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Assalamualaikum. Been here quite a while, tapi just setakat baca post by other friends.. N i tertarik to share mine here.
Here we go; I've been with this guy for 8 years, and we decided to get married last year lepas Raya, My husband nie boleh di categorykan a very successful guy dalam usia muda, earning 5 digit , duit tak menjadi masalah, not good looking but sweet talker and charming,driving an expensive car...this problem terjadi bile one day he came back from his out station trip to Jakarta, i mmg terasa something is not right, wife's instinct, n ntah macammana after 3 days dia balik KL, one day nie as early as 5.00am i dah terbangun, i dah tak leh continue tido, i then check his phone.i terjumpa sms from one Indo no..macam flirting with him, i carik gak sms lain, sent sms but theres nothing. Tapi knowing my husband nie capable of doing it, i pun call minah tu pagi pagi tu jugak.i bukak smua lampu, n stand next to him while talking to that Bitch,she's really a whore,n dia mengaku she's a GRO. Laki i yg terkebil2 n muka blur buat buat tak kenal n dont know who is that woman. After i tanya banyak kali, he still with his answer, i left home at 6.15am to my mum's place who happen dalam satu daerah, nasib baik jugak lah. that is one..and ada lagi hal nyer yg dia buat
Benda nie tak habis kat sini jer, i also found out that he's flirting with his colleague kat office dia. I tau sbb i pernah nampak sms between diorg but malas nak bising, macam i take it they are just frens.But according to the girl, nothing happen between them.
i duduk umah my mum for 5 weeks then only dia dtg carik i...appologise and wanna make things right kata nya this time. i admit, i tetap sayang dia, but the trust is not there anymore.i dah dgn dia dari masa dia susah n now dia senang dia buat macam nie. I actually dah ambik lawyer to proceed with divorce, but have to put it on hold due to some reasons. Is there any way / agreement yg boleh buat between us for example Pre Nuptial Agreement ker just to give me some assuarance for myself like bukan dari segi harta, tapi like kalau dia buat lagi, he have to let me go (divorce) sbb skrg he's not willing to divorce me, dia kata dia sanggup naik turun mahkamah tp takkan cerai kan i, unless i bg dia one last chance, kalau jadi jugak, he will let me go...
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erm....
semoga hubungan kalian akan bertambah baik...
meh ler sama2 berdoa dalam bulan yg mulia ini...
amin
<me taktau nak komen sangat,tak kawen lagik > |
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I agree with this..but i though he's busy with work sbb he's always busy kata nya..kluar umah kul 8 balik kul 11 ; Monday to Friday, Sat and Sunday always insist of hanging out with his frens, without them dia tak nak buat apa ...
4 signs of husbands having an affair:
1. spending more and more time away from home
2. having less sex with wife
3. avoiding contacts with wife, i.e: avoid answering your calls, messages etc.
4. always critisizing the wife |
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Reply #2 auntie_girl's post
gegerl 
takutkan? |
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thank u for your comment...i appreciate it.
Itu yg i buat skrg, dekat kan diri ngan tuhan, buat solat hajat n isythikarah supaya dapat panduan n jalan penyelesaian. Ni bulan baik kan, i dont wanna miss the opportunity.Tak larat sgt sgt nak go through again benda macam nie...tapi takut gak kena main lagi. |
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Reply #5 mayakarin78's post
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jalan terbaik. jgn masalah sikit, terus minta cerai. berbincang secara baik, buat solat hajat banyak2.. semoga suami di beri hidayah... |
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tak lah , sbb nya banyak benda lain yg terjadi, yg i anggap agak remeh..so bila jadi nie dia dah accumulate smua so this is what happened lah |
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bagi dia 1 lagi peluang... TAPI... pastikan buat taklik tambahan...yg menyatakan kalau dia ulangi menda yg sama, jatuh talak 1... |
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Reply #3 mayakarin78's post
not necessarily though no 1 & 2 suami tu memang kureng sikit..tapi saya yakin 100% suami tu bukan jenis curang..he is too busy with work & study to consider having an affair..lagipun dia akan telefon 2-3 times a day walaupun sibuk dgn pesakit dia....once you don't have trust in your partner, thats it la..
as for you mayakarin..semoga tabah dan selalu sembahyang istikharah mintak petunjuk.. |
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kalu bole u baiki hbungan antara u n hubby,pncerain sbenarnya bkn jalan yg terbaik...byk2 kan buat ibadat,solat hajat..di bulan yg baik ni perbanyakkan amalan...why not u discuss with your hubby..so slow talk dgn baik...cari jalan penyelesaian..umahtangga u masih baru..bole diperbaiki lagi..isnyallah..i doakan u bhagia.. |
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Originally posted by mayakarin78 at 13-9-2008 12:22 PM 
I agree with this..but i though he's busy with work sbb he's always busy kata nya..kluar umah kul 8 balik kul 11 ; Monday to Friday, Sat and Sunday always insist of hanging out with his frens, wi ...
