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Post time 28-4-2019 08:46 AM
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kucingitam replied at 27-4-2019 11:24 AM
be yourself je..
kau buat lelebih pun ada yang akan mengata gak..nak2 sil and their relatives dah t ...
True. I’ll bear that in mind. Thanks for commenting! |
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Post time 28-4-2019 08:48 AM
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bondeh replied at 27-4-2019 01:08 PM
I tahun ni tahun pertama beraya sebagai isteri. Tapi pengalaman beraya rumah mertua sempena Hari Ray ...
Wahhh... bestnya! I selalu teringin raya kat overseas. |
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Post time 28-4-2019 08:49 AM
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Elle_mujigae replied at 27-4-2019 03:31 PM
Buat mcm biasa je tt sbb dgn PIL tt okay je kan..itu pun dah cukup...
I’m counting on that la actually. I ninoun mmg jenis ringan tulang. Cuma tu la. I jenis berat mulut skett. I mmg pemalu, bukan sombong. Tu yg org slalu salah anggap. Hee |
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Post time 28-4-2019 08:51 AM
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farlis replied at 27-4-2019 03:39 PM
Alhamdulillah.. Best je beraya dgn mertua.. Plus ipar duai & biras semua ngam satu kepala.. Belah hu ...
Wahhh... good for you then. Rezeki tu. like I said before, I ni ringan tulang tp berat mulut- hence, I’ll probably stick to staying in the kitchen. Haha |
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Post time 28-4-2019 08:51 AM
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sapeka replied at 27-4-2019 07:39 PM
jadi diri sendiri je u
siapa yg tak suka u,u who r yus kan aje
diorang ingt u suke sangat ke diora ...
Good advice. Tq! |
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Post time 28-4-2019 08:55 AM
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KekDurian replied at 27-4-2019 09:06 PM
Bagus tt ada effort tanya..i dlu x twu apa2..teruja la katakan bcoz 1st time..kebetulan my SIL punya ...
Kannn... we can’t please everyone. We’re not a jar of Nutella. Haha.
I terkejut gak bila my SIL flat out said she didn’t like me. Just because I salam cium tgn dia, tanpa tgk muka dia. Tak sengaja pun. Tp tu la. Hati org kan?
I Cuba positive je. But I’ve anxiety- hence, it almost succumbs me. Therefore, I’ll try my best to bear this advice in mind - so that I’ve better mechanisms to handle this. |
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Post time 28-4-2019 09:14 AM
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otai_g replied at 27-4-2019 10:15 PM
U are deserved to be dislike, not buy ur sil but from me also.
ini malaysia la bodow bukan britai ...
Don’t have to be so angry though. |
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Post time 28-4-2019 09:18 AM
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eizarz replied at 27-4-2019 09:15 PM
batak betul la poll ni
To each his own. |
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QIsmail replied at 28-4-2019 08:41 AM
Aww... rezeki sgt dpt mertua awesome.
Alhamdulillah rezeki
Tapi tak lama la puLak |
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Menakautau replied at 28-4-2019 07:31 AM
Tak payah nak tunggu Raya pun.....Kan????
thats the the message I'm trying to put forth.....
Mmg punn. X perlu tgu raya.. Everytime mmg mcm tu. Cuma topik tu psl blk raya.. Ko x paham topik ke...
Eh, ko ada mertua ke.. Xde sapa nak dkt ko kann.. Duduk dendiammm |
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QIsmail replied at 28-4-2019 08:49 AM
I’m counting on that la actually. I ninoun mmg jenis ringan tulang. Cuma tu la. I jenis berat mul ...
Bagus tt ringan tulang, berat mulut..kita ada 5 kakak ipar.. dari pemerhatian kita, nak masuk dgn keluarga ipar ni jalan selamat adalah kurang bercakap.. senyum2 je.. kalau dgr org2 bercerita kat dapur tgh membawang tu  ,kita dgr2 angguk2 je, jgn nyampuk.. |
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Post time 28-4-2019 02:03 PM
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Elle_mujigae replied at 28-4-2019 01:41 PM
Bagus tt ringan tulang, berat mulut..kita ada 5 kakak ipar.. dari pemerhatian kita, nak ma ...
