hey what can be worst than .... im 35 and im not married????

generasi2 · Post time 6-2-2008 02:33 PM

sum1 ask me: I luv my wife very much but we dun have any kids after 10 years married.. What should I do..?

sibel · Post time 6-2-2008 07:45 PM

do as what others would do ...
first .. get yourself .. checked! see the expert ...! the obs .. or get consulted by a specialist..
secondly ... try consider the alternative medicine .. go see the elderly in your village .. ( if you have one) see what they want to say about it ..
thirdly ... see what went wrong with yourself ... what you did all these years ...
and ask forgiveness for all the wrong doing ... esp .. ask to god .. for forgiveness ...
fourthly, tawakal...

perhaps its not your time yet!...

budakjawa · Post time 6-2-2008 10:05 PM

salam sibel

sibel · Post time 6-2-2008 11:01 PM

err .. salam .. :handshake:

handela · Post time 7-2-2008 12:16 AM

hi sibel, since you posted this yeah, dah ada takers ke lum?

nenekglamer · Post time 7-2-2008 09:01 PM

Originally posted by generasi2 at 6-2-2008 02:33 PM
sum1 ask me: I luv my wife very much but we dun have any kids after 10 years married.. What should I do..?

Stat tu?  No big deal.. tapi you can

1. Ask him - seen the doc yet?

Klu orang tu cakap macam tu kerana concern dia nak anak...  mintak dia gi jumpa doc, check etcl... sekarang ni macam2 cara untuk pregnant - tak perlu terus nak Chori Chori Chupke Chupke way -

2.  If dia dah cuba macam2 cara.. tak leh gak...  soh dia adopt.  Kengkadang ada pasangan terus conceive lepas adopt.  Pelik tapi banyak berlaku.  And besides, ramai anak2 yg terabai these days...

3.  Mungkin dia nak kawen lagi, cuma takmo appear digelar gatal...

Off topic yek...  Banyak kali aku tengok...

Suami klu isteri lambat or tak mengandung, dia cakap nak kawen lagi, alasan, nak anak... tapi.. bila ada anak, ramai jer suami yg tak peduli nak jaga anak.. makan pakai anak.. semua isteri tanggung, bersepah je aku tengok perempuan yg digantung tak bertali or jadik ibu tunggal membesarkan anak2 sendiri.. Laki dia ntah ke mana...

Satu lagi off topic....

SOrang hamba Allah ni, dia berkahwin first time, dah beberapa tahun tak de anak.. like many men masa zaman tu would do, dia tuduh isteri dia yang mandul.. last2 tu derang bercerai.. so he married again dan exwife dia pun remarried la jugak... selepas beberapa lama, exwife dia mula beranak pinak.. tapi dia masih takde anak lagi.. kemudian isteri kedua dia meninggal, dia kawen lagi.. pun.. tak de juga anak.. in the mean time, exwife dia yg dituduh mandul tu, rasa aku dah bercucu dah... Mamat nih?  DIa amik anak angkat masa kawen isteri yg kedua..

handela · Post time 8-2-2008 06:43 PM

unfortunately ramai lelaki yang x nak undergo health test untuk tengok keadaan kesihatan sendiri-mandul ke tak. mungkin pasal ego kot. sy pun ada kawan tu yg keluarga mentua dia depan2 kutuk dia kata mandul la, x guna la sebab x leh mengandung. diorg sume salahkan wife tu. tibe2 bile wat check doktor, husband tu la yg problem. bile dah undergo rawatan, Alhamdulillah dapat anak juga. Tuhan nak tunjuk

ali_ptk_07 · Post time 9-2-2008 05:15 AM

Kalo aku jd ko..aku akan cari anak angkat..peduli apa walaupun itu bukan darah daging aku..aku tak penting semua tu.

InsyaAllah lagi 5 tahun aku akan ambil anak angkat perempuan. Lps tu (dlm tempoh setahun 2 lps tu) baru la kahwin n ada anak sendiri.

gutes_madchen · Post time 9-2-2008 12:39 PM

my clg pun.. dh 7yrs married, x der anak.. pastu g spital check.. d husband having a problem..

sdgkn time tu family mentua dia duk bising2 ckp dia mandul.. bila itu laks kluar.. mentua sound dia buat ubat guna2 kasik husband dia mandul.. bodos tuul