Moving back to Malaysia - bye bye London..

rockabebe

After almost 11 years di London... kami sekeluarga has decided to move back to Malaysia for good. Tentatively, bulan May ni is the month yg we will make our move. Skg ni dlm proses jual rumah di sini, beli barang, packing barang, and macam-macam lagi.. As for me, rasa nervous, excited, anxious semuanya ada..As for my daughter, hari-hari tanya why do we have to move back as she will miss all her friends, her teachers and school. Penat sungguh nak jawab..  Tahun baru ni, negara baru, rumah baru di Malaysia, suasana baru and alhamdullilah ada bakal kedatangan org baru di bulan September..

Kalau sapa-sapa ada pengalaman pindah semula ke Malaysia and boleh share your experience with me, that would be great.

myohmy

welcome home...harap dpt membawa yg +ve utk dishare oleh kami disini

Eddlisa_uyuk

sedihnyer kan.....nak tinggalkan london....

myself sendiri pun dr bedford..... dah masuk 4thn balik tinggal di malaysia nih....

sedih sgt2 laaa cos tinggalnya byk hal/benda kat sana....cos i lahir, study....membesar di sana....
kira2 23 thn lebih kurang laaa +- lagi...tinggal kat tmpt lain area england....UK.....

balik to malaysia cos ikut parent yg nak tinggal balik kat malaysia...& dpt kerja lak sini....

dtg sni kira byk pengorbanan kena bt.....terutama my slang masih pekat ....
kena tahan cuaca panas.....kena tukar cara trend sini....so far i ok je gan apa yg dah i bt kat sini......
cuma rindukan tmpt lama laagi.....byk kenangan tuhhh

sarah_jane09

Kesian kat anak you sure dia akan rasa sedih bila dah lama tinggal di London.

Hope dia dapat sesuaikan diri.

long

gud luck! nanti balik m'sia rock nak dok maner? KL ke? tumpang xcited

BingkaUbi

Originally posted by Eddlisa_uyuk at 20-3-2008 01:11 AM
sedihnyer kan.....nak tinggalkan london....

myself sendiri pun dr bedford..... dah masuk 4thn balik tinggal di malaysia nih....

sedih sgt2 laaa cos tinggalnya byk hal/benda kat sana.... ...

problem kannn.....kat anak2 la kannn........anak aku yg sulung membesar kat sini, yg no. 2 ngan 3 lahir kat sini.......cakap melayu bley tp biler buat ayat.......buku dalam meja, ambil kapal terbang balik msia, duduk tepi kerusi

lilo_kill

welcome home

amsterdam

welkam home rockabebe sekeluarga....

ahkim1

selamat pulang ke tanah air
dan menempuh  lebaran kehidupan baru
di bumi bertuah mesia...

rockabebe

Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 22-3-2008 06:12 AM



problem kannn.....kat anak2 la kannn........anak aku yg sulung membesar kat sini, yg no. 2 ngan 3 lahir kat sini.......cakap melayu bley tp biler buat ayat.......buku dalam meja, ambil  ...

Ha tu le.. anak Rock, si meisha lahir kat sini.. walau baru 6 thn umur dia..but she is very matured...cakap melayu pun macam mualaf...kesian lak kat dia.. she never liked malaysia every time she was there.. we are bracing ourselves for crisis nanti.. tiap kali balik Msia.. kesian sungguh tengok dia.. badan turun 1/3 dari berat biasa.. muka penuh dgn kudis sebab kena gigit nyamuk..and rambut sentiasa basah sebab selalu berpeluh sebab panas.. Cakap omputih pun..org tak paham sgt dia sebab English accent..bila cakap melayu, sepupu sepupu gelakkan.. kesian sungguh   

I think lama jugak nak kena adapt tu.. even for us yg parents ni pun kena adapt balik to so many things..traffic jam.. ahli keluarga, cara hidup malaysia.. etc etc etc...

rockabebe

To lilo_kil, amsterdam and ahkim...

Thank you very much   We will try our best and berdoa to Allah that our moves will be smooth and our perjalanan hidup di Malaysia akan diberkati and dipenuhi dgn kejayaan.. Insya allah.. nervous, excited, anxious..semuanya ada..

rockabebe

Originally posted by sarah_jane09 at 21-3-2008 07:32 AM
Kesian kat anak you sure dia akan rasa sedih bila dah lama tinggal di London.

Hope dia dapat sesuaikan diri.

Tu le.. kesian sungguh kat dia.. almost every day bergaduh dgn dia.. she said it;s not fair on her that she has to leave all her friends, her teachers, her school.. she doesn't understand the language..she doesn't like the food and the weather .. yg tak larat tu.. bila kita kata.. we have to go back to our home country..dia cakap "but that is your country and daddy's country.. not my country. I was born in London.. London is my home".. Adussss Tu baru 6 thn tu.. Dah tak larat nak gaduh.. pusing-pusing kat situ gak..

