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kalau holiday bertemankan mahram , i okay if not , well...i serahkan pada you.
first date?
ambik satu meje makan - and start talking - sesi taaruf , cakaplah siapa awak , kenali dia...
just make it a nice conversation je...like you kenal kawan you ...kawan je pun sebab nukan akad je...so bila u anggap org as human...and they dont know you then approach them nicely and senyum and bercakap la kot tentang apa apa - cuaca ke, isu semasa ke...and slowly get to know him secara bercanda santai gitu?
bagi natural course gitu |
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I think i am also pemalu dulu. Susahnya nk bercakap dgn lelaki yg kita minat atau diminati.
Hmm personally for the first date, i walked and walked with him while talking. Jalan2 tepi pantai sambil tangan duk pegang makanan kudap2 yg dijual di tepi2 pantai. Sambil jalan sambil sembang sambil makan sambil melayan angin pantai yg sepoi2. I felt more relaxed mcm tu n mcm no one is judging.
I mmg ade masalah nk makan kt restoran dgn org yg x brape rapat. Laki or perempuan ke i mmg x suke n x selesa makan together n people watch me eating. With family husband or close friends i ok jerr. Dunno why.
And for me walking together is a great way to talk for the first time. I mean we dont hv to look at each other all the time. Apepun good luck TT |
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Hi guys..
Since ada yang tanya update...so kita update la sikit..
So...the date did not happen pun..
Bakal tunang fever since wednesday.
Khamis nak pergi klinik its ph.
but until raya still x ok (jumaat) where he plan to came on saturday.
so pergi cari klinik bkak on that day, (lucky his friend ada yg tak balik raya) Dr said its viral fever.
Until today, his fever still tak kebah. so he's planning to go to clinic again today (on his way dah pun).
And kebetulan jgk adik saya tak dapat cuti pun for raya. tetiba cuti dia dibekukan sebab dia bujang lagi padahal dh approve before. so dia cuma akan start cuti esok.
We're planning, but Allah has plan too. Perancangan Allah tu lebih baik.
Actually this is the reason yg buat kitorang jarang nak meet plus the long distance.
Everytime plan mesti ada unexpected event.
Dia tak pernah demam teruk macam ni pun before this. Tak pernah demam pun lah sepanjang kitorang kenal. Headache sikit2 tu ada la.
Like masa 2nd time kitorang plan nk jumpa tu pun, supposed to be awal bulan. But tengah2 plan, i got news which my ummi (mak angkat) tenat and was in ICU.
Instead of meeting him that weekend, Im heading to Kelantan with my family.
Dia datang utara jugak because everything dh booked but with his friends and they have their weekend getaway.
So when he went back and tell his parent we could not meet up because I need to go to Kelantan, this is when they decide to come and merisik the next following week. So jadilah 2nd kitorg jumpa time merisik.
Ada yg kata sweet, tapi takde lah sweet sgt pun.
There's up and down jgk in our relationship. Plus dengan jarak jauh, you dont know what they're doing.
Mujur Allah tak pernah detikkan hati untuk bersangka buruk. Tak pernah terfikir benda buruk2 mcm dia keluar dgn org lain ke, ada org lain ke.
Maybe jgk sbb I've prepared my heart for the worst.
Jodoh kitorang nak jumpa2 ni pun tak berapa nak kuat.
Doakan yang baik2 je untuk kitorang ye. |
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makan makan dan makan.smbil tu bole borak2..hehe bwk la jln2 kt tmpt mnarik kt sana..lps tu tt bawk dia teman tt beli kan cenderahati or buah tgn utk family dia..kan sweet tu..hehe..bila tiba masa nya..waktu seakan mencemburui gittu..tau2 dah waktu balik..haha |
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Nnti jmpa.. leh p jln2 smbil beli buah tgn..
Ada org xsuka p tgk muvie.. xmanis ditmpat gelap.
Boleh p main bowling... xreti pn xpa.. sma2 blajar... lapaq? P mkn.. hahaha.. pastu balik.
Bg ceq.. elakkn window shopping.. ntah la mcm nmpk xmanis jer.. takut pihak sna pikir kita kaki kikis plk.. huuuuuu.. yelah otak org lain2 pmikirannya.. |
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nak tumpang thread..
first time nk keluar ngn org muda dari kita, cmne ye?
apa benda yg kita yg tua ni tak leh buat?  |
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TT tak stalk ke social media die??
