlm umur 4-6 thn ker kita tak kisah pon mende yg kuar dari mulut kita.. kita cakap je mende yg ade dlm kep ...

aku tak sure aku blh claim memori yg aku recall ni sebagai memori waktu aku bebudak umur 4-6 thn .. tp aku rasa aku dr time zaman umur2 camtu mmg berhati-hati dgn kata2 aku .. tak simply just lepas ckp ..

Agul · Post time 14-4-2007 07:01 PM

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 14-4-2007 06:05 PM

aku tak sure aku blh claim memori yg aku recall ni sebagai memori waktu aku bebudak umur 4-6 thn .. tp aku rasa aku dr time zaman umur2 camtu mmg berhati-hati dgn kata2 aku .. tak simply just ...

Tindakan kau pada masa tu agak matang berbanding dengan umur...

Identiti asas setiap orang memang berbeza. Sebab tu walaupun setiap kanak2 dididik dengan cara yang sama, mereka akan tetap berbeza. Cara mendidik setiap kanak2 pun tak boleh sama. Ada yang sesuai cara A, ada yang sesuai cara B dan seterusya...

Persekitaran memainkan peranan tapi kecenderungan semulajadi setiap orang tetap tak boleh diabaikan.

Sebab tu ahli psikologi membahagikan kecenderungan2 ni kepada pelbagai "jenis personaliti". Yang paling popular mestilah MBTI, selain daripada tu 'four temperament' pun dah makin popular sekarang ni. Type A, B, C, macam2 diorang ni...

Nanti aku buka thread MBTI sekali dengan poll dan online test yang mudah.

free2rhyme · Post time 14-4-2007 08:41 PM

When I was small , around 4-5 years of age, everytime I listened to people chatting ( I hardly understood what they were saying ) I always wondered if I could ever talk like them and as much as them ! I remembered trying so hard to talked to myself in an effort to mimic them (I was the only child so I talked to myself or to my cat

) but I couldn't even find enough vocabulary to do so and that worried me sick ! It's just hilarious to see how naive children can be ....

being a grown up makes us realize the true meaning of hardship and endurance , doesn't it ? When we was small, everything seemed so easy .... now ...complex and complicated.

True-X · Post time 14-4-2007 09:33 PM

things are much more.. much much more complicated.. than just say watever come up in ur mind

ok.. aku create satu situasi laa kan ( yg simple2 jer nieh.. eheheh

)

manager opis ko busuk
>>>kalau dia adik beradik kita/pasangan kita.. senang jer cakap.. bang bau busuk laa ari nie.. pakai laa per22 minyak wangi ker.
>>>kl dia best fren kita ... senang gak laaa... wei ko agak berbau ari ni .. naper.. aarr.. btter ko wat sumthing
>>>ko dia sekadar ofismate... errr ntah ler. nak bgtau ker.. kang kecik ati lak dia.. kesian dia dia malu kl tak bgtau.. nak bg tau ker tak
>>>kl dia bos kita... better aku tak bgtau.. better secretary dia bgtau... nak arap aku.. no way

aku tak tau ler nak xplain cenggana level hipokrit ngan honestty nie.. tp tuh lah semakain kita dewasa dan ader tanggungjawab.. mula pikir panjang utk bertindak pada mende2 kecik jer nieh...

ajinomotonosuga · Post time 15-4-2007 01:06 AM

hipokrasi itu pakaian untuk satu kejujuran

yellow belmont · Post time 15-4-2007 12:26 PM

Originally posted by redsinner at 14-4-2007 06:02 PM
maybe a bit younger?

4-6thn tu dah kira bley pk gak ar

ntah la .. unlike some people yg blh ingat .. cth dia ckp "when i was about 5 years old" .. aku plak susah nak ingat exactly camtu .. i do have some memory .. tp aku tak dpt nak claim accurately itu memori masa aku umo brapa ..

p/s: aik .. mcm mana post ko blh duduk atas post aku plak ni? ..

yellow belmont · Post time 15-4-2007 12:32 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 14-4-2007 07:01 PM

Tindakan kau pada masa tu agak matang berbanding dengan umur...

Identiti asas setiap orang memang berbeza. Sebab tu walaupun setiap kanak2 dididik dengan cara yang sama, mereka akan tetap ...

maybe .. tp actually aku jarang dianggap matang compare dgn umo aku .. last time aku dianggap matang was back in 1999 ..

i have no idea apa MBTI and semua tu .. nanti ko buka la topik ..

yellow belmont · Post time 15-4-2007 12:38 PM

Originally posted by True-X at 14-4-2007 09:33 PM
things are much more.. much much more complicated.. than just say watever come up in ur mind

ok.. aku create satu situasi laa kan ( yg simple2 jer nieh.. eheheh )

manager opis ko busuk
& ...

yup .. things are much more complicated .. sbb tu the way we act depends on the situation ..

kalu dlm situasi yg ko create tu .. i would not consider it as being hypocrite .. cuma not being too honest jer ..