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Mudahan rasa ini kekal selamanya....
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Bahagia tu ikut kita sebenarnya.
Jika kita bahgia buat satu benda, buatla dengan sungguh2 dan happy.
Hati tk bahagia mcm jiwa tak tenang.
Serabut. Kusut.
Cari la apa masalah yang buat kita camtu...
Minta bantuan jika perlu. |
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vee_zara replied at 22-9-2021 04:52 PM
I rasa bahagia sgt sebab i banyak dah ubah hidup i. Contoh dulu almost every month will spent duit b ...
Suka baca post u sis. Alhamdulillah im truly happy for you |
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Alhamdulillah I guess I'm happy and I am content in my own ways. Blessed with a good job, supportive husband and a child. Alhamdulillah xde masalah kewangan sejak covid tp penatlah kerja mmg mcm lembu sejak wfh dgn double shifts almost every week or so. Tapi i masih sgt bersyukur sbb Allah beri rezeki gaji yg elok dan dapat kongsi dengan mereka yg memerlukan. Sejujurnya antara nikmat paling I syukur sbb husband xpernah bising bila I jarang masak sbb kami sama2 sgt busy kerja.. Sometimes dh keluarkan lauk utk defrost tapi sudahnya masing-masing masih busy smpi dkt maghrib so mmg sgt byk order food or dine in kat kedai je. Musim PKP ni i rasa i jimat byk sbb xde nafsu shopping baju tudung since wfh so bolehla budget tu allocate utk tolong peniaga kecil kecilan. Alhamdulillah |
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Pikapikachu replied at 21-9-2021 07:28 AM
At the moment tengah rasa tak bahagia
Tapi bukan sebab harta ke kerjaya
Hugs to you, dik. Kaka percaya adik sorg yg Sgt baik. Sabar ye. |
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Aku ada pendapat dan perspektif kebahagian aku sendiri.
Simple je rumusan aku. Selagi mana kita nak orang lain bahagia bermakna diri kita sendiri bahagia atau menuju kebahagiaan. Kalau rasa iri hati tengok kebahagian orang lain, my question is... Are you happy/content with your current life/situation?
Answer:
You aren't.  (Cute smiley emoji just to rub it in) |
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akaktepiTasik replied at 23-9-2021 07:59 PM
Hugs to you, dik. Kaka percaya adik sorg yg Sgt baik. Sabar ye.
Terima kasih |
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Bahagia itu bila kau rasa bila tak perlu org lain tahu
Tahu?? |
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lepas habis tengok squid game baru rasa, sapa yg ada duit byk pun, boleh rasa bosan |
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Baru start episode 1...kejamnya game gitu
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syukur and redha dengan ketentuan tu kunci bahagia.
kdg apa yang Allah tarik dari kita tu la yang selamatkan kita. |
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husband i pun selalu berpesan supaya banyak2 berdoa supaya diberi kesihatan yang baik, rasa cukup dengan rezeki yang diberi, hidup simple dan humble.... sbb heols cakap, rasa bahagia semenjak kitorang kenal dan berkahwin, and nak rasa lama lagi perjalanan hidup dengan i... dapat pergi haji sama2... dapat travel explore the world sama2...
kitorang mmg sejenis takde nak nafsu besar duduk kawasan elit mcm damansara, hartamas ke apa.. walau kami ada companies beralamat & operate di kawasan elit itu, tp rumah kami kat tempat lain yang lebih convenient dan sesuai utk retirement terus... i plak sejenis low maintenance.. no commercial gym (home gym je skang), tak pernah buat spa facial lebih 10 tahun dah, all my skincare below RM50 per bottle drugstore brand... termasuk semua haircare and bodycare semua watson/guardian mari... baju? uniqlo
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Seronok la baca stories from some of you. Feel good rasa. Thanks uols 
Btw, I pun tak sure bahagia tak. Ada hari memang rasa seronok happy, ada hari rasa down. But that's life kan.
Apa yang I cuba nak improve sekarang ialah, my gratefulness. I'm trying to work on that. Bersyukur dengan apa yang Dia bagi. Doakan I ye |
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Edited by green~tea at 8-10-2021 10:07 AM
harta tak mampu pun beri kebahagiaan... yang pernah i terbaca tp i dh lupa siapa yang cakap quotes ni
"apabila kamu berhenti mengejar dunia, maka seluruh dunia akan mengejar mu"
somehow, kata2 itu ada benarnya... i memilih utk walk off dari previous marriage di waktu i betul2 financially unstable, tp i percaya i deserve my second chance and i believe love towards husband semasa berkahwin adalah penting utk keredhaan dalam rumah tangga.. so takpe lah walau tengah down... usahakan untuk hidup di jalan yng diredhai Allah.... i percaya i still have my support systems utk improve my life, i rasa i boleh survive... its okay....
