Women in a relationship...Your worst enemy...Denial..

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 06:41 AM

If you're a women and in a relationship...
you should read this..
it's really important and you should know about this

I'm sorry...I seem to be kinda like a double standard kind of person..
but...just look..in FD...
mostly women here yapped about their problems..

the main problem is that
some of these women...they can't handle the truth..
and are in denial...they are being so overly defensive...

let me tell ya something...

if you're in denial...being defensive...and you can't handle the truth...
don't post...don't share your problems...here..or any place for that matter...

what's the point of sharing about your problems...and wanting an improvement...
but you keep on blocking rationality..giving excuse..and repeating the same thing all over again...
and lastly you want it to stay like that and just ignore everything..?

don't waste other ppl time..
don't waste their credits...

you're seeking the truth...but when those who speak the truth..
you'll push it away...

nighunter71 · Post time 31-10-2008 07:04 AM

Originally posted by manakcirit at 31-10-2008 06:41 AM
If you're a women and in a relationship...
you should read this..
it's really important and you should know about this

I'm sorry...I seem to be kinda like a double standard kind of person..
...

RedAlert · Post time 31-10-2008 07:05 AM

Hiburan pagi jumaat kaper?

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 07:05 AM

Originally posted by nighunter71 at 31-10-2008 07:04 AM

excuse me...
why are you laughing?

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 07:07 AM

Originally posted by RedAlert at 31-10-2008 07:05 AM
Hiburan pagi jumaat kaper?

pesal?

pesal korg ketawa2 nih?
what's so funny about the article?

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 07:20 AM

aku salu heran...
klu laki....how do they take it?
aku salu baca problem pompuan jerk kat FD nih...
mostly pompuan...they will go thru a denial stage...

semua kejahatan laki tuh telah buat...
they tend to ignore it...

it's like...when a brick falls...you ignore it..
lama2...the walls comes crashing down...

baru tersedar...
i've seen this in many...

buka thread...konon nak minta tolong...
konon nak minta org tunjok the truth..
lepas org tunjok the truth...

terus buat2 tak peduli...

why open a thread?
why don't we make up a rule...kat segala bod..yg ada relationship problem..

klu dorg agree ngan term semua...
baru dorg bley buka thread...

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 08:09 AM

are you ppl laughing cos...nick aku ader the word...
CIRIT ka...

first off i'm new here....i have a female dog...called Manak...
i love her sooooooo muchhhhhhh...
klu ada kebetulan nama sapa2 kat sini sama ngan nick aku..
aku minta maaf...cos...it has nothing to do with anybody..

bahkan yg hidup and mati...

Cirit tuh...cos...my dog..dier ada problem...
salu berak Cirit..

so...i made a nick...called...Manakcirit..
so misteri nick aku nih dah solve..

pls let's get on with the real issue here...

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Mulan · Post time 31-10-2008 08:10 AM

take a chill pill, babe.

or better take a whole bottle of them.

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 08:13 AM

Originally posted by Mulan at 31-10-2008 08:10 AM
take a chill pill, babe.

or better take a whole bottle of them.

hello there...
here's a bottle of pills for you too...
but it's not for you to take it orally...though..
it's for you to stick it to the other end, dear

do you have any comments about the article?

[ Last edited by manakcirit at 31-10-2008 08:21 AM ]

Mulan · Post time 31-10-2008 08:18 AM

there's a ring of truth, actually - about ppl being in denial.

however, it's their prerogative to accept/reject others' suggestion, because at the end of the day, it IS THEIR LIVES.

once we give advice (which should be delivered WITH HIKMAH), our responsibility is done. for me, it is ENOUGH.

[ Last edited by Mulan at 31-10-2008 10:24 AM ]

qurnia · Post time 31-10-2008 08:22 AM

denial is the best defense ......
to keep on surviving in the already brutal world........

what else wud the women use?
if she were to meroyan.......how many can listen?

buDak_gaTaL · Post time 31-10-2008 08:28 AM

hmmm....muhasabah diri, jgn fikir diri tu je baik, kalu fikir sendiri baik tu yg jd masalah

xnk bertolak ansur, bila ditegur perasan sendiri ajer bagus

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 08:33 AM

Originally posted by qurnia at 31-10-2008 08:22 AM
denial is the best defense ......
to keep on surviving in the already brutal world........

what else wud the women use?
if she were to meroyan.......how many can listen?

i disagree..
have you ever step into Ayang68 thread...she meroyan quite a lot...
everybody listens to her yappin...the RA went up

have you ever watch Oprah..
there was this episode..
there was this lady...

at first...she deny all the signs..for example..
his bf...always..shout at her..things like that..

but at the time when they got married...
his husband became more aggressive and started to hit her..
but...she'd stick with the guy..
her mom...advice her...to get a divorce ..

and then...lastly...the guy set the lady on fire..

you get hit by a brick...then you ignore it..
then...when the wall comes crumbling down on you...you..still ignore...
and then...when the whole house crumbles...

then...it's probably be too late...

mala0n · Post time 31-10-2008 08:34 AM

i guess bila dah terkena btg idung sendiri, baru tau why ppl react the way they do

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 08:34 AM

Originally posted by buDak_gaTaL at 31-10-2008 08:28 AM

hmmm....muhasabah diri, jgn fikir diri tu je baik, kalu fikir sendiri baik tu yg jd masalah

xnk bertolak ansur, bila ditegur perasan sendiri ajer bagus

what is muhasabah?

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 08:35 AM

Originally posted by mala0n at 31-10-2008 08:34 AM
i guess bila dah terkena btg idung sendiri, baru tau why ppl react the way they do

already been there..
and survived..

truly · Post time 31-10-2008 08:38 AM

Originally posted by mala0n at 31-10-2008 08:34 AM
i guess bila dah terkena btg idung sendiri, baru tau why ppl react the way they do

I like this one. berpada pada la nak bagi nasihat kat orang. orang tu lebih tau. memang la buka thread, supaya boleh dengar others point of view, tapi in rthe end, kita sendiri decide based on pengalaman kita, situasi kita, apa yg kita dengar.

bukan masalah denial. masalah kita sendiri lebih arif.

yg bagi nasihat pulak...tak boleh la claim thats the truth. itu persepsi dia. thats all

manakcirit · Post time 31-10-2008 08:42 AM

kat fd ni...pompuan jerk meroyan...how bout men...depa ada macam ni ka?

klu laki ni...tengok sign2 bini dier curang..

contoh...sorok2 telefon semua...

mummyslove · Post time 31-10-2008 08:43 AM

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