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Academic excellence at the expense of social life.....
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Kawan?
Originally posted by CRK at 29-10-2006 02:59 PM
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skarang ni bila masuk alam pekerjaan/kahwin baru aku rasa dah banyak bende2 yg aku terlepas sepanjang aku study dulu. lepas abis degree terus continue master pahtu continue lagi. ka ...
Apa ada pada kawan? Ada apa dengan kawan? Kawan masa ketawa memang ramai, masa menangis? Saya selalu berpegang pada kata2 seorang intelek " bagi saya kawan penting, tapi jangan terlalu dipentingkan sangat ".
Saya dah melalui segala ragam kawan2 selama saya hidup di dunia ini........kawan sejati bagi saya hanya ada dalam 2,3 orang sahaja. Tu pun sudah cukup bersyukur......... |
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Originally posted by DanIno at 25-10-2006 12:16 AM
Assalamualaikum, sebenarnya saya telah dikuasai oleh satu fahaman, iaitu mengurangkan masa untuk kehidupan sosial ( bertemua kawan2, ahli keluarga, sanak-saudara, masa keluar bertemu kenalan ) untu ...
Kalau la tak tercapai your dreams dalam akademi walopong dah spent 100% on it
Tidakkah terasa merugikan kesudahannya?
Ramai yg cakap "Don't study hard but study smart"
Namun begitu tak ramai yang excel in doing tht...
Apa kata hang plak yg try ikut ungkapan tu???
Hopefully it works well for you... |
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No doubt,u would succeed that way.But a in a way...you would lose something else...ur social life, ur teens life.
Isk Isk...tak sanggup nak hilang tu suma... |
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Academic excellence at the expense of social life.....
i dont htink so.Star ade ramai kenalan yg dorang tu kaki disco,kaki ponteng tapi result keluar...DORANG LER YG TOP2 TU SEMUA!
so moral of the story...its all about study smart. |
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Study smart tak semestinya belajar 24 jam.
I have come across several individuals yang study more than 10 hours a day when they were students. Mereka bersosial ala kadar, pada mereka socializing is not a priority. They are already good students, but they aim to be the best. They are eligible to enter any university they desire, but they eye for Harvard, Cambridge and Oxford.
Mereka ini boleh concerntrate lama sebab dah tersemat di hati mereka SEMANGAT untuk belajar. Takda siapa yang suruh, takde siapa yang leter. These people are now at the peak of their careers and social life mereka hari ini dgn orang2 kenamaan.... jemputan dinners and functions almost daily.... sampai selalu kena tolak...... |
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uih... kalo ketepikan kesemua mende hanya utk excel dalam bidang akademik, mana boleh wooo.... boleh jadik gila silap2 haribulan... sbb ada anak to my grandma's fren... sbb terlalu sgt fokus kat study sampai mengabaikan mende2 lain, sudahnya, dia jadi gila... ni cerita betul nih... life ni kena balance... study2 gak tapi kena ada masa utk diri sendiri, utk famili, utk frens... kalo terlalu fokus kepada study, nanti tekanan yg melampau ke atas diri sendiri... sudahnya, study apa pun tak masuk... |
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the individuals that I was talking about tu.... takdela duduk bawah tempurung, they socialize tapi minimum la... takde la orang komen yg mereka ni tak bergaul.... its just that they dont watch tv much and jarang lepak.....
Nak katakan they do not have other activities, tak jugak, because most of them have a strength in at least one field. Sorang tu, is a school swimmer, sorang lagi tu represent the state in chess. sorang lagi tu, orang kuat silat, sorang tu kaki debate....
the way I look at it, they ENJOY studying ..... mereka belajar tanpa paksaan so takdela stress macam cerita FOREX tu....
But Mac pun pernah dgr cerita just like cerita Forex tu..... but tak taula background mereka macamana kan? |
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Originally posted by manissa at 29-10-2006 05:54 PM
Kalau la tak tercapai your dreams dalam akademi walopong dah spent 100% on it
Tidakkah terasa merugikan kesudahannya?