Cube tgk IG die. Maybe from there you boleh tau apa minat die. |
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pinkpunk replied at 8-9-2017 11:46 AM
nak tumpang thread..
first time nk keluar ngn org muda dari kita, cmne ye?
Just be urself. I dated someone very young b4. If dia nk date kite, mesti dia suke kite, sbb kite. So y change ourself.
Good to know u r trying to move on. Muah skit |
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noraidil_06 replied at 9-9-2017 01:13 PM
Just be urself. I dated someone very young b4. If dia nk date kite, mesti dia suke kite, sbb kite ...
Thank you bebeh!! X jadi pun jumpa this week. Susah taw org gila bola ni. Hahaha
Pink baru taw beza 7 tahun. Aduhhh. Lagi muda 2 tahun dr adik bongsu pink. |
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pinkpunk replied at 9-9-2017 02:53 PM
Thank you bebeh!! X jadi pun jumpa this week. Susah taw org gila bola ni. Hahaha
Pink baru taw ...
X kisah la u. Janji serasi |
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noraidil_06 replied at 9-9-2017 03:02 PM
X kisah la u. Janji serasi
Orait will try my best. Enjoy your weekend |
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dah dating pun semalam... awkward at first, pelan2lah kayuh nk kenal. so dah tya dia, ok ke kuar ngn org tua. sblm ni ex gf pun tua dari dia. mmg taste dia kot. hahaha..
yg penting dia ckp meolls muka muda, pakai botok ke? 
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pinkpunk replied at 11-9-2017 09:08 AM
dah dating pun semalam... awkward at first, pelan2lah kayuh nk kenal. so dah tya dia, ok ke kuar n ...
Aummmm. Kalau suke stay la. Bg peluang kt dia ye. Suke sweet story mcm ni |
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pergi je jalan2 kat mall and makan2. sambil makan boleh bersembang kenal dengan diri masing2. |
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aummmm jugakkk... hahahah.. ye layan je takat ni. teror jugak kali ni. xsmpai sebulan dah ada pengganti.. hahaha.. yg penting every morning ada org wish. hahah
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g la main bowling ke.. main rileks2 campak2 pun ok.. bukan main beria2 punn.. sambil tu borak2 la
kalau g minum2.. mcm awkward plak.. and jnuh nak cari topik nk bebual
kalau main boling boleh la buiat point nk gelak2 ke.. tgk perangai masing2 ke..
or cari point cakap psal org sekeliling ke..
kalau penat or boring stop kejap minum2.. |
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last Saturday pegi date dengan someone i kenal kt portal cari jodoh
pegi lunch sama, then after that dia teman i pegi beli almari utk tenant baru
lepas tu ktorang pegi tengok movie sama2
paling menyampah, kt dlm cinema tu bole plak dia nak pegang2 tangan
pastu siap nak lentokkan kepala kt bahu.. pftttt
balik dari date tu terus block whatsapp / call etc
then Sunday morning, lepas mandi i nampak ada 2 misscalled from unknown
rupanya mamat tu.. dok merayu, pastu dia minta maaf
dia cakap dia feel guilty sbb takleh fully control
hmmm..... |
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klu kua ng bf slu tgk movie, jenjalan ng mkn je. jln kt mall, ke atau memane tmpt yg sesuai. pnh naik bukit tggi gak ng bf. seronok jgak spend time seharian then trun 
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dewimalam78 replied at 30-8-2017 10:08 PM
Sorang pendiam sorang reti sembang ye?
Klu soalan tu psl first date...ai rs just pegi makan sambil ...
Baca u punya kisah ni, teringat pulak my first date juga. Lebih kurang esp bab mkn mcd tu. Pasal dia tau i minat baca buku dan teringin sgt nak pi mph kat midvalley (masa tu tak pernah sampai midvalley lg), so dia ajak la pi situ. Kami jumpa di kl sentral then dari situ ke MV. Lepas ronda2 mph tu, pi balik kl sentral mkn mcd kat situ. Order bubur mcd je pasal malu nk mkn burger (same reason as u).tu pun tak habis mkn. Lepas tu terus balik arah masing2. Masa 1st date tu mmg rasa malu, tp sebab dah biasa ckp on the phone dan tulis surat (we were like pen-pal for the past 4 years prior to that), takde la rasa awkward sgt. |
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Post time 3-9-2017 08:26 AM
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