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chazey replied at 27-1-2018 10:24 AM
Baru korek balik page2 belakang dan baca semua replies. Ai tak dapat notification if porumers repl ...
lain mcm mellow hang ni  |
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well done chazeyqWE457
(LAMA NAK ABISkan naip sebab bergelut dgn kucing yg dtg dan bergolek atas meja sondol semua benda sebb mintak perut di gosok..sy tak edit typo atas tu sebagai bukti!!).
oh spouse chazey deserved semua itu, and more! hmm, dari segi yg ditakuti oleh pihak lelaki, chazey tak tanya the cepumas question of: kenapa? ''why did you do it?'' etc. maybe chazey did ask, dan dah deal dgn jawapannya. dari sudut org middleaged mcm sy, sy agak busy utk main2 dah; nak jumpa org mmg very limited chances dah. jadi sy speculate, chazey n spouse are mid or late 30s pada masa tu. dan mobile dan active with outside world. jadi tempat spouse boleh ''terserempak'' dgn squeeze nya ialah in or around workplace. maaf guna terms yg agak intim ie squeeze, tetapi sy harap ia taklah membuat chazey marap kembali (namun sy yakin tak ade perempuan yg hilang marahnya dgn hal sebegini). dan pada masa ia terjadi, chazey adalah wife yg penyayang, balik rumah masak, buat laundry, gosok baju, jaga rumah, etc (satu pon darinye bukan tugas seorang isteri dari sudut Islam kecuali jaga pandangan org terhadap rumah ie rumahtangga)... dan tiba tiba it happened! kan?
difficult decision kan to stick around? tapi wanita mmg begitu, rasanya, akan duduk dgn setia esp kerana anak2. sesiapa yg kata kat chazey ''bersabarlah etc'', tentulah org yg tak berapa bijak dan mungkin deserve utk tertampar oleh chazey, namun sy kena ingatkan that ada virtue jugak sedikit kesabaran dalam apa yg terjadi, cuma semua org kena fhm if chazey tak mahu bersabar. chazey pon ambil tindakan yg tegas sebagaimana ramai wanita lain di mesia ke dunia omputeh ke africa ke, ie confront; pukul2 suami tu omputeh nyer style, nmpaknya chazey amat urbane  . reaksi yg lain eg minta cerai, berdiam diri, makan hati, membalas balik secara secret, membalas balik secara terbuka, buat dunno as if nothing happened, bersedih lalu bertanya diri i ni tak cukup cantik ke, play victim, silent treatment, berserah etc, adalah antara reaksi lain dan mainly tidak bernas. confronting n find out why adalah terbaik .
dapat lak chazey tangkap ek  ; buaya menggelupur bila ditangkap, dan amat bahaya waktu itu.
anyway, alhamdulillah dah setel.
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ingatkan dia ask lucky to sleep with him (i read wrong, sorry).tapi dia lelaki ''luar'', tak sepatutnya boleh shake a relationship.
well, dikalangan eastern n oriental lah; omputeh lain sikit.
lelaki yg biasanya buat hal
so he will message again in the future; hmm
silently, will u be happy to receiev the message (ie nice to know org still gila kan kita)
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i tak tau nak jawab mcm mana
ia if tak kekang, boleh merebak
if tak kekakng maybe tak kemana pon
if tak kekang fizzles out
if kekang, depa go underground
if kekang boleh stop it early
if kekang laki ngamuk dan nak tinggal etc
forumers lain yg wanita tentu lebih tahu, tetapi jawapan mereka hanya dari sudut wanita
i fikir elok kekang
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Edited by adila39 at 29-1-2018 01:50 PM
i like you doc! @ipes2
Your story buat i tersenyum and yes you are rude for at least tanyalah nama dia!!!
Anyway, i didnt not went for my quick holiday. Last minute decide I should not. So getway kat rumah and do some errands and play games with my little kiddo!
Reason cancel last minute, i think i need love not a lust. So why wasting time. And i think eve tho my heart is empty im no longer like before childish and emotional now...i believe in faith...further, less expecting and mana tau Allah will give better in future
I nak share mine jugak…if you don’t mind doc…
I will be 41 soon, this coming 10th feb and i remember when im in my 20s i had few yang i would say quite mind blowing ,..cehhh when i really think about it..daringnya aku...and i share some with you here
I like this one man, everyday i will wait for him either morning or evening time balik kerja...since it was my job and so young back then, i take everything so special and so close to my heart
Almost a year i like this guy and have no guts at all to even say hi....but one day " hey..u look beautiful today " i smiled. My heart is filled with joy...finally he is talking to me!!!! hahahaha and since then i always find ways to be close to him...then jadikan cerita one day kepala biul agaknya i ask him out of blue moon. And he said yes!!!!
But soon i know him, the sparks went low...so slowly we both drift apart.....and xde dah fling fling ni...hehehehe
Then i like this one doctor, he is a surgeon very soft spoken and sharp nose and to me he is the most beautiful man i ever met...his married...so i dont dare at all to do anything..even tho everytime i tengok dia and talked to him our eyes sometimes mcm naik juling kot....and after years and recently i found out dia re mary with other woman and that woman tak cantik pun...from what i heard she seduced him!
Gosh! and..again i balik rumah with broken heart..  but again now when i think about it there must be reason why Allah dont allow to me make my move kan...never know
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terma2nkondisi2 replied at 28-1-2018 11:52 PM
lain mcm mellow hang ni
Tengah mood swings masa menaip.  |
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adila39 replied at 29-1-2018 01:35 PM
i like you doc! @ipes2
Your story buat i tersenyum and yes you are rude for at least tanyalah na ...
