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I am in a huge predicament, yesterday my spouse found out my journal that i hide somewhere at home.
He read it and i have written nasty things bout him in it and it involves my ex (like how much he is better than him)
I was beyond angry at that time and does not mean anything i wrote in it.
It was because i found out how he contacted his ex and i saw some of the msgs that is totally killing me.
He is pissed with me and i ask him to forgive me and in my defence the journal is personal and
that is just part of me to release my anger that's the way i deal with stuff sometimes.
Man out there, if it happens to you, whatt would you do and tell me how can i fix this mess? Help me! |
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Sorry dude! i just nak opinion all the guys out there.
Saya terkantoi dengan hubby dlm diary ada kutuk dia.
That time betul2 tengah marah dgn dia (cuz dia contact balik ex)
Dlm diary tu macam2 harsh words. (Biasalah tengah marah lagipun it was few weeks ago -lama dah)
My hubby tengah marah as dia bru find out semalam he admit itu satu penghinaan yang i kutuk dia macam2 tue.
Itu hanyalah tempat i nak melepaskan geram, doesn't mean anything.
Tolong give me an idea, macamana nak fix problem ni? |
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He wants to show the journal to my dad.
Nak minta my dad's opinion as a man.
Klu ur wife simpan journal or blog ker utk rasa ketidakpuasan hati, will you read it?
(It's personal as no one is suppose to take a peek in yr journal) |
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nak tanya sket?...yg u pun buat benda tu cam BIG deal sgt kenapa?...relax lahhh, u kena relax baru aura "relax" tu sampai kat dia
semua org ada cara nak luahka rasa kecewa esp kaum isteri...cuma lelaki aje yg pilih utk berdiam diri kecuali manak sebab dia suka meroyan ...jadi sekarang nie medium yg u gunakan adalah kat atas journal...so be it lah drp u kongsi dgn kawan atau sedara mara...
tapi bab2 memuji ur EX tu...i takleh nak cakap apalah, setahu i ...pompuan nie bila dah jadi isteri, semua ex2 dia buang dlm longkang.... |
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Everyone is saying that it is a small matter,
the reason why i puji my ex cause dia pergi contact balik ex dia
just rasa geram jer, actually my hubby is 100 times better than my ex |
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Originally posted by kecibung_abang at 11-3-2008 11:20 AM 
Everyone is saying that it is a small matter,
the reason why i puji my ex cause dia pergi contact balik ex dia
just rasa geram jer, actually my hubby is 100 times better than my ex
there u go...give the same answer to him ....
tips, jgn menampakkan u bersalah... |
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aku ada blog aku sdirik, purposely utk aku luahkan perasaan geram menyampah meluat getik rasa nak tembak2 pakai senapang patah, rindu kasih, sayang etc etc khasss utk laki aku...
and aku saja saja jek kekadang tinggalkan the page opened, so, ala ala nak kasik hb aku terrrrrrbaca.....(boleh create war saper yg tak saba)...
aku rasa dier penah baca punyer, tp dier nie mcm tadek perasaaannggg pon...tak penah tanyer pasal tue...jadik blog luahan perasaan tue dah lama aku tak hapdet....
aku rasa dlm kes ko nie, ntah ek, kalau aku, aku wat bodo ajek...ini privacy aku, walau dah kawin ker belom ker, privacy sbg individu tue mesti ada........kena paham2 lah sket...yg pegi sebok baca personal diary tue watper?
kalau aku, aku tak justify aper aper...soh dier pk sdirik pakai otak....
[ Last edited by tina^^ at 11-3-2008 12:02 PM ] |
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Reply #10 manakautau's post
dok aiihhh....dia tak buang pun gambar sesapa sebab dia takde EX
dia pun tak kisah i keep gambar sesapa, sebab dia selalu "perasan dia BAGUS"  |
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Thanks for yr advice, tentang gambar ex dia dari dulu dia dah bakar sebelum kahwin
tp when i know that he contact his ex siap jumpa lagi
tu yg takleh control perasaan ni |
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Reply #1 kecibung_abang's post
bukan ko ker yg laki dia tak keja tuh... pastuh ko marah/ hina dia... la nih dia takmo kat ko lagik?  |
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It was a long time ago and we've settled and patched things up.
Sekarang dia tengah marah pasal journal tu jer.
He loves me but only mad at me. got it? |
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setelah aku bacer balik thread lamer ko... >> Masih ada cinta ke? - http://forum3.cari.com.my/viewth ... &extra=page%3D6
aper ker hei nyer nak mintak opinion your dad as a guy plak? menda nih bukan antara korang berdua jer ke? kalo nak cerita, lain hal... nih siap nak tunjuk bukti pulak... dah takder sgt kawan lelaki lain ker untuk bincang??
aku rasa, dia nak bacer kan kat ayah ko sebab nak justify kenapa dia dah tawar hati kat ko ler agak nyer... kesian ko... dah ader ammo baru plak laki ko nih...  |
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