bertahun i cuba improve my own financial and life... bayar lawyer (utk divorce case clean cut), i reconsolidate my financials, leverage for investments... i ada bukak thread dalam cari ni on how i got back up utk improve my financials... mujurlah masa tu i have my steady job.. so even i jatuh terjelepuk pun, i still boleh bangun dengan cepat....
then i chose to get married to someone yang berakhlak baik (tall, dark and handsome hahaha)... little that i know that husband i tu sbnrnya somebody... dia purak2 semekin je, barely lepas2 hidung menyara diri sendiri.. hahahahahha.. sengal punya laki... rupa2 nya lepas kawen terkejut beruk meols dia ada 5 biji rumah, 6 commercial lots (all ada tenants tmasuk pharmacy, celcom and digi), cash berkepuk penuh limit ASB 1-3, unit trust maybank more than half million.... no wonder la masa iols meet his parents, i mcm sangsi, eh dah kenapa jiran2 theyols tan sri dato sri, rumah landed 7 bilik, siap kebun buah-buahan dalam laman rumah dalam bandar!!!!!! even porch theyols ada 8 bijik keta (can park 10+ cars)!! padahal sepanjang dating tu, heols bawak keta 3rd hand car, berusia 30 tahun+++ kereta tu... baju pun heols pakai pun cincai2 je jam tangan fitbit je...
after meeting his parents, we got married dalam 2 bulan lepas tu, yes mmg cepat kiotrang kenal then kawen... iols lepas kawen dgn dia je, mmg cuci kaki je masuk rumah landed corner lot dah siap fully renovated, ada 4 cars in our porch.... ada beberapa pokok buah, ada herbs garden siap kt laman rumah (weols share gardener dengan in laws, sbb rumah kitorng 10 mins drive je, so gardener tu ulang alik je).... then during 1st year kawen heols nak ajar i jadi humble (coz dia ckp i tak cukup humble sbb dh terlalu biasa dalam circle oil n gas i), so husband i bagi kereta axia (heols beli cash) and suruh i drove the car ke mana2... first month drive kereta tu, i cried OTW gi keje... coz it's soo embarrassing sbb i have my own SUV pun, why i kena drive that stupid little car... tp lama2 i dah get used to it and tak malu dah nak hidup simple... i boleh bergaul dengan orang outside my circle T20s, i dh rasa selesa bergaul dengan B80s and i really appreciate them, diorng yang ajar i bahawa life is simple je sbnrnya...
then 2nd year husband bagi surprise hadiah hermes birkin.... he literally bank in duit berpuluh ribu utk i bayar that bag in cash... terkejut i sbb dapat the bag during our 2nd anniversary... then heols surprise i lagi dengan bagi 4 companies with ready monthly income... heols requested me to quit my 9-5 job, and heols sangat suka i duduk rumah, fully WFH... then dia terdetik utk let me manage some of the companies and quit my day-to-day job.... honestly, i sayangkan kerja i... sbb i was raised by the company P since i sekolah menengah dpt scholarship... then masuk degree under scholarship Mr P juga... then habis belajar, terus bekerja dengan company P tu selama 16 tahun.... honestly, i sedih to let go my career.. sedih sgt... my last position kat compny tu was Head of Portfolio Management, Corporate Office... somehow, lgi sekali i decide i kena belajar utk berhenti mengejar dunia...
then lepas i retire... husband i hadiahkan kereta merc pulak, yes, i have 3 cars under my name.... then husband mengaku that he's very sorry acah2 PPRT miskin masa awal2 kenal, because he lost trust dengan perempuan lepas kena kikis beratus ribu dgn his exwife... lepas kikis, sheols terus walk off cmtu je dari marriage, sbb nak go back to her exboyfriend yang ada PHD and drove RM 200k++ car... his exwife bg i cantik lah, sbb mix pakistan, putih sepuk, hidung mancung, keje PTD.... so lepas bercerai, husband i dah serik nak kawen 2nd time, but he cant help falling in love with me and terus gedik nak menikah... and dia nak perempuan yang bukan materialistik, dia nak cari wanita yang genuine nakkan dia, dan nak cari yang berkualiti mcm akhlak mak dia....
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oh welll sounds berangan sangat kan  lantak le nak percaya ke tidok, boleh je treat it as bedtime stories... wakakkakkakkka... |
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Alhamdulillah…overall bahagia. Kdang2 ade lah rse xtenang hati Mcm kne byr hutang, keje nk kne perform, gaji nk kne naik from time to time. Tapi remind ourselves just enjoy the present and prepare the best for the better future (in terms of jobs) |
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Post time 22-9-2021 07:12 PM
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