being judgemental

mysara · Post time 1-2-2006 09:51 PM

yups :bgrin:

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ajinomotonosuga · Post time 3-2-2006 01:55 PM

judging itu tuntutan survival. sebelum ilmu tu mari..otak di kehendaki menyediakan kotak kotak or kategori ilmu.

pembahagian dan pelbagaian, division and diversity adalah hukum alam semulajadi buat setiap SYSTEM ( takrif sistem menurut saya ialah ciptaan).

minda itu ruang/dimensi. otak tu kire macam receptor/antenna. so antenna pick up vibes dalam ruang(ilmu) , so nak pi mana vibration ini? nak diterjemah as what? kalau tidak diterjemah susah mau diguna so otak as a very special antenna juga unit pemerosesan data menjadik informasi. Setelah jadi informasi baru buleh di aplikasi oleh otot organ anggota jasad manusia.

dengan bantuan deria/senses, misal daging tu dah berbau busuk..boleh jadik racun dan sakit membawa mati jikalau makan so jauhkannya. Ini BASIC being judgmental, melabel ..nama pun basic to as what basic need of any human. kita tak boleh menolak kepentingan kuasa peers, surrounding, social behaviour esp famili (adlerian) selagi seseorang itu belum betul sejati. Untuk sejati perlu ujian.

sejauh mana being judgemental itu merugikan kita masa pendek dan masa panjang itu lebih wajar difikirkan.

Foxey · Post time 3-2-2006 11:59 PM

judgemental...

hmm... like it or not, secara disedari atau tidak, there are times kita akan berlaku judgemental dalam kehidupan seharian.... i guess it is just our instinct trying to warn us or protect ourselves from being victimised or something...

but i do agree, it is not fair to judge a person simply by looking at his/her image without giving him/her and us a chance to get to know each other at least a little bit better... i admit sometimes we do feel that we can tell a person's character just by observing them... but does that means, our assumptions of their characters are true/correct?

i guess there are times when my instinct told me that i have to be careful with certain people and so far it has proven itself correct through times i mingle with them... so, am i being judgemental here?

i know, who am i to judge people... it is not right... cos nobody is perfect and i certainly am not.... but when our instinct tell us, something is not right somewhere, we should at least be careful... not that we judge people quickly (which i don't agree that we should), but as we get to know them better, then only we can tell whether a person is really sincere or not...