hati ada pada 66 yrs ole man? gila ke aku ni

adila39

Hari ni nak buat cerita baru.

Tak nafikan, awal tahun ni kehidupan TT agak messy, banyak sangat persoalan lingering didalalam kepala. Banyak topiik yg TT create more to menampakkan betapa konpiusnya TT.

Akhir akhir inI TT berkenalan dengan seseorang dalam FB TT dah lama TT suka and follow thread and topic beliau. Never say hi or pm and so ever from 2012..hanya 3 bulan sebelum ni baru kami berbual2.

Dalam hati dulu2 memangla TT cakap...dia ni la lelaki idaman yg aku tunggu..bijak dan setiap perbualan dan idea yang dia share sangat menampkkan kepribadian dia yang penuh dgn ilmu dan paling best, he touches my heart dengan ayat2 yg simple aje..but kena betul dgn TT.

So akhirnya dia ajak coffee. And yes we meet up. Meruntunnya hati TT bila first time nampak dia. Jauh sekali dari expectation seorang lelaki yg TT gambarkan.

Klise pun ya....but sebab rasa hormat tu masih ada...kami continue berborak dan coffee...mula2 secawan dan end up 3 kali order..TT sangat seronok mendengar kisah beliau. Bertambah tambah kagum.

He is 66 yrs old, mempunyai minda yg tajam. Sangat bijak dan kalah la TT kalau nak berbahas. Surah dan terjemahan dalam tangan, politik celah gigi je...apa lagi ilmu alam yg lain. TT sangat kagum...ye pelik..why ..apa yg hebat sangat.

Dalam usia yg mcm tu dia masih menjaga anaknya yang 35 tahun with bopilar, been single parent for past 12 years. Banyak yg dia dah lalui untuk pulihkan anaknya...he used to do very good..income yg millions...but sebab silap percaturan..so sekarang ni dia hanya biasa sahaja...

anyway, physical attraction rasa pelik...org akan kata...what the helll were you thinking!! seriously...kurus je orgnya ..rambut pun jarang jarang dah...hidung mancung and i beleive masa muda dia pasti seorang yg kacak.

i like him most, his mind his thinking..tt rasa dia lebih berjiwa muda dari TT.

Now i feel like....i want to help him...xpelah dia tua....i just like him so much...i can close my eyes to all list check yang i set for a man...i dont care what ppl think of me and how ppl react if they see me with him...the looks ..ironinya bila a woman younger 27 years gap with skinny old man. Goodness...apa yg pompuan tu pandang..x kaya pun infact possibility dia yg kena jaga...but why bothers all  that...he is still young at heart...no ilness still healthy still driving car with 150km still can do many things and best part he still chasing his dreams.

the issue is me...what is wrong with me????? aku suka aku hanya impress??? or so what if he is 66 lets nikah and create life together???

prettyuglybabe

so aku assume ko pun about 39 - 40 yrs old..
if u single and he single, kenapa tak boleh..
you pun bukan muda juga..
lain la kalau bbnu belasan tahun ke 20-an..
klu dia terbuka hati nak bernikah lagi, teruskan je la..

manehnya

if he is 66 lets nikah and create life together

yes u can nikah..

but can he create life in his 66?

adila39

yes he wants to nikah. Yes im not that young still i look young and i think young. I still wear jeans with tear on my knees and still doing pilates and karoke and gila2 sometimes.

I think..issue is can i cope up with this ole man...dia dah tua ...66 tahun, i ask him directly can u still performs  and can u still earn for living...and he answers me with a very logicall explaination bukan simply cakap yes i can...no ego at all.

the thing is this man really affacted me..i cant stop thinking about him and i still find him interesting...i sampai in denial mode...i am attracted to him...as a person innerself...but appearance vise i doubts but after seeing him few times i mcm aaah lantakla...aku x kisah.

yes, good point, can he lead life after that. His late father marrying at age of 62 and died at at age 83. and aku pulak ...more like..xpe..dapat spent time dgn dia 10 tahun pun ok, at least aku boleh bagi dia happiness..like take care of him and cook for him..

his been wasting his youth life trying to get his son back on track. 12 years at age of like since divorces 54 dia let go all and jaga anak dia...and that 12 yrs makan di kedai, raya pun sorang kat mamak.

aduhai...life can be unpredictable to some people.

NORIZALHAMZAH

ko umo brp tt?

klu nk  yg muda, kacak, kaya, tinggi ilmu..  

aku leh adjust lg

mesmerize

kalau ada chemistry / keserasian why not.. teruskan saja.. lagipun sama2 single dan ada matlamat nak hidup bersama dalam ikatan yang halal.. age is just a number.. it's very normal for ladies to marry a much older men

adila39

NORIZALHAMZAH replied at 19-9-2016 11:53 AM
ko umo brp tt?

klu nk  yg muda, kacak, kaya, tinggi ilmu..  

heheheh  umur dash 39 dah pun, single mum. Ada yg nak aku ni tapi hati tak terbukak...sama umur and single...lg satu 41 single parent tp aku xnak jugak...tp yg ni kes pelik sikit...honestly dia buat i retink about myself

adila39

NORIZALHAMZAH replied at 19-9-2016 11:53 AM
ko umo brp tt?