Kdg2 crush shld remain crush n like shld remain like.sbb bile lebih2 ilang dah spark.dont u think so? |
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ipes2 replied at 29-1-2018 02:32 AM
i tak tau nak jawab mcm mana
ia if tak kekang, boleh merebak
if tak kekakng maybe tak kemana pon ...
if i were u, i let him be. but at the same time i improve myself, appearance and how i treat him. Then i will give him hint yg i tau how notty he is all this while...and again i pray hard and i work hard to make him sedar while ur with him, treasure u..jgn sampai u bla...dont be afraid ok. |
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ipes2 replied at 29-1-2018 02:32 AM
i tak tau nak jawab mcm mana
ia if tak kekang, boleh merebak
if tak kekakng maybe tak kemana pon ...
I mmg pernah confront, byk Kali kot tapi I dituduh penyibuk, Gila sebab pikir bukan2..siap cakap kalau Kat sini (his country, husband I foreigner) Ada kes husband menang lawsuit against the wife for snooping around his email and phone.
So I counterback dah sakit hati sgt I hempas iPad dia sampai pecah skrin. Puas hati. Lol. |
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thank you adila.
yeah, i thought it was rude. i should at least pay for the petrol. you just stuck it opuit at home, ha? that iwas time well-spent, im sure. kids grow. best time to bond with them and to forge that friendship that last a memory, is now. bila besar, they do their own things.
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who drifted away? you or him? i bet it was you.. since you were the expectant party..
tapi takpelah; tho' i must say, the story with that surgeon shouldve now taught you, that you should have a bit of boldness; be daring; what is there to be afraid of. (a woman very often is afraid and challenged by other women.. i dont know why!)
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so, you agak experienced heh with matters of the heart eh . no worries, it is quite sweet sometimes to hv your hearts tickled once in a while
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kan? tapi people are like cats je
people are more curious actually, then cats; padahal nyawa tak sebanyak kucing
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western approach huh ?
it can work
takut nanti @becir fikir ''mr hubby, u are 1 up, so i ada satu slot utk ''bernakal'' outside if we are to get even''.. and becir, one day, will.
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owhh! you broke an iPad ha ha that'll show him!
''fikir bukan2''? hmmm.. did you?
susah jugak nak be sure kan?
kot ade kot takde..
maybe, if becir wat cam dia, dia pon gundah dulana jugak
(ha ha we all dont ask dont tell..also dont check, sebab hols bersama mmg susah nak dapat.since kawin 1997, balik bersama hanya 2002, 2004 & 2007; kawin pon gi/balik lain lain.. so balik cuti each balik sorang2; so we just kena trust each other.. and dont ask dont tell )
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ipes2 replied at 30-1-2018 06:23 AM
owhh! you broke an iPad ha ha that'll show him!
''fikir bukan2''? hmmm.. did you?
Haaaa ape yg u 'don't tell? 'hehehehje |
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noraidil_06 replied at 29-1-2018 06:35 PM
Kdg2 crush shld remain crush n like shld remain like.sbb bile lebih2 ilang dah spark.dont u think ...
exactly babe, crush should remain crush...once the stage of interest and mysterious tu habis...dah tak excited...maybe i kot jenis cepat bosan |
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ipes2 replied at 30-1-2018 06:13 AM
thank you adila.
yeah, i thought it was rude. i should at least pay for the petrol. you just stuc ...
i dont regret tho, cuz i think now dia tau it wasn't easy to predict me. And by saying no sometimes trigger ur excitement. Well im over him like 10 years ago so ok je. Yup play with my one and only darling son. I pun selalu tinggal dia so spending time with him lagi best, i can talk anything and best part my son is so awesome we talked about love and soulmates..ye ye je my son bagi idea...infact he is only 6years old.
Being bold...hmmm maybe i dah retire kot... |
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adila39 replied at 30-1-2018 08:06 AM
i dont regret tho, cuz i think now dia tau it wasn't easy to predict me. And by saying no sometime ...
Too young to retire darl. Explore.hehehehee |
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Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.
Mmg pun. A crush will stay beautiful ONLY when it's a crush.
Crush tu sbb kita tak kenal dia, dari jauh nampak cool n comel. Bila dah kenal up close n it just so happens that the-ex-crush-sbb-now-dah-jd-the lover is a big old mess, dgr dia gelak pun rasa nak lari jauh2. Astaghfirullahal'azim.
Rasanya rata2 dlm forum ni bukan inexperienced, rash, emotion-driven budak2 remaja kan. Makanya, berpada2lah bila tersuka kat org. Love is never enough. Kena mentally prepared before going for the next move sbb kita kena fhm perangai dia, boleh terima apa yg dia nak, style dia, beliefs, emosi dia semua. Wallahua'lam.
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Genkidesuka replied at 30-1-2018 08:53 AM
Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.
Mmg pun. A crush will stay beautiful ONLY when it's a c ...
I remember about my crush long a go.in school.i make it public that i like him.he is a junior. He remain crush n i nvr pursue.sbb to my eyes dia ensem sgt.
Then fast forward i was in UM, reading law.my fav hang out place is jaya supermarket s.14 PJ. Then one faithful day i tgh beli fruits, someone shout out my name. Omg hensemnye.lol.
He is my crush! N fm that day he become my driver.lol. but no, i don't have any feeling towards him.vice versa. N he is now husband to my fren. I introduced them |
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Maybe I don't do law...sebab itu tak boleh nak digest element crush dan feeling tak bersangkutan...
Ibarat cinta untuk aku...body utk org lain......
kahkahkah.......
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 28-1-2018 11:52 PM
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Post time 29-1-2018 01:35 PM
