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sue_0684 posted on 13-3-2013 02:19 PM
attention seeker?..
yez typical antertu
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Post time 13-3-2013 03:21 PM
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missus_meow posted on 13-3-2013 02:27 PM
yez typical antertu
panas tu missus....hahaa dia kena belajar tolak ansur & jgn arrogant & rasa diri terlalu pandai. sifat tu bleh turn down pompuan yg admire dia.
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Morning...something nice to read & maybe can be practice.
Btw when we get to know someone, we can analyse the persons as below...so good luck.
Personality, behaviour and words
Everything a person says or does reveals something about his personality. People's thoughts, beliefs and actions are perfectly aligned with each other in such a way that they all reveal the same things about the person.
Just like all ways lead to Rome everything a person does or thinks about can reveal a lot about his personality and psychological makeup.
The words a person use, even if they seemed to have no weight can, actually tell a great deal about his desires and insecurities. In this post i will tell you how to interpret the words people say in order to know more about their personalities.
How the words people say reflect their personalities
"Hey Dude, did you get shorter overnight?"
For the first instance this seems like a joke that has no meaning but when examining it from a different point of view you will realize that it means a lot. I have said earlier that our perception is strongly constrained by our concerns.
If you think about dogs all day, because you fear them, then you might confuse a cat for a dog. In other words we only notice what we care about the most. Now back to that simple joke, even though the person who said it meant nothing its clearly evident that he is concerned about his own physical height.
I am not saying that this person is concerned about physical height because of the phrase he said but rather because he noticed the difference in the physical height of his friend when he was wearing a different shoe. This person could also be concerned about his physical appearance and could even be suffering from a low self confidence just because he is unsure of his looks.
Of course the analysis might be wrong as there are many other factors that should be taken into consideration but that was just a simple example to show you how you can know more about people by just analyzing their words.
How the words people say reveal their insecurities
We were in the gym and two people who didn't knew each other were lifting different weighs while standing side by side. A third person who doesn't know both of them said in a low voice "You guys are standing too close to each other, take care not to get hurt"
The distance between the two guys wasn't that close to result in the accident that person imagined and this showed that his perception forced him to believe that the situation is more dangerous than its really is.
Most probably that person is of the worrying type and because of his worries his perception exaggerates the probability of potential threats. Most probably that's the type of person who will become paralyzed when he faces a major problems because of the negative scenarios that will come to his mind.
Whatever you say shows who you are
Each and every word a person says shows something about his deep needs and insecurities even if he had different intentions in mind when he said them.
A person might say a joke just to make his friends laugh but without realizing the words that he used can reveal a lot about his personality to the one who will analyze them.
@sue_0684 nih bleh tambah sikit knowledge
Last edited by Innrukia on 14-3-2013 07:54 AM
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Innrukia posted on 14-3-2013 07:49 AM
Morning...something nice to read & maybe can be practice.
Btw when we get to know someone, we can ...
each person may hv different values ... what is a joke to one, may be hurtful to others.
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sue_0684 posted on 13-3-2013 10:46 PM
yer betol...hidup ni mesti memberi dan menerima
ada check and balance ,ada ying n yang...tak gitu ...
i try to nasihat myself there r good days there r bad days ... tp kalo every day is a bad day ... sthing is wrong with u.
jom minum dulu
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missus_meow posted on 14-3-2013 09:04 AM
each person may hv different values ... what is a joke to one, may be hurtful to others.
betul tu missus....for us maybe a joke but for them?
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Sebagai soerng hamba yg telah ditemukan jodoh olehNya..
aku terpanggil utk memberi ingatan pada rakan yg belum ditemukan jodoh...;
1) beringatlah dgn MENABUNG sebanyak yg bole b4 kawen...kalo bole beli umah siap2..umah kecik pun tak pa..
kerana..;
lepas kawen pasti korang nak anak pulak...sedangkan anak2 yg bakal lahir tak minta utk dilahirkan pun..
Then lepas beranak pinak dok kalut nak bagi org lain jaga, pengasuh/nurseri/bibik..
kesian baby2 kecik terpaksa BERKORBAN pulak utk sebuah kehidupan lain yg penuh cabaran..kena dera dgn bibik..kena torture dgn pengasuh dan nurseri...
Kalo bole...lepas beranak..tolongla QIUT job..jaga anak sendiri...sian dgn anak2...
cukup la dan redha la dgn kehidupan yg ada.., jika anda hanya mampu dok kat umah flat & berkereta kancil...
sebab lepas kawen..dan beranak pinak..kehidupan adalah utk bertanggungjwb terhadap zuriat yg ada..
Jgn dok pikir bila tak keja takut laki lari dan idop terkontang-kanting..itulah pentingnya bersedia di kala belum lagi ada jodoh..
Kalo takut laki lari...adalah LEBIH ELOK KORANG TAK DA JODOH DRP MENGANIAYA KEHIDUPAN ZURIAT SENDIRI.. |
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sue_0684 posted on 14-3-2013 11:11 AM
dan kalo manjang jer bad impression...smpai bila2 pon x jumpa jodoh...pakar pon x boleh nk tulun ...
dia tu penah mngalami trauma yg terok kot, sbb tu susah nk dirawat
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sue_0684 posted on 14-3-2013 11:29 AM
org lain pon trauma ada lagi teruk,but life must goes on..
kalau pernah ditolak pinangan ke,di ...
bkn x leh rawat, tp x nk dirawat ... lbh suke bgundah gulana gitu ... cik abg akak kabo u hv 2 give urself a chance 2 give the other person a chance ... baru leh jd ... boleh gitu
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me pernah baca satu quote yg menyebut jodoh dan maut telah ditentukan sejak azali
kalau macam tu, kenapa kita kena berusaha mencari jodoh lagi? tunggu je tak boleh ke
sebab kan, walau macam mana kuat kita berusaha mencari pon, kalau Allah kata si polan itu bukan jodoh kita, tetap tak bersatu jugak kan |
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