Which is worse?

sarahmirza

"I Was Watching A Program On TV Where Someone Was Defending Themself Saying That They Only Had A One Night Stand And It Was Nothing Compared To The Affair The Other Person Was Having"


My opinion,

In an affair, you are breaking your wedding vows to your spouse repeatedly. An affair shows that there's a little more than the just sexual aspect of it and worse due to the length of time it continues and the encounters that eventually add up, plus the deceit.

Meanwhile, a one night stand is just once and you have no obligation towards the other person. With a one night stand, it's just about the sex and nothing more.

BTW, Both are sins and sin are immoral.

Yours?

my-alja

kalo boleh bagi alasan nie kat TUHAN ..esok-esok....buatlah

LostSoul

hehehehe... bagi aku, kedua2 nye sama.. pusing kanan, pusing kiri, ttp salah..

sarahmirza

Originally posted by my-alja at 6-3-2008 05:50 PM
kalo boleh bagi alasan nie kat TUHAN ..esok-esok....buatlah

Tahu tak apa.

Poll ni I relate dari thread En. Idhamriza to my thread pasal 2nd chance dan skrg bg side his wife, mana satu yang lagi worse.

Ini poll untuk mereka yang di tipu oleh spouse, bukan mereka yang cenderung nak pilih nak buat yang mana ya.

sarahmirza

Originally posted by LostSoul at 6-3-2008 05:54 PM
hehehehe... bagi aku, kedua2 nye sama.. pusing kanan, pusing kiri, ttp salah..

Sekali lagi, tahu tak apa.


Cheating is wrong in marriage AND which is worse; he had a one nite stand or he is having an affair. Choose satu la darling.

LostSoul

adusss.. payah nye nak choose.. pilihan yg sukar..lagi susah dr ngundi ni beb..

NURMIMIE

Originally posted by LostSoul at 6-3-2008 06:02 PM
adusss.. payah nye nak choose.. pilihan yg sukar..lagi susah dr ngundi ni beb..

aku pun tak suka memilih sarah.. tambah lagi pilihan sukar mcm gini.. aku nyinggah jer kat topik ko ye

permisi

sarahmirza

Originally posted by LostSoul at 6-3-2008 06:02 PM
adusss.. payah nye nak choose.. pilihan yg sukar..lagi susah dr ngundi ni beb..

Susah ke. Time will tell la kan. Harap2 tak sampai pun time untuk memilih macam ini.

sarahmirza

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 6-3-2008 06:04 PM




aku pun tak suka memilih sarah.. tambah lagi pilihan sukar mcm gini.. aku nyinggah jer kat topik ko ye

permisi

Sorry, lupa nak hidang kuih. Jangan lupa singgah lagi ya.

LostSoul

setakat ni, tak pernah memilih, sbb penakut.. heh heh..

malu pun iye.. malu nak bukak baju dpn org lain..

sarahmirza

Originally posted by LostSoul at 6-3-2008 06:19 PM
setakat ni, tak pernah memilih, sbb penakut.. heh heh..

malu pun iye.. malu nak bukak baju dpn org lain..

Buat apa nak buka baju depan orang lain?

LostSoul

abih tu, kalau affair bagai, sbb tu sama je one night stand ke affair ke, bukan gitu uan?

NtahSapaNtah

Dua-dua sama salah
Dua-dua patut dihukum jika tak ada rasa guilty dari pihak yang terlibat,
Dua-dua patut dimaafkan kalau pihak terlibat betul-betul insaf.

Period.

sarahmirza

Originally posted by LostSoul at 6-3-2008 06:33 PM
abih tu, kalau affair bagai, sbb tu sama je one night stand ke affair ke, bukan gitu uan?

Zaman mak ayah kita dulu macam itulah. Zaman kita sekarang, ada byk jenis affair;


1- affair in real life;
a) jumpa2 & makan2 kat restoren je.
b) jumpa2, kiss2 gitu je.  
c) jumpa2, kiss2, raba2, main2 sekali.


2 - affair kat cyber;
a) innocent chats man v woman - kira affair ke ni?
b) chats luahan perasaan kononnya
c) chats merapu meraban


Nota kaki: Jangan tembak gue. Gue buat poll dan posts tak semestinya gue ada hati nak buat ya. Curious je kekadang tu.

sarahmirza

Tapi kalau tengok komen gue kat post #1 tu menjurus pada affair yang serius kan. Mmmmmm, susahnya nak jawab

LostSoul

aha.. barule clear.. tadik takde explanation..

ikut definisi kita n partner la kot... dah ada hubungan physical kira affair le.. bab cyber ni, sama le jugak kot.. kalau direalisasikan jadik affair la..

sarah, u tak vote pun, mana aci nih?

sarahmirza

Originally posted by NtahSapaNtah at 6-3-2008 06:34 PM
Dua-dua sama salah
Dua-dua patut dihukum jika tak ada rasa guilty dari pihak yang terlibat,
Dua-dua patut dimaafkan kalau pihak terlibat betul-betul insaf.

Period.

Tak menjawab poll.

sarahmirza

Originally posted by LostSoul at 6-3-2008 06:53 PM
aha.. barule clear.. tadik takde explanation..

ikut definisi kita n partner la kot... dah ada hubungan physical kira affair le.. bab cyber ni, sama le jugak kot.. kalau direalisasikan jadi ...

Tuan thread lupa nak register mengundi hari tu, tak boleh undi la.

nazijo

klu nak pilih dua2 x mendatangkan kebaikan...salah pada hukum tuhan...tapi sekadar suke2 nak buat pilihan..just nak pilih je tuk tuan amah yang dah bukak thread ni.. aku pilih one night stand la...

affair2 ni malas la...bnyk songeh...one night stand je la snang sket...dah abis x payah nak fikir ape2 lg....

just sekadar memilih je...nak buat tu jauh sekali la.

manakautau

Originally posted by nazijo at 6-3-2008 10:14 PM
just sekadar memilih je...nak buat tu jauh sekali la.

Cakap tu doa tau..hati2......