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Aku kawin muda, 20 thn (somi 24thn). Somi pernah curang masa aku 28thn (somi 32 thn).
Sebab:
1. Laki aku mmg gatal & tak sedar diri
2. Aku dah mula contented dgn kehidupan aku ... rasa jadi membosan pada laki aku, kot?
Result:
1. Laki aku nyesal, janji taknak buat lagi (insya-allah)
2. Aku mengubah diri, mentally & physically. Aiming to maintain myself as an interesting person and a 'hot mama' for the rest of my life!
Conclusion:
Bersyukur itu mesti,tetapi jangan cepat berpuas hati dengan diri sendiri. Selalu & sentiasa memperbaiki diri untuk jadi yang terbaik, selagi hayat masih ada...insya-allah. Ini semua dugaan Allah agar I dan somi akan sentiasa mengingatinya. |
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Reply #21 sharkie's post
mungkin orang muda cepat bosan kot, tapi saper suruh kawin muda kan? |
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curang tak mengenal usia.. kdg2 tu lg dah tua lg x sedar diri...
byk faktor lain sebenarnya... bkn kire kawin muda ker tak... mak ngan ayah sy pn kawin muda.. 16,17thn... skng mak 44 ayah 45.. ok jek.. takder curang2 pn... |
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kawen je..susah2 wat pe..... |
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i got married at 20, takde pulak aku curang cureng ms ada bini...my ex filed for divorce in 2003 after 7.5 years of marriage.........then lepas tuh br aku rajin nak berYM sayang ngan pompuan sana sini.....kiranya kawin muda tak semestinya curang tp manusia x kira ler muda ka, tua nak mampus ka.....akan mesti carik sebab tuk curang.....
[ Last edited by BingkaUbi at 17-1-2008 11:54 AM ] |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 17-1-2008 11:27 AM 
mungkin orang muda cepat bosan kot, tapi saper suruh kawin muda kan?
I my case, i dah nak habis study, dia dah start kerja... and you think you met the right person & since we are away from the family & do not want anything bad to happened (nafsu manusia, siapa tau, kan?). Baik kahwin je kan... maksiat dapat di elak.
Personally, i rasa i dah mature enough masa kawin, sebab i habis sekolah cepat & habis degree pun cepat, but again I was wrong.... 20 years is still a teenager... & I didn't realise that. Sekarang, I terima ni ujian dari Allah... my qada & qadar...
But insya-allah, i dont want my kids (especially my daughter) to do the same... i will advise them. Get want you want 1st (job, ambition, etc) and think about marriage later, but not to late, though! |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 17-1-2008 11:27 AM 
mungkin orang muda cepat bosan kot, tapi saper suruh kawin muda kan?
tetiba aku rasa bosan. aku nk gi mencurang sat....  |
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Reply #21 sharkie's post
aku pon rasa kalau kawen muda ni boleh menjadi la isu curang2 ni. Org mudakan suka bende2 yg mencabar..
Ngorat2 ppuan ni kire mencabar ape..
Tambahan pulak kan kalo lelaki tu maintain aje body... |
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common sense la....org tua nak curang pun kalu takat duit nak makan pun tak cukup, muka hensem giler pun blom tentu ada pompuan nakkk.......org tua perut boroi muka selekeh tp duit ribu riban, bwk kete bmw ka.......tak yah ngorat, beratur pompuan mata duitan nak dok atas riba.......so ada la chance nak curang.........org muda walau duit tak byk tp umo muda, tak matured senang jek la nak ngorat & curang...........nak curang tgk pd peluang, bkn pd umo... |
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Semua datang dari 'hati'. Akhlak & iman seseorang (ceewah, macam forum perdana masa Maal hijrah pulaks!)
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aiseh... bosannya curang nih....
tk de org nk layan aku curang la... |
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Reply #32 tehlaut's post
ko tidak cukup hebat untuk curang2 nih  |
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Reply #5 fish_o7's post
Berapa umo ja pun kalau curang, curang jua. |
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Reply #36 me_xy82's post
huhuhu oit nape besokan?.. bahaya? takde bahaya le.. nape? takut org curi?.. err takde org ndak.. aku sorang je ndak..  |
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Reply #39 me_xy82's post
adehh besarnye.. cam gambo utk pilihanraya je..  |
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