Tp tu la. That’s what I did too. Senyum2 angguk2 je. Basically stay out of their way. Haha. |
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Pengalaman dapat nak mertua yg stright pasal urutan balik kampung kadang2 buat rasa x selesa..bila beraya kat kampung di ajak tido kmpung dia pulak kita ada anak kecik meragam nk layn diirnag raya sakan sana sini..mmglah sethun skli probnya kalau ada kenduri semua mmg wajib gi time raya x perlulah paksa overnight kampung dia semata2 dia nk raya sekampung |
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Mak mertua iols x cerewet tegur2 itu ini. Masak sama2 makan sama2. Iols jenis mulut riuh suka mencari keje nak dibuat. Ipar mmg bajet bagus n perangai hangsuang sket. Try bertolak ansur jela selagi x menjolok tekak iols. Susah nk puaskan hati org |
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Post time 29-4-2019 05:39 AM
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Suelicious80 replied at 28-4-2019 11:46 PM
Pengalaman dapat nak mertua yg stright pasal urutan balik kampung kadang2 buat rasa x selesa..bila b ...
Wow susah jgak cmtu ye? I kira beruntung sebab my hubby tak berapa rapat dgn family dia. We’re both shipped off to boarding school and studied overseas for our undergrad. That’s why my hubby pun cm so-so je dgn his other siblings. Dgn his parents mmg dia rapat |
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Post time 29-4-2019 05:41 AM
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missinpiece replied at 29-4-2019 04:31 AM
Mak mertua iols x cerewet tegur2 itu ini. Masak sama2 makan sama2. Iols jenis mulut riuh suka mencar ...
Tu la kan. I perasan masalah ipar hangsuang ni byk in Malay families. I smpai skrg tak faham kenapa perlu nk pangkah2 menantu perempuan. Bukannya kita balik rumah mertua kita mengangkang je. |
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QIsmail replied at 29-4-2019 05:41 AM
Tu la kan. I perasan masalah ipar hangsuang ni byk in Malay families. I smpai skrg tak faham kenap ...
Anggap jela dieorg rasa terancam ngn kehadiran kita hehehe. Minda mereka disempitkan ngn perasaan x puas hati n hasad dengki so kesian jugak sebenarnya |
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Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.
Takpa, TT. Cool cool aje yek. Allah swt dtgkan mcm2 jenis ujian kat kita ni kan. Ni jenis boleh tolerate lagi la. U usaha sungguh2 to guard ur heart, ye. Just amalkan amalan2 yg akak sebut hari tu. Insya Allah, akan sampai masanya ur heart will stay calm dan kembali hanya kpdNya bila dtg ujian2, either susah atau senang. Kita tak boleh ubah org, tp dgn kehendak Allah dan izinNya jua, kita boleh ubah diri kita sendiri. Kita sama2 berusaha ke arah itu ok? Semoga u n hubby diberkati Allah dgn rumahtangga yg sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah dan dikurniakan zuriat yg soleh dan solehah.
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Tahun ni baru nk merasa beraya dengan family mertua buat pertama kali,, |
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1st time beraya dgn family mertua, tgh pregnant anak sulung 8bln lbh.. sebak jugak lh tgk lauk raya tk sama... plus family mertua suka msk lauk raya start pukul 3-4pg huhuhuhu haru biru rasa tahun tu...
tp seronok jugak sbb 1st time beraya dgn suasana baru, dgn suami, family baru...
& disebabkan family mertua suka msk lewatlh start tahun ke 2 hingga skrg sy take over dapur, sbb dh tbiasa masak awal2 blh rehat awal, dan suami plak ckp kalau rasa nk mkn msakan mcm kg sendiri masaklh sbb family dia jns tk msk berjenis2 ni... kalau rendang pun pakai rempah mak siti tu... tp sy tk de lh kejam msk smua lauk sy, lauk tradisi family suami pun sy msk sama... mujur senang je ayam msk merah banjar tu hahahahahah
btw kalau tk raya pun, mmg dapo tu muka sy je ddk hahahah sbb peel tk suka msk lewat2 lgi cpt msk lg bagus konsep nya |
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