i don't understand why...

acid_angel

i don't understand y...
my parents still mengongkong kehidupan aku...
i'm in my 20's....
have a boyfriend...but we can't act like a normal couple...
my parents tak suka aku klua dgn dia...
and i don't know why...
even my X dulu pun diorang x ska...
diorang suka..just that tak suka klu aku klua jer...
tak kira la dgn siapa pun aku nak kawan...it's still their major concern...
aku tau they just worry about me...but then how about me???...
sampai bila aku nak kena sabar dgn perangai dioarang??
dulu masa skull menengah,aku ada gak melawan...but then it doesn't work...
and now, dah tua sket, aku malas nak ambil atie lagi...
tapi i can't take it anymore...
i dah pernah slow talk dgn diorang...doesn't work s well...
ntah la....i really don't understand...

bluesuntukaku2k

apa kata suh bf tu bernikah?

sisqeen

bukan mengonkong...itu ler concern n protective parents. Tanda dia org syg kan u....

sibel

you dont understand why? hurmmm... thats strange ...
are you sure you dont understand ...
or is it you are the one .. who dont want to understand?

time aku baya korang ... aku mmg x ngam ape2 pun ngan mak ayah ....
aku nak kebebasan ... anak orang lain balik kul 12 .. kul 1 pagi ... ok jeee
aku lak in the other hand .. keluar umah unaccompanied by relatives or anyone known to them paling lama 2 jam ....
even aku gi job week (bebudak pengakap gerenti tau) kuar sebab nak buat kije balik kul 6 pun dah kene hambur kene marah .. rasa cam masuk court la plak

still .. aku terima .. sebab itu la tugas depa ... protection ... to serve and protect ... perhaps not serve ... your parent isnt your slave !!!!!!

so try to understand the word .. protect ... the protector ....
there must be something wrong with you ..that delays their trust in you ....

you need to show them ..... they have nothing to worry about you.
TAPI ..... nak show ngan diorang tu laaa yg payah ....
bare in mind .... parent arent stupid!!!! ... what ever qualification they have .. they stilll have gone thru .. what ever things that u went thru ...
so .... have a faith in them ... cherish them while they still around ... obey ... and try to understand them .... what ever they did .. is for your own good ...

Rasa aku arr .. nape ramai pompuan yang tetiba jadi boroi, mangsa rogol lelaki, mangsa jenayah sexual... adalah sebab .. gagal mematuhi kehendak ibu bapa .. dan merasakan diri ... sudah cukup BESARRRRR .....

ingat ... walau badan anda besar ... janganlah pulak anda jadi BESARRR kepala.
Sehingga anda membuktikan .. anda boleh menjaga diri .. berdikari ..dan tahu menjaga tatasusila ... sehingga itu .... jadilah anak yang baik ... yg konfirm tak langgar kata2 atau menguris hati mak ayah...... supya konfirm masuk syurga ....

acid_angel

thx sibel...
i appreciate dat....

blue_april

agree with sibel...:pompom: :pompom:

soda

Originally posted by acid_angel at 27-12-2007 10:53 PM
i don't understand y...
my parents still mengongkong kehidupan aku...
i'm in my 20's....
have a boyfriend...but we can't act like a normal couple...
my parents tak suka aku klua dgn dia...
a ...

one day u akan paham mengapa dan sgt2 berterima kasih dgn cara dia menjaga kamu...

luvly_eone

bersyukur ler masih ade mak bapak yg risau kan pasal ko...

tak de mak bapak yg nak anak diorang terseksa... diorang cuba nak protect anak dara diorang...

skrg ni zaman mcm2 adaaa....

baik ler mencegah dari nak merawat di kemudian hari...  mungkin jiwa remaja ko memberontak... tapi Allah yg lebih mengetahui... berbalik ler pada agama...

indah1285

kelak kamu jd ibu, kamu akan tahu apa yg dirasai mereka kini..... kebimbangan itu....


itu tandanya mereka parent yg baik... menjaga kamu sebaik2nya, bukan mengongkong... kamu akan bebas setelah kamu bkahwin kelak....

mmg wajar/wajib pun mereka menghalang kamu dr berpeleseran dgn mana2 lelaki,,, tak kira dia kwn, kekasih atau apa... asal dia bukan muhrim kamu......


cintaillah ibu/bapa dgn sebaik2nya, patuhi mereka sbb smua itu demi kamu, anak yg mereka kasih....

owenkatz

Originally posted by sibel at 27-12-2007 11:33 PM
you dont understand why? hurmmm... thats strange ...
are you sure you dont understand ...
or is it you are the one .. who dont want to understand?

time aku baya korang ... aku mmg x ngam a ...

setuju sesangat dengan this comment. parents always have the children best interest at heart. tho may be the way they go about it is a bit annoying.

i think to make you understand and receptive to ur parents nye rules, why don't you sit down with them, and tell them your feelings, may be that way your parents lak akan open up and tell you why they are so strict.

philipinoe2

1. Al-fatihah kpd jenazah Benazir Bhutto....

2. best jugak lagu "i dont know much-linda ronstadtl/aaron neville"

i dont know much, but i know i love u...and that might be, all i need to know....