what u said abt 4 signs having an affair is so much true...me klu hubby balik dari jakarta, selalu careful sket..sometimes i follow him klu dia outstation sana..bukan apa i just be cautious..since u baru kawin jangan bercerai dulu. try to find solution kenapa dia jadi camtu.there must be a reason. lagi satu attitude dia yg suka hangout with friends is no longer applicable esp. dia dah berumahtangga. should concentrate more on family besok klu ada anak attitude tu dah tak leh buang lagi.. |
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asyik mention cerai cerai cerai ni,,, maya pasti boleh ke hidup lebih bahagia bila bercerai? ugut suami eh? kahiwn pun tak sampai setahun lagi, dah boleh cakap pasal cerai-cerai. kahiwn dulu sbb cinta ke ape?banyakkan bersabar dgn karenah suami. biasalah awal2 perkahwinan, nak cr keserasian. kalau sayangkan suami, doakanlah sentiasa yang terbaik dan kenalah percaya, tapi bila dah takde kepercayaan, itu yg bawa masalah. semua manusia melakukan kesilapan, maafkanlah... |
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cubalah cr punca masalah ni dulu before nak cerai2...
u pun maya...have to ask ur hubby, apa dia nak kat rumah sb u cakap dia suka keluar week-end, hang around with friends...tanya dia, apa dia buat dgn friends..kalo dia karaoke, beli karaoke set kat umah, karaoke sama...kalo suka lepak2 coffee-bean, u ajak dia pi sana dgn u..kalo suka pegi club, u pegi sekali dgn dia (org laki ni bukan leh halang!)..kalo dia suka pegi gym, u join sekali...pendek kata, watever he likes, u join in...
wat u intend to do dr segi taklik tu takde masalah tapi cam u just nak tunggu masa je nak cerai..
lebih baik u cari punca masalah dan try to rectify it...
sit down with him..and ask him wat he wants..tell him u'r willing to follow wat he wants... |
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sayangnya.. baru setahun jagung dah nak mintak cerai..
pikir baik baik, buat solat hajat, isktiharah.. mintak petunjuk.. ala banyak cara lagi nak lembutkan hati suami..
maksud aku bukan main bomoh tapi doa.. atau maleh sangat nak doa.. zikirkan Ya Latiff pada air minuman dia, makanan dia, biar lembut hati dia dan tak flirt lagi ngan mana mana pompuan...
Then, lepas ni mana mana dia outstation, ko usahakan supaya ikut sekali.. biar ko aje penghibur dia.. jangan bagi dia carik GRO lagik |
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jadik bontot dah ler..
laki ko pun mampu, ko tak yah kerja.. mana dia pi ko followwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww jer..
hb ko aku rasa, perlukan 'teman' jer tuh..
so, ko boleh jadi teman yanggg palingggggg dekat ngan dia kan?
btw.. 8 tawon berkawan, tak kan kawen blom sampei 1 tawon nak cerai berai just bcoz of that.. lagi ler dia dah janji nak berubah kan?.. kasik chance ler.. last chance kekdahnya..
then, pandei2 ler hb ko ubati hati ko yang dah luka tuh.. ko pulak, jangan terlalu mendesak lar.. tak yah layan sangat hati luka bagai.. hidup mesti diteruskan.. as well dia dah berjanji nak berubah pun dah cukup bagus..
harap semuanya ok2 yea.. |
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kalau suami kaya jadila secretary dia
takpun you mintak duit dia u elaun tiap2 bulan
then followwwww dia g mana2....
masa bcinta takkan tak tau dia ne mata keranjang ke tak??
8 th tue bcintakan??? |
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Originally posted by nighunter71 at 13-9-2008 09:11 PM 
ini semua masalah kecik...
dia kan sucessful man...hidup you terjamin..tanggungjawab dia sebagai suami tak pernah kurang..
so apa masalahnya..?
Korang tak leh jadi macam pompuan cina ...
racist neh!!  |
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aahh betul buat mcm amoi cina
pastu jdla mcm kes menteri cina tue
opss ex menteri cina yg kes pita lucah tue...
janji duit bulan2 masuk ye?? |
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Post time 13-9-2008 12:04 PM
变色卡
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