Perumpamaan isteri pertama ngan isteri kedua

AceHand

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 10-7-2008 12:45




Setuju. Ambil tindakan atas aduan sahaja tanpa selidik siapa yang salah, siapa yang mulakan, siapa yang mempertahankan dpendapat sendiri, budak sekolah umur 15 tahun pun boleh buat.

Yang dok layan posting provoke tu tak macam budak sekolah yang kurang dari 15 tahun ke...? Heh! Heh! Heh!


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LostSoul

ko jawab je le "mmg aaarr aku tido.."

seriously ace, aku rasa better ko bo layan, unless post tu mmg ditujukan kepada nick2 tertentu (diletakkan secara terang n jelasss kat dlm posting). sbb yg tukang report ni reason dia sokmo camtu kan. so impose law yg sama jugak kat mangkuk ayun ni..

AceHand

Originally posted by LostSoul at 10-7-2008 12:48
yup, kalau takdak masa, bo layan aje report tu. bukan tak biasa bo layan report...

alah, kang kalau mereport si nyah, mula la ada yg kata "apesal terasa? dia ckp general je". well, samalah cam ...

Kalau camtu samalah... Dia pong dah kena potong kredit gak kan...? Heh! Heh! Heh!


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AceHand

Originally posted by kikilalat at 10-7-2008 12:52
aku cadang kan korang limit number of reports sorang forumner boleh buat dalam masa sehari. sekali sehari ker haper.

Kalaulah ko tahu setiap hari berapa banyak repot yang aku dapat untok satu whole board kat forum ni... Hik! Hik! Hik!


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AceHand

Originally posted by pilot at 10-7-2008 12:53
lor...panjang lak cite psl provoke nih

aku pun besa kena provoke wat dek jelah...forum maaaa

tak pun close je thread nih...dah tak relevan dgn tajuk dah pong

Elok jugak tu aku tutop ajer... Hik! Hik! HIk!


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AceHand

Originally posted by LostSoul at 10-7-2008 12:54
ko jawab je le "mmg aaarr aku tido.."

seriously Ace, aku rasa better ko bo layan, unless post tu mmg ditujukan kepada nick2 tertentu (diletakkan secara terang n jelasss kat dlm posting) ...

Seriously kalau aku wat ignore camtu aku percaya budaya provoke memprovoke akan semakeng berleluasa... Dan akan sampai satu tahap sukar dikawal lagi...

Either aku take action atau ko worang boleh 'act like as matured forumer' kat sini...


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sarahmirza

Originally posted by AceHand at 10-7-2008 01:06 PM


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Seriously kalau aku wat ignore camtu aku percaya budaya provoke memprovoke akan semakeng berleluasa... Dan akan sampai satu tahap sukar dikaw ...

Take action pada semua orang, bukan take action berdasarkan aduan Nyah je.

LostSoul

there's a better way to do it la, ace.. nak kekang bukan dgn cara adhere to the report, but investigate and take appropriate action. kalau ko takde masa, mods FD yg lain boleh bekerjasama tolong siasat n bagi input.

slalu camtu, yg start it off, tak kena, yg bertindak psl diprovoke, kena. kalau supermods tak kaji dulu sebelum mencantas, sampai bila2 pun yg start dulu tu akan tersenyum lebar sbb senantiasa terlepas.

manakautau

AURA saper nih yang jadikan thread nih macamni?

AURA.....Something From Nothing.........

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manakautau

Originally posted by AceHand at 10-7-2008 01:06 PM


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Seriously kalau aku wat ignore camtu aku percaya budaya provoke memprovoke akan semakeng berleluasa... Dan akan sampai satu tahap sukar dikaw ...

My sole advice to you....rajin2 lah jengok thread FD nih as a contributor as much as you are as an enforcer......

Sasha

The things is not only 1 person  or same person had done the report. If you guys ada follower.. other party also got follower. The best solutions is don't layan provoke. Sbb mana2 pihak pun takan ada yg menang atau kalah.. sentiasa ada rasa tak puas hati sampai bila2 when you guys  start sindir menyindir dan sbgainya. Perbalahan akan berlaku hingga tersasar topik.

It's quite unfair pd pembuka thread bila thread mereka jd tempat perbalahan dan kemarahan.

Lily_Savage

dah dah
jom back to topic

misy

boleh tak kita bincang pasal anak-anak = isteri-isteri...buang pasal poli...( sbb kalau dah pasal isteri isteri tu memang poli SUDAH terjadi)

manakautau

Originally posted by Lily_Savage at 10-7-2008 02:02 PM

dah dah
jom back to topic

Yang banyaknya runtuh institusi poligami itu atas dasar ketidakadilan suami atau overdemandingnya isteri2?

Isteri tuduh suami, suami membisukan diri.....adakah kerana membisu itu kerana mereka menerima hakikat bahawa mereka tidak dapat berlaku adil atau siisteri yang menetapkan syarat2 yang melampau2 sebelum membenarkan suami kawen lagi.....

Contoh.........Saya izinkan suami kawen lagi asalkan apa yang saya dapat darinya tiap bulan sebelum ini tidak akan sikit pun yang kurang.....the husband have to create the same amt of money for the new wife sedangkan allowance dia tidak sedikit pun berkurangan......ini yang dikatakan pilihan?

Suami selama ini adalah seorang yang bertanggungjawab...nafkah isteri serta anak2 tak pernah kurang, would never want to exchange anything else tan being with a complete husband......tapi bila suami sound nak pasanglagi satu......seluruh arash bergegar......

Sekelumit kekurangan suami sebelum ini tiba2 jadi lebih besar dari segala kebaikan yang tak terhingga nilainya sebelum ini......INI YANG DIKATAKAN PILIHAN?

Sebelum ini suami yang bertanggungjawab, bila suami sound nak kawen lagisatu...tetiba soal keadilan diutarakan dan tiba2 juga yakin yang suami tidak boleh berlaku adil? INI YANG DIKATAKAN PILIHAN?

Nanti Manak sambung lagi.........

pilot

Originally posted by misy at 10-7-2008 02:06 PM
boleh tak kita bincang pasal anak-anak = isteri-isteri...buang pasal poli...( sbb kalau dah pasal isteri isteri tu memang poli SUDAH terjadi)

yup...tapi besa la topik mcm ni takkan lari dari emosi melebihi rationality...wlupun belum lalui tapi auranya bagaikan dah melalui sendiri..penuh dgn sensitiviti, sentapsiti

manakautau

Originally posted by pilot at 10-7-2008 02:20 PM


yup...tapi besa la topik mcm ni takkan lari dari emosi melebihi rationality...wlupun belum lalui tapi auranya bagaikan dah melalui sendiri..penuh dgn sensitiviti, sentapsiti

Siapakah yang harus dipersalahkan...hang tuah kah...atau puteri gunung ledang dalam soal poligami nih?

LostSoul

the best solution is "stop the provoke" from the start. everybody is entitled to defend themselves.

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 10-7-2008 02:18 PM
the best solution is "stop the provoke" from the start. everybody is entitled to defend themselves.

Hi dear.....a case of chicken and egg ke? Bila nak game?

hzln

something to ponder on this idle thursday afternoon...can still be be applicable with the title of the discussion (and also the current minor distraction..)

DESIDERATA (Latin for Desired Things)

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let not this blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore, be at peace with God. And whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams; it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

[ Last edited by  hzln at 10-7-2008 02:34 PM ]

Sasha

Exactly,  But how? Unless you or yourself take initiative to control your emotion as you know you can't control people or change people as u wanted.