Hipokrit-macamana nk tanganinya?anyone please.

juju_amin84

rmai org yg hipokrit ....hehehe ..
tp kalo sy jumpa org camnie, ader can  nk kena lecture ngn saya ...ahakss ...

dutchy

bior ler dia nk hippo mcm maner pung...
at the end of the day..they are lying to themselves...you should hv
a pity on them though

dutchy

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 6-11-2007 05:14 PM
i once face a guy... being exposed that he cheat(he is a close relative)

yet he still can laugh and smile infront even caught red handed....

how to deal?/

WL ~
we can only try to change a person for what they are worth ( or lack thereoff ) so much

isn't it better for u to try and distance yourself away from such a person, rather then trying to deal with them
such a person got only to deal with themselves..why bother so much abt others...
( i got this piece of great advise from someone )

manakautau

Originally posted by cranko21 at 30-10-2007 04:02 PM
betul..
wa angkat org camni terencat akal jer
dari wa layan mengong dia.. baik wa jauhkan diri...
life is so much better dari berkawan ngan org yg lidah belit2

Engage him more, be more kinder,.........by disengaging.......you are actually shutting out any possibilities of seeing him turning better. You have a role to play, no matter how small it may be..........

wei_loon5063

i know.. but sometims, due to work, we are temporarly tied up with such people

cranko21

your thoughts are your own.. and no one can deny it..
my thoughts and my approach are mine alone...

thank you....


[ Last edited by  cranko21 at 9-11-2007 01:05 PM ]

cranko21

- ditto-

server mengong'

[ Last edited by  cranko21 at 9-11-2007 01:08 PM ]

cranko21

yup.. have met this kind of person myself..

they can still look straight in your eyes and denied all though all facts and proof are there...

tsk tsk tsk..

alongee

itulah yg along buat.....utk ilangkan sakit ati tu..along fikir kebaikan yg dia pernah buat pd along..so scara tk langsung..kurang sikit rasa sakit hati tu....

manakautau

Originally posted by cranko21 at 9-11-2007 12:46 PM
your thoughts are your own.. and no one can deny it..
my thoughts and my approach are mine alone...

thank you....

Jika niat kita utk membantu insan istemewa ini (hypokrit in nature), then rasanya kita harus mengembleng tenaga secara wholesome and more structured manner.....tapi kalau awak dah nak angkat kaki...then how........?????? Nak kena banyak sabar, tak leh cepat give up by deleviating yourself away from it.....I hope you understand my point better now dear????

org hipokrit ni kite kene biarkan je..lama2 sikap sebenar akan terserlah...kalau kite tegur pun buat sakit hati je..

alongee

thnx geng....4 yr opinions....:flower:

alongee

mmg..along dh rasa..yg sakit ati..kita gak....

andria

Originally posted by alongee at 30-10-2007 15:21
kalau dh ader minta maaf yer...n merge ajelah

along cukup rasa sakit hati bla ada diantara kengkawan ataupun ahli keluarga yg berperangai begini...emmmm rasa mcm nk.....:@
bila didepan kita. ...

Based on the thread's title.

Sebenarnya hipokrasi itu ada dlm diri setiap manusia, mengikut level masing2. Sama ada kita sedar atau tidak saja. Dan bezanya ialah, bagaimana cara kita melakukan implementasi serta menanganinya. Adakah sesuai dgn masa, orang dan keadaan, atau sebaliknya. Kdg2 kita hanya lihat hipokrasi org lain, sehingga kita selalu alpa pd hipokrasi diri sendiri.

Contoh paling mudah - Kdg2 kita tak suka perbuatan yg dilakukan oleh seseorg, tapi disebabkan kerana kita tak mahu timbulkan konflik, maka kita lebih rela bercakap di belakang (mengadu kpd org lain) dari berhadapan dgn org tersebut. Ini pun satu bentuk hipokrasi juga. To put it simply, manusia xkan boleh lari dari hipokrasi. It's just how u deal with it that matters.

cranko21

diff ppl diff approach..
I am sure you can respect that..

right dearie????

my-alja

Originally posted by andria at 13-11-2007 10:43 PM
Contoh paling mudah - Kdg2 kita tak suka perbuatan yg dilakukan oleh seseorg, tapi disebabkan kerana kita tak mahu timbulkan konflik, maka kita lebih rela bercakap di belakang (mengadu kpd org lain) dari berhadapan dgn org tersebut. Ini pun satu bentuk hipokrasi juga. To put it simply, manusia xkan boleh lari dari hipokrasi. It's just how u deal with it that matters.

...

heheeh...i dikelilingi org yg begini, tak suka tapiiiiii....dia turut saja, kat belakang dia bukak citer lain plak ....

pd yg kata TIDAK...selalunya org camni mesti jahat tapi wa tahu wa dah tak bukak buku kat belakang...nasib ko lah labu

manakautau

Originally posted by cranko21 at 14-11-2007 12:58 PM
diff ppl diff approach..
I am sure you can respect that..

right dearie????

I can respect yor approach, but I cannot accept yor sikap yg  cepat nah nak angkat kaki.......paham kan awak????? Coz once you are out......the line of communication between you and the person you claim to be hipokrit is automatically terminated......dat is my concern.

cranko21

tsk tsk tsk..

thanks for your concern lah....

----terminated!-----

thedude

Benda macam ni .. paling senang .. buat tatau jer ...

cranko21

buat tak tau mmg buat tak tau dude..
tapi yg pasti this kinda ppl are all around us!