How do you know if the guy is really for you?

manganini

pengalaman bercinta dgn 3 org bf, semuanya jerk.. one of them is total jerk!

kenal husband dari gambar je.. first time tengok je dpt impression dia seorang yg baik.. seorang yg boleh dipercayai.. seorang yg takkan buat banyak masalah.. seorang yg reliable..

mungkin sebab memang jodoh, datang keberanian utk hantar mesej..

dipendekkan cerita, tak lama pastu kawin.. hehe

sekarang dah dekat 10 tahun.. my first impression is right

agaknya bila banyak kali jumpa pasir, baru nampak macam mana rupa permata..

ifanonline

for ladies, the choice of choosing the right guy is always a battle between the mind and the heart...the mind says YES, but the heart says NO..and vice versa..

so how do you balance that? the solution to the problem is to get the mind to say YES and the heart to say YES to...but this two aspects of the logical and intuitive choices rarely co-insides...

90% of the time, women will follow their intuitive instincts, that is the heart...but how do combine the intuitive feelings with the logical choice?

veYron

“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don't blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being "in love", which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”
― Louis de Bernières, Captain Corelli's Mandolin

dari dlu mmg suka quote ni, mendalam sngt maksud dia. how do you know if he/she is the one. mmg susah nak jwb, kadang2 kita jumpa org yg ngam dgn kita, boleh brckp dgn kita dari segi intelektual dan spiritual tapi kita akan second-guess with this person sbb dia akan paksa kita kuar dari zona nyaman kita, klu ikut dari bacaan iols, kita selalu akan pilih atau jatuh hati dgn org yg buat kita rasa familiar, contoh klu pompuan tu dibesarkan oleh bapa yg garang, dia akan jtuh cinta dgn lelaki yg tegas. Atau diorg ni ada masalah yg lebih kurang sama, sorg ada masalah dgn kepercayaan, sorg ada masalah dgn insecurity tp of course x semua org mcm tu.

finiez

when he is enough..

maksud i bile mana u dah tak terpikir pn nak cari yg lain, or wondering will there b a better guy than him

terma2nkondisi2

finiez replied at 19-1-2017 12:04 PM
when he is enough..

maksud i bile mana u dah tak terpikir pn nak cari yg lain, or wondering will  ...

belum kawin belum tau.. dah kawin baru tau cukup ka tak

tokmanting

terma2nkondisi2 replied at 23-1-2017 11:47 PM
belum kawin belum tau.. dah kawin baru tau cukup ka tak

Cukup la tu

ifanonline

Sikap dan perangai seseorang manusia sebenarnya kita tidak akan tahu sepenuhnya...walaupun berkawan bertahun tahun...

but we can know his/her behaviour through observation and interaction..

love is not certain...full of uncertainty...

wana89

terma2nkondisi2 replied at 23-1-2017 11:47 PM
belum kawin belum tau.. dah kawin baru tau cukup ka tak

Ooo..
Kalo macam tu kena kahwin dulu baru tahu cukup ke tak?? Mcm tu..
Kalo xcukup, mcm mana

          

terma2nkondisi2

wana89 replied at 29-1-2017 12:08 PM
Ooo..
Kalo macam tu kena kahwin dulu baru tahu cukup ke tak?? Mcm tu..
Kalo xcukup, mcm mana  ...

kalau laki, boleh cukupkan dgn isi lagi tiga tempat kosong

kalau pompuan... tak dapek den nolong wana oi

ape2 pun.. den ghaso lah kan.. hamba2 Tuhan yg benar2 beriman akan akan sentiasa berasa cukup .. takkan timbul soal tak cukup   

wana89

terma2nkondisi2 replied at 9-2-2017 08:11 AM
kalau laki, boleh cukupkan dgn isi lagi tiga tempat kosong

kalau pompuan... tak dapek den ...

Hamboi..  :
Nak pasang empat tu  :

kekgebu

manganini replied at 10-1-2017 03:59 AM
pengalaman bercinta dgn 3 org bf, semuanya jerk.. one of them is total jerk!

kenal husband dari g ...

ahaks, betul la....
bila da jumpa bnyk jerk, baru kita pandai nk pilih yg betul2 punye.

sama la ngan iols.....siap terkenal masa study dulu bercinta plg epic.
mana tak epicnya, jantan tu ada gf da masa tu.... and masa iols da habis belajar, dia pi nikah ngn gf dia tu. hmmm... mmg epic nak mampos.

1st time kenal husband iols, masa pi vacation sama2, dia join kawan2 dia dari company i ni. sumpah, masa tu rasa mamat ni poyo giler. hikhik...tp mcm ada tarikan kt situ. iols awal2 lg da tanya dia, "ko da ada girlfren belum?"

huhuhu...tp tu la. jodoh tu kuat, dlm masa setahun bertunang, after 6month nikah. esok anniversary ke 4 tahun da.

Alhamdulillah...
Ape yg iols rasa dia betul2 really for me, bila dia bawa jumpa parents dia.
dia tak kisah i gemok, hitam masa tu. muka mmg tak penah nk makeup. dressup tah ape2. gigi berlubang siap berbau lagi. hehehe...
skang ni da kurus, makeup pon da bertambah2, pandai da makeup and dressup. gigi pon da bertampal takde bau2 da. hahahah

mystica

kekgebu replied at 14-2-2017 05:48 PM
ahaks, betul la....
bila da jumpa bnyk jerk, baru kita pandai nk pilih yg betul2 punye.

Aww so sweet la. Betul tu. Ramai yg i kenal mcm ni la. Perjlnan ke arah perkahwinan tu smooth je. Kalau dh jodoh

misc

Ni pulak kes melepas..ramai guys yg masa student malu2 nak luahkan cinta kat aku. tapi sekarang after more than 20 years. jumpa balik baru luah kan perasaaan dia suka kita sejak zaman student tapi malu. since masing2 ada keluarga sendiri so kitorang pakat2 gelak je lah pasal kisah lama. Dia rasa released lepas dah luahkan. but ayat standard crush kita dia sanggup tunggu sampai bila2. so boleh agak la dia still suka kat kita. tapi gila ke aper. lupa ke bini kat rumah tu. masing2 dah kategori  kubur kata mari dah.