klu nk  yg muda, kacak, kaya, tinggi ilmu..  

heheheh  umur dash 39 dah pun, single mum. Ada yg nak aku ni tapi hati tak terbukak...sama umur and single...lg satu 41 single parent tp aku xnak jugak...tp yg ni kes pelik sikit...honestly dia buat i retink about myself

adila39

mesmerize replied at 19-9-2016 11:55 AM
kalau ada chemistry / keserasian why not.. teruskan saja.. lagipun sama2 single dan ada matlamat nak ...

yes why not.

umur dia sama dgn bapak TT

Bapak TT nampak steady, dia kurus melidi...so aku suh dia gemuk kalau betul nak kawen dgn aku...end up dia pulak suh aku kurus hahahah

anyway its part of the issue..main issue how to start life with him...betul ke aku ni...so im gonna just go w the flow?

alieyrina

Nikah ja..i dont see y nikah seems such a wrong step to walk into .. go for it!

Dont u want to be his wife even for a day? .

adila39

alieyrina replied at 19-9-2016 12:38 PM
Nikah ja..i dont see y nikah seems such a wrong step to walk into .. go for it!

Dont u want to be ...

allahuakbar

you give the strenghth with ur simple remark.

doakanla...maybe dia jodoh TT...walau dia tua tp text dia, his jokes and his way sama ajer mcm lelaki muda dewasa...i think he is very charming becoz of his knowledge...but can i stand his looks? his sagging skin?? u ask me...personaly i dont mind. Sebab bila TT tgk dia n listen to him..i look into his eyes and i am still attracted to him. Not that saggy tho, cuma ye la 66 yrs old more wrinkles and silver lining on top his head la.


I never met a man like him...not entirely...angau TT ni dengan lelaki tua..bagi tt 3 bulan from now...if he is my jodoh i go for it. i dont mind starting back from 0. Kadang tu terfikir to extend, a great man like him..he deserves to be happy..at least why not me make him happy..at least rasa hidup ada org jaga..and the same time maybe dia jugak boleh ajar TT jadi muslimah yg baik...betulkan my solat and even if i can be w him a year or a month..i wont mind.


am i in love ke??ke aku gila??

dubuk

bukan gila.. tapi ahmad nisfu cakap bhoootaaaaa

ahnafnia

cinta itu buta

figurae

hehehe.. cinta itu gila...
tapi kite takkan tau jawapanyya kan
you ambikla masa untuk fikir sebelum buat keputusan yang pasti ai sokong you untuk bahagia

epis

Kalau hati dah tertarik, rupa paras, umur, kisah silam tak jadi penghalang.. tt istikharah dulu mohon pertunjuk, kalau ada jodoh hopefully, saya doakan tt bahagia ~

bobo_beck

adila39 replied at 19-9-2016 12:57 PM
allahuakbar

you give the strenghth with ur simple remark.

Just go for it.. but be prepare of your sexual needs.. if u ok with his performane.. or dont care about it then wth u r waiting for...
tp klau rsa2 batin u masih nk performance yg urmm emm thinking twice.. i bkn ckp 66 year xleh perform tp be realistik.. kawin mmg bkn semata2 sex.. its true tp itu lumrah.. manuasia ada nafsu n keinginan...
Maybe he is best to be ur bestfren.. or maybe your husband..

JeNaB_PopPop

TT.....I tak rasa salah pun.....kecaplah bahagia TT sendiri. umur tu hanya angka sahaja TT.....

kalau I pun ditakdirkan single I will choose lelaki yang berusia dan matang....sebab lelaki muda ni tak matang dan banyak kerenah.....U rasa selesa dengan dia, rasa U bebas jadi diri sendiri depan dia...why not..??

adila39

bobo_beck replied at 19-9-2016 02:58 PM
Just go for it.. but be prepare of your sexual needs.. if u ok with his performane.. or dont care  ...

good point. Ada i tanya dia and dia kata so far dia masih ada stamina, he still pay soccer well tak la mcm muda mudi tu but he still can. and he openly declares he have that negaraku once while..

not dirty talks lebih pada session of knowing him pratically and logically sbb i pun wonder klu i kawen dia how dia nak u know...that part.

anyway sex can always come in many ways.

my issue here..is he the right one.

i dont want kids..and im comfortable with one kid. Satu dah cukup. Afterall ive been supporting myself and my son and having him is like a bonus or maybe yes slightly responsible. Like prepare food and being a wife and the duty what so called.

Cuma i think he is the one yg facing more responsible. With the bipolar son and still the anchor of the family. So TT wonder can he...still i dont mind supporting him cuz im working and alhamdulillah , maybe jgk having me is like helping him and helping me..masing2 soul seaching..

i just hope kali ni klu i decide biarla yg terakhir...i dont mind taking care of him bila dah tua or even if i have to carry him...

cuma...is this love??? or symphaty tu aje tt kena betul2 sure...

but now, thinking of him make my hurt flutters

adila39

he is a man with wisdom,  he loves song and singging he loves to debate and he reads alot..and best of part he is funny. Reading whatsapp x nampak langsung 66 tahun...ooo my ole man..u make me crazy!

sue_0684

u re not crazy.follow ur guts.