We thought it's the right time for her to go.. kalau tunggu lebih lama.. perang dunia ke-3 nanti..

LVgirl

Originally posted by rockabebe at 25-3-2008 08:01 PM


Tu le.. kesian sungguh kat dia.. almost every day bergaduh dgn dia.. she said it;s not fair on her that she has to leave all her friends, her teachers, her school.. she doesn't understand the ...

Rock...I don;t know why I rasa sympathy dekat anak you.As a mother I cannot imagine kalau this thing happen to my kids.
I harap you tabah dan anggap apa yg terjadi ni mesti ada hikmah nyer.

ev700

Dear Rock,

Banyak benda juga yang you perlu settlekan, to settle the child down, you kena settle down dulu, emotionally. You r lucky sbb anak you belum masuk proper school lagi di Msia nnt ( 6 thn baru tadika, kan).

Give her some 'time' to adjust, some kids ambil masa lama and some others kejap je. Ttg ckp melayu or english tu, bukan maslaah besar sbb budak2 cepat je adapt dgn persekitarannya.  

Psl kena gigit nyamuk dan berpeluh2 tu mmg mula2 akan nampak anak kita comot... after 2-3 months, physiology anak ( dan kita) akan adapat dgn cuaca malaysia. Rumah yang nak tinggal di Msia nnt pasang aircond ( 1.5 HP and above    siap2... If balik kampung, cepat2 mlm2 sapu insect repellent tu banyak2. My experinec nyamuk mmg prefer my kids compared to their cousins bila balik kampung - nak rasa darah england kot.

Anak2 mmg sukakan persekolah dan sistem Uk sampai bila2 pun, mcm langit dgn bumi bila compare dgn system msia, unless if u boleh hantar ke international school which there are vast options nowadays in msia, ISKL, Alice Smith, AIS, Tanarata ( to name afew)....

At this moment U kena tanamkan sifat cintakan Msia kat yr kid. Jgn sampai dia balik sini nnt dia still rasa bangga dgn England, nnt dia susah nak adapt dan kwn2 akan suka mengejek dia. Dekat sekolah she'll definitely komen psl their teacher's and friend's 'doenst makes sense ' english... Kena pandai2lah explain yang english is not their (our) mother tounge.

Yang lain2 tu.. dont worry to much... Nak settle down kat tanah tumpah darah sendiri tak susah... If u boleh survive 11 years in England, let alonelah Malaysia.
Saya baru pulang juga after so many yrs there and a gerabak of children.

Eddlisa_uyuk

Originally posted by ev700 at 26-3-2008 02:10 PM
Dear Rock,

Banyak benda juga yang you perlu settlekan, to settle the child down, you kena settle down dulu, emotionally. You r lucky sbb anak you belum masuk proper school lagi di Msia nnt ( 6 ...

yes.... rock....ambil nasihat ev700 nih...byk ajaran berguna nih...

tp bab2 nyamuk tuh...saya sendiri pun tak leh tahan...

anakbugis

rockabebe..

selamat kembali ke tanahair dan menempuh hidup yang berlainan dari tempat orang... memang akan ambil masa nak sesuaikan diri balik dengan kehidupan di Malaysia, dengan cuaca, cara kerja, hidup, sekolah dan lain-lain, tapi, Insya Allah... segalanya akan jadi okay... as for your daughter tu, masih kecil... tak ada masalah... mula-mula dia akan rebel gak, tapi lama-lama dia akan faham yang Malaysia adalah tempat daddy, mummy dan juga dia...

saya pun teringin nak balik hidup kat Malaysia tapi lambat lah rasanya, itupun kalau dapat convincekan hubby...

cheapmon

napa aku plak yg mcm rasa nak sgt dok obersea...mcm best jer dgr/tgk org dok sana...exp aku kat US dan amsterdam pun rasa mcm best jer....aku plak payah nak convince suami utk carik kerja kat sana.ekekee...

cucoq

Hi rockebabe,
Bagi I malaysia lagi best. walaupun duduk sini semuanya ok tapi memory childhood lagi best di Malaysia. Dulu kecik2 balik mengaji Quran ramai2. tapi sini tak semeriah macam Malaysia. UK ni ajar orang jadi terlalu independent sampai kita tak perlukan bantuan orang lain. In a way bagus..tapi terlalu independent sampai jadi sombong kadang2. Perasaan takut mat-mat saleh ni byk sgt. kalau kita orang asia, sentiasa ramah dan rapat dengan saudara mara. Sini, orang pun takut2 nak baik.
Pendek kata, Malaysia lagi best la...buleh lepak teh tarik, kopitiam selalu. sini dok teperok dlm rumah jer. playground buleh main tiap2 hari. kalau kat sini main waktu summer jer.