Ramai yg cakap "Don't study hard but study smart"
Namun be ...
word "study smart" ni kene pahm konsep die cmane nk study.....let us ourself je tau how we want to study...x kirelah nk study kejap je..as long kite phm what we are doing ....and kite boleh achieve pe yg kite target tu... |
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Originally posted by macademia at 30-10-2006 04:38 PM
the individuals that I was talking about tu.... takdela duduk bawah tempurung, they socialize tapi minimum la... takde la orang komen yg mereka ni tak bergaul.... its just that they dont watch tv m ...
mac, yg mana forex post? fox cuba cari tak jumpa pun? :stp: |
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Originally posted by Foxey at 31-10-2006 09:17 AM
mac, yg mana forex post? fox cuba cari tak jumpa pun? :stp:
HAHA Fox..... I'm referring to you la..... tapi sebab nama you glamour sangat ...tu yang jadi Forex tu....hehe
Mintak mahap ye.... :tq::tq::tq: |
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bukan bermakna yg score tu terperap je
cuma bab2 lain bukan priority
tu je..
alangkah baiknya kalau all-rounder |
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R2D2,
Mac tgk kebanyakkan scorers sememangnya all rounder..... tapi yang betul2 ulat buku jenis terperap pun ramai jugak....
[ Last edited by macademia at 1-11-2006 09:11 AM ] |
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kalau study tu, at most paling lama dan critical adalah 5 jam,
5 jam sudah memadai dalam satu hari untuk kita mengulangkaji...
selebihnya kita kena bersukan, membaca majalah kartun, benda2 yg ringin utk relak mind...
makanan pun kena jaga supaya otak dan badan sentiasa fuction dgn betul...
all work, no play, makes jack a dull boy...study smart... |
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Mac rasa, masalah pelajar2 sekarang ialah - Social activities at the expense of acedemic excellence..... |
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Originally posted by macademia at 1-11-2006 10:42 AM
Mac rasa, masalah pelajar2 sekarang ialah - Social activities at the expense of acedemic excellence.....
Kalau kita cuba tengok secara majoritinya memang macam tu, tapi masih ada students yg gila2 nak study sebenarnya, like me.......I penah ada masalah sosial sebab cuba meng"zero"kan kehidupan selain dari study, memang susah........betul, hidup kena balance, tapi tetap kita akan rasa a regret at the end, tambah2 kalau yg jenis cita2 tinggi melangit.... |
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Danino, good for you that you are in the category. Of coursela ada juga yang study gila2 tapi % kurangla.... but do they miss out on the social life? Or those yang dok bersocial yang miss out on getting the most in education and a chance to have the best that life can offer them in the future?
Sememangnya the student kena try la ada balance = studies + activities. But kalau tak balance pun, I prefer if the student cenderung pada studies lebih and not social lebih....
Sejuk hati mac tgk front page kat paper ada pelajar2 cemerlang few days ago..... they deserve to be in the front page.... bukannya gambar artis yang entah apa2 ceritanya..... |
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Originally posted by macademia at 5-11-2006 09:40 AM
Danino, good for you that you are in the category. Of coursela ada juga yang study gila2 tapi % kurangla.... but do they miss out on the social life? Or those yang dok bersocial yang miss out on ge ...
That falls back to the media and the mentality of our society, if our society in general have the knowledge-as-the-first-priority-attitude, they won't even care to read news about the artists in the newspapers.......
[ Last edited by DanIno at 6-11-2006 12:22 PM ] |
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Originally posted by DanIno at 25-10-2006 12:16 AM
Assalamualaikum, sebenarnya saya telah dikuasai oleh satu fahaman, iaitu mengurangkan masa untuk kehidupan sosial ( bertemua kawan2, ahli keluarga, sanak-saudara, masa keluar bertemu kenalan ) untu ...
Aku suka cara hidup mcm ni. Kalau masyarakat dan pemimpin mahu generasi muda kita cemerlang akademik, maka sila benarkan mereka study maut! |
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jgn buang social life..kena pandai bahagikan ms..ble nak enjoy n ble time utk studi...skrg nie org x tgk results je..tp our social activities...da +ve sides la..yg merempit, melepak x tentu hala tuh mmg ptt dibuang la... saye dulu ade sorg kwn kat uk..british..kluarga die mmg pandai2 belaka..her brother applied kat oxford uni..sume org mmg expected die akan dpt trime punye coz results die mmg gempak gle..tp kena reject..y?sbb die cemerlang dr segi akademik je..yg lain die lemah..in other words..he had no social life...so pk2 kanla... |
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Cemerlang akademik jek bagus ke? ape guna ade 1st class degree. tp bila kerja x reti nak deal dgn org lain? social skill tu penting gak.... tp kalo smpi pegi clubbing, merempit tu aku no comment laa...tu dah social problem namanyer... |
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Post time 29-10-2006 04:14 PM
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