3. ade org ckp, nk ikat barang, ikat ketat2...supaya x telepas barang tuh...betul tuh...tp... kalu telampau ketat, smpisusah nk bukak...hmmm, menyusahkan la plak...

4. another metafora.... ...sumer org bersetuju, bile nk tido mlm, kene la tutup tingkap, pintu...kunci, solex sumer...lagi bnyk lagi bagos....so susah pencurik, perampok, perogol nk masuk umah kiter...da kunci gril, kunci pintu....then kunci selak plak....then gune rantai lagi...mmg betul tindakan die...utk mncegah dr kejadian yg tidak diingini....tp rasenyer die lupe kot....antare trajedi org mati mase kebakaran dlm umah sndri adelah berpunca drp die x dpt nk lpskan diri dr rumah tuh sndri...sbb, xdek jln keluar...sbb sumer pintu bekunci...sbb bnyk sgt kunci...org dr luar x dpt masuk, die sndri x dpt kuar slamatkan diri...

5. mmg btol parent perlu protect their children...esp. yg pmpuan....tp kalu over protective...x mustahil mende yg lagi teruk bleh belaku ke atas anak2 mereka...mebi anak derang x tahan kene kongkong, die lari dr umah, lari ngan perogol bersiri ke, addicted ke, jd bosia jalanan ke, pelacor kelas Z ke...

6. jom menum oligo koko, oligo koko... jingles die best, xkn menuman die x best kan...

7. sape ade curik marker pen ahkak, bg balik...!!:@ :@

8. another song....lets sing together..

u and i know, love is leaving,
and u dont want me anymore,
why should i even try...

9. jd kesimpulannyer....better awak carik pmpuan yg cube rampas laki awak tuh, en den teach her a leson det she will not forget for the rest of her life! :@ :@  

10. time kasih la pade yg sudi bace posting ahkak ne.... ....

generasi2

knapa akak nih???!!!demam ker ari nih..???

shikiko

kalau kau dah jadi ibu... kau akan memahami knp ibu kau berkelakuan begitu...

generasi2

kor nih cuba berfikir secara matang sket..!! nmpk sgt kor tak matang, itu yang kor tak paham mak kor punyer perbuatan tuh!...so, tunggu besar sket, kor pasti akan mengerti.....for the time being, kor ikut ckp mak kor.. bf kor tu tak de maknanya kor nak ikut..!! dengarlah cakap aku nih!!... den dah jauh berjalan... sampai kekadang lenguh dah kaki nih!!

iblismerah

kawin je
:pompom: :pompom: :pompom: :pompom: :pompom: :pompom:

iblismerah

cakap mak banyak betul dari cakap bf.... bf tak pikir lain diaorang cuma nak main apum kau jer...

under_13

bagus la parents awak wat cm2.

2 tndenye parents awak syg kat awak..

indah1285

nyesal baca............

acid_angel

Originally posted by owenkatz at 28-12-2007 09:00 AM


setuju sesangat dengan this comment. parents always have the children best interest at heart. tho may be the way they go about it is a bit annoying.

i think to make you understand and r ...

my parents bukan jns yg nak dgr opinion org lain....
whatever u say, it doesn't make sense to them...
im not the kind yg melwan cakap..
i turut je apa yg diorang nak...
just sometime,i really need them to listen to me...
but never once..

acid_angel

Originally posted by generasi2 at 28-12-2007 12:39 PM
kor nih cuba berfikir secara matang sket..!! nmpk sgt kor tak matang, itu yang kor tak paham mak kor punyer perbuatan tuh!...so, tunggu besar sket, kor pasti akan mengerti.....for the time being, ...

maybe it's true that i'm not matang yet...
28 is not as besar as your 'besar' yet??
they don't believe anyone can love me s much s they do...
i don't know about it...maybe it's true...maybe it's not...
berjalan jauh???!!!...i've been away from my parents since i was 18...
staying alone...doin' my studies...tu pun i tak pernah tak dgr cakap diorang...

thx btw 4 ur comment..