What questions would be useful for you ?

leogal_1428

What questions would be useful for you to ask yourself on a regular basis?

Two of my favorites are at once the simplest and most powerful in helping me overcome challenges: "What's great about this?" and "How can I use this?"

Asking the first question disrupts negative momentum and reminds me that we can choose to attach any meaning whatsoever to an experience.

Asking the second question focuses me on the "how" rather than the "why," on solutions and benefits rather than the unanswerable.

What two questions could you start using to change your states and access your resources? Add these to your Morning Power Questions so that they become an integral part of your daily ritual for success.

Agul

could you let it go?
would you let it go?
when?


what is the want behind that feeling?
could you let  it go?

[ Last edited by  Agul at 10-5-2008 11:21 AM ]

matamata

"how to get it done?"

mbhcsf

hmm..what is the bigger picture?
what 's missing?
why?
how?

yaszz

Why I'm doing this, what goal?
What's better, how's to improve.
What's lacking, how to sort / overcome.

my-alja

which one is ur choice?...dealing with kid nowdays

what is my priority?...

add one more... ..why me?

[ Last edited by  my-alja at 5-5-2008 09:03 PM ]

RedAlert

A question that I always ask due to the nature of my job....

"So what?"

mbhcsf

some important question to us may not be important to others , well again this depends on the context...

like if there is an immature being being challenged by asking him / her to think ....then it is perceived  as being negative, so is it our school system or the way we brought up?

mbhcsf

okay the next petinent question :


how would others view one question? interesting ni

dutchy

WHY ~ I like to asked myself this Q countless times in a day

the Q is always for the +ve and the -ve of things

why something turns our ok, and vice versa, and then I'll try to remember it, so that the bad things does not cloud the good things

courtney_xo

'Are you ready to get defeat from her?'

and absolutely my answer extremely NO!

redsinner

i used to ask myself that then i realized the twist of it.
so now i start all of my questions with HOW instead of WHY.

i think the principle was based the thousand years old anecdote: "You give a man a fish, he will eat for a day. You teach man how to fish, he will eat for his lifetime."   

thamrong

Who am I? Very fundamental yet difficult to answer.

hamizao

I do. Amongst all the uncertainties of life, I have always wondered whether the decisions I have made in the course of my life have been correct. Should I split hair and do a post-mortem after each decision is made or just let it be as it has been made after all and let time be the judge of it? Nevertheless, in important matters it would normally be best if it would be possible to work out the best possible decision, risks involved  backup plan.

In essense, I believe that if I am moved  to do something by the forces of the day, there is usually a good reason for it.

Agul

Why, in the end, we all dies.

rejoice!

Agul

Oh, another question, which may be too unsettling for most people is, "What am I?" Usually it's who am I but What am I are more profound.

hamizao

Originally posted by Agul at 6-6-2008 10:13 PM
Why, in the end, we all dies.

rejoice!

Sure, Agul. I have always held that life is a gift. So, be glad, be happy. So those who believe that life is a punishment...for something we hadn't done...move off!

seribulan

As Sherlock would say ... sumthin' a bit like this...

Answer is easy...it's is the question that is hard...

Maru

I've learned this in my Uni years, never assume anything. Question the assumption, that's when you see that the answer everyone sees may not be the answer at all. My professor, a very very critical man used to call that critical thinking 101.

cokkodok

lately aku banyak tanya diri aku soalan ni. "Betul ke keputusan yang bakal aku buat ni?" dan sampai sekarang soalan tu tak berjawab. Aku cuba nak mintak pendapat dari orang yang lebih berpengalaman dari aku but my other half kurang bersetuju. Mungkinkah dia pun macam aku, takut untuk terima akibat daripada keputusan aku tu?