Kena gamekan or terlayan perasaan?? Dilema dan trauma

TheNeny26

munchkin replied at 16-4-2016 10:41 AM
Bukan u ke hotel. My friend. Tapi laki mulut jahat.

I noe la hney.. tula nseb aku tak terjebak

munchkin

TheNeny26 replied at 16-4-2016 11:15 AM
I noe la hney.. tula nseb aku tak terjebak

Jangan layan suami orang. Depa ada experience. Thats why ramai terjatuh hati pd laki org. Jgn rosakkan rumahtangga org. Kalau hati you rasa digame dirabak rabak apa perasaan isteri. Walau u tak buat apa apa pun. Tapi by responding it shows you pun main peranan juga. Kesian isteri and anak anak2.

mizzmimi

lelaki.. cakap besar ngan kawan dia kot

kalau dah keluar dengan dia, dia kata dah couple
kalau dah pegang tangan, dia kata dah ringan-ringan
kalau dah ringan-ringan, dia kata dah main barai habis

aku rasa dia kantoi ngan wife dia kot.
baguslah TT dia back off tak contact ko lepas movie date tu
kalau tak.. u know one thing led to another kan
god knows what would have happened

mungkin ko akan lebih dari menyesal kalau dia tak back off

Pakcik_Kilas

Huhuhu....Cepat sgt ni hanyut dubuai ayat power....huhuhuhu....pape pun babe..please3 learn ur lesson ok....all the best n keep chill...

nenekglamer

Hopefully nothing 'physical' had happened?  Even kalau pernah terjadi, BELAJAR separatekan emosi tu. No choice. you have to.

Nak tak nak, kena belajar move on. You should be stronger once you're out of the tunnel, you know what I'm sayin?

Laki orang test power?  Pernah juga terjadi pada aku - he tried for 10 years... ALhamdulillah aku buat tak layan perasaan, and plus, he's not my type, so tak de lah rasa apa2.. (kalau stock2 hot, sexy and gojes macam Henry Cavill mau meroyan jugak nyahhh hahahaha)

and yep.. one day, he just changed macam tu jah.. balik semula kt bini dia, and aku since takde apa2 perasaan and tak layan perasaan, I was absolutely OK with it, and bersyukur, satu rumah tangga masih selamat. Sebab aku selalu fikir.. macamana kalau aku didalam situasi isteri dia.. so, I was trying to keep a marriage safe. camtu lah..

Anyways.. good luck TT

TheNeny26

nenekglamer replied at 17-4-2016 09:31 PM
Hopefully nothing 'physical' had happened?  Even kalau pernah terjadi, BELAJAR separatekan emosi tu. ...

Tanx, aku mgkn perempuan jenis emosi kot mcm yg forumers ckp. Tapi gigih lak dia mengenen kt aku selama setahun.. lastly tbkk plak hati aku. Aku leks je skrg ni ngadap mke dia mse kje skrg ni. Tak tfikir lak sal dia time time senggang

nenekglamer

TheNeny26 replied at 18-4-2016 09:39 PM
Tanx, aku mgkn perempuan jenis emosi kot mcm yg forumers ckp. Tapi gigih lak dia mengenen kt aku s ...

Things like this take time and experience. I learned from my own experience.

Pernah kawan aku komen kat aku "You are so Malay lah!" meaning that, aku terlalu take things to heart and bagi dia, alah.. takat sweet talk or gestures, tak payah perasan sangat lah.. go with the flow gitu.. enjoy, and let go when the time comes. Toksah nak feeling2 hooked gitu...

Well, dalam budaya kita kan lain.. betul tak? Tapi aku slowly adapt.. Pst.. kawan aku yang komen aku "so Malay" pun Melayu berkerak jugak... kah kah kah.. tapi sbb dah asimilate dengan budaya kokesen yang open.. dia dah berbeza sikit.. He can flirt like nobody's business and forget all about it in the morning gitu. Which is different than us. We open up our heart with trust and we tend to be loyal to one person.

Anyways, bak kata orang Jawa, what doesn't kill you make you stronger!

milanhawkin

nenekglamer replied at 19-4-2016 02:13 AM
Things like this take time and experience. I learned from my own experience.

Pernah kawan aku k ...

i like you nenek. your words are relatable.

i think most of us mmg pernah kena try kot ngn jejans laki org ni. so in the end, it depends on how strong your will is.

nenekglamer

milanhawkin replied at 19-4-2016 05:27 PM
i like you nenek. your words are relatable.

i think most of us mmg pernah kena try kot ngn jej ...

Well, sh*t happens in relationship. Hehehe...

Kadang2 terfikir jugak.. "Happily ever after" tu actually wujud kah?

And pernah tak korang hang out dengan seseorang and it felt like you were in a movie?

MACD

TT wake up.

Who owns your life? You or the other person?
If it is you, then take control of it.
Only you can make yourself feel good or bad.

Anyone wants to flirt with you? Bring it on.
Just make sure you are the one who is in control, not the other person.
Don't have mentality of a victim. That's so not cool.

fire_place

Jgn lah mudah terpengaruh,
Kat forum ni pun ramai buaya yg mudah mengayat.
Kalau ko jenis mudah perasan mmg xselamat lah hidup.
Lelaki ni dh kawin ada je alasan dia naik main kayu 3, test market.
Untuk kau jauhkan lah diri.
Ingat lagi masa praktikal..satu pejabat ni lelaki bini paling kurang 2,
Lpstu ajar lelaki yg bujang perangai MCM diaorg,
Ada sorg lelaki ni bini dah 2, masih xcukup..cuba test market..
Aku depan dia saja cium pipi bf aku..terus mengamuk dia marah,xtegur aku,
Kalau x..hari2 ayat punya manis..kdg2 xbetol pun.ayat mengayat ni penuh kepalsuan je,
Kita yang dahagakan pujian je terkembang2 dipuji.
jd kita guna lah akal kita untuk elakkan spesis gini.

setokinpurple

Paling takut bila terkeluar cite ko dah serah dara dik.. Hahah nasib baik tak. Tu jantan x guna, bukan baik2. Kalau baik dia takkan ngorat ko. Benti keje jela. Mulakan life baru. Dan ingat, hati2 lepas ni