HONESTY is d best policy. Or HYPOCRISY?

dutchy · Post time 15-4-2007 03:18 PM

Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 15-4-2007 01:06 AM
hipokrasi itu pakaian untuk satu kejujuran

am very attracted and mystified by these Aji

so true indeed when u comes to think abt it, hypocrasy is sometimes the softest way for us
to tell a person something nasty abt that person/situation

moral of the story ~ truth hurts and not everyone can handle the truths, so a little hypocrasy is needed to soften the blow

SleepyFish · Post time 17-4-2007 03:49 PM

my experience says honesty has it limits...depends on the situation and mood of the interaction.

if gut or instincts says white lies will save the relationship by all means "lie"

is there an absolute in life?

Agul · Post time 17-4-2007 06:15 PM

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 15-4-2007 12:32 PM

maybe .. tp actually aku jarang dianggap matang compare dgn umo aku .. last time aku dianggap matang was back in 1999 ..

i have no idea apa MBTI and semua tu .. nanti ko buka la topik ...

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emmer_A · Post time 22-4-2007 03:36 PM

Originally posted by seribulan at 12-4-2007 07:11 PM
There is time where we need to be honest.
There is time where we need to give white lies.
Or would that term us as hypocrites?
Sometimes it is better to be a hypocrite, rather
than be honest ...

perhaps sometimes we should learn to dwell the understanding of correlation & causation, in this case, ones perception on honesty & policy could be varied, could be correlation, could be causation. The choice is yours !! Not to forget that we can also fake our honesty (so would the policy be the best out of it???) or perhaps we should classify honesty as in elegence honesty & just plain honesty .....

to me, honesty is just another good exercise and a good technic (right upfront tell people what you are trying to accomplish & what you are willing to sacrifice to accomplish it) but when it comes to the mengurat time (for instance) and don't feel like making a commitment, i don't thing such thing like honesty is the best policy, the white lies will climb your everest

...

some say insanity is still a best defence, yea well .....

~ EM

redsinner · Post time 24-4-2007 06:43 PM

for a few minutes aku rasa server Cari and clock aku tak betul...dah lokasi aku GMT +10....lagila bengong postings aku nihhhh...... jem kejap...
hehe...late reply lak..

aku rasa bebudak kecik ada yang dah bleh pk la gak..lelagi zaman sekrang nih

ajinomotonosuga · Post time 26-4-2007 01:48 AM

The only thing we cannot replace is TIME. There is no time for honesty or time for hypocrisy, there is only time for Love

yellow belmont · Post time 30-4-2007 11:33 AM

Originally posted by redsinner at 24-4-2007 06:43 PM
for a few minutes aku rasa server Cari and clock aku tak betul...dah lokasi aku GMT +10....lagila bengong postings aku nihhhh...... jem kejap...
hehe...late reply lak..

aku rasa bebudak keci ...

aku pun pelik jap apsal post ko duk atas post aku ..

tp aku pula rasa bebudak zaman skang ni lagi la krg bpikir aka krg ajar skit compare bebudak zaman sebelumnya .. generally la .. based on apa yg aku peratikan ..

wei_loon5063 · Post time 30-4-2007 03:57 PM

Originally posted by yellow belmont at 30-4-2007 11:33 AM
aku pun pelik jap apsal post ko duk atas post aku ..
tp aku pula rasa bebudak zaman skang ni lagi la krg bpikir aka krg ajar skit compare bebudak zaman sebelumnya .. generally la .. bas ...

Yellow.......... remember??

Life is the line between two extreme odd??

you cant be 100% hypocrate;
you cant be 100% honest..............

I`ve seen this movie... there`s a joke and its hardcore fact....

the one question that asked to a man that forever he say no.................
the wife ask... "ada pergi curi makan??"
till the end the answer is NO

yellow belmont · Post time 1-5-2007 02:26 AM

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 30-4-2007 03:57 PM

Yellow.......... remember??

Life is the line between two extreme odd??

you cant be 100% hypocrate;
you cant be 100% honest..............

I`ve seen this movie... there`s a joke ...

err .. ok .. i do remember that ..

but what does it got to do with what i said? .. i was making comment base on generalization .. didnt really get what u mean here? ..

what movie is that? .. curi makan? .. dia maksudkan curang ka?