BerCINTA lagi dengan SUAMI

LostSoul

be_nign, bila kita dah lama kawin, there is a bond between both of us yg tie us stronger.. it is more than merely love n lust.. susah nak describe but it is there, esp for those yg dah lalu susah senang sama2.. so, the feeling of less romantically inclined is replaced by the spirit of comradeship, friendship, that delves more than just that adrenaline-ridden love.

if an old couple has this, to revive the marriage to the stage where fireworks starts firing again is not that difficult. simplest gestures would be enough.

last valentine, i saw google's artwork.. showing an old couple, the old guy with a stick, and the old lady with a balloon, walking hand in hand... sweet..

NURMIMIE

hehe kan dah kata.. aku baru jer cakap sikit.. dah ada yang meroyan..

maklumlah.. vavi kasi cuma bleh berideal ngan yg tak tau romen jerk.. dah laki tak dok..

ups.. sorry tuan rumah.. tersyayar..

NURMIMIE

Originally posted by be_nign at 26-2-2008 08:01 PM

Oohh..sekarang ni saya mula sedar cara percakapan saya dengan suami...dulu2 masa bercinta..punyalah ayu dan lemah gemalai suara saya...
kontrol habis masa bergayut dengan suami..suami dengar pon tangkap lentok...

Sekarang baru saya perasan,kadang2 saya jawab acuh tak acuh aje bila bercakap dgn suami..kalau dlm telepon plak..hem..aaa..hemm..ok..
Lemah-lembut tu dah kurang....kalau orang lelaki tersalah nombor kol saya,boleh pulak saya cakap lemah lembut..

Dan sekarang saya dah mula ubah sikap saya..cuba berlemah lembut dengan suami..sentiasa senyum kat dia..picit2 badan dan bahu dia(tanpa disuruh)
kat supermarket saya jalan rapat2...nak bersentuhan selalu.. (kalau dulu2 dia belakang, saya depan atau sebaliknya)

Dan yang paling lama saya tak buat ialah,kissing dia sebelum dia keluar kerja..baru 2-3 hari ni saya mulakan kembali...sebelum dia keluar ke muka pintu,saya tarik tangan dia..and give a kiss..berseri-seri muka dia..barula ceria dia nak mulakan kerja kan....

baguslah kalau dah dapat sedar.. bukan untuk orang lain pun.. untuk kita juga..

kalau parents lovely dovy gitu, anak2 pun membesar dengan mental yang mantap.. tak der ler bila besar jadik 'sesuatu' kerana membesar dalam keadaan yang tidak begitu harmoni..

anyway.. bless you forever..

manakautau

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 26-2-2008 07:15 PM
tu dia pasangan ideal.. ' ceh.. merah padam muka aku

YUMMmmMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.........SHEEEEEEEENGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG....Bottoms up......

Jangan buat2 lupa??????

manakautau

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 26-2-2008 07:23 PM


betui..

kan.. mcm aku ngan hb aku tak der ler candlelight2 segalak.. tak der ayat2 merayu bagai.. tapi masa kami berdua.. umphhh gitu.. banyak spark kot effect dia silau milau

ya ...

Banci penduduk selalu menunjukkan yg bermegah paling bahagi tu lah yg paling banyak derita.......

NURMIMIE

alamak.. musibah dah masuk..

larikkkkkk

manakautau

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 26-2-2008 11:37 PM


baguslah kalau dah dapat sedar.. bukan untuk orang lain pun.. untuk kita juga..

kalau parents lovely dovy gitu, anak2 pun membesar dengan mental yang mantap.. tak der ler bila besar jadik  ...

I can see where the problem is with you now.....


[ Last edited by  manakautau at 27-2-2008 12:51 AM ]

manakautau

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 27-2-2008 12:44 AM
alamak.. musibah dah masuk..

larikkkkkk

Ujian masuk...mushibatul larik..........

dianthe

dah larik betul tu

nak tido dah, g.nite    

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 26-2-2008 07:19 PM
teringat aku cite ada sorang kakak kat sini dulu.. mlm2 kluar makan roti canai dgn hubby dia.. bahagia selama lebih 15 thn kot.. roti canai je tuh..

Isteri jenis malas masak dan tak suka masak, suami pulak memang tak tahu masak...kalau suami ngan isteri tak makan roti canai...jawab dua2 kebulur lah?????? Apa relationnya ngan hidup bahgia selama 15tahun?????

NURMIMIE

sorry yea.. aku menten bahagia.. apa pun orang nak cakap, aku dulik apa.. tak kurang pun bahagia aku..

kalau nak ngorat aku, tunggu ler aku mengadu derita bagai baru ler boleh masuk daun yea.. itu pun kalau aku layan ler..

se sempoi aku pun, memilih gak..

yang tak der kelas tuh, stok orang tak der kelas jer yea..

harap maklum

manakautau

LostSoul

you always have negative perception on what people have to say. why not take it from the positive outlook? she said about spending her time with her husband at night, just the two of them, just eating roti canai. thats all. she never said she does not know how to cook, lazy to cook or etc.

by the way, if you were insinuating about me, my answer is very simple: you're not my husband, and NEVER WILL BE. so thats my cue. take it from there or leave it.

manakautau

Originally posted by LostSoul at 27-2-2008 08:32 AM
you always have negative perception on what people have to say. why not take it from the positive outlook? she said about spending her time with her husband at night, just the two of them, just e ...

Unless you can colate all my 5000 over posts so far to prove your point that I ALWAYS HAVE negative perception on what people have to say.....then I think it is worthwhile dat you just stay low. But if it just your too much of  reading inbetween the lines that you want to start making wild assumptions on me, I guessed it is your prerogative then.

Of course I am not your husband and never will be...but the thought of you actually penning down dis statement......tak malu ker???????

Psst kalau nak kasi ayat kat atas tu pasal roti canai....bior lah realistic sikit...kat FD ni tak ramai belajo Critical Thinking as major(macam Manak) masa zaman sekolah dulu tau.....

LostSoul

you are, but of course, you cannot see it. your ego too high up.

malu for what, i'm teling you the truth. so be it.

manakautau

Dalam  pembelajaran ilmu  critical thinking ni.....soal ego juga ada diselitkan dalam salah satu side track topic...

Of course you have been telling the truth all this while .....no doubt abt it.....but the problem here is you have not been smart enuf to tell/share with people wat you shud and wat you shud keep...... Tu yg menyebabkan hang dalam situasi skg ini....

Coz in this forum world you must always expect the unexpected ,no matter how truthful you are in sharing your real experiences with people here .....Pikir apa yg Manak katakan ini.......

LostSoul

who is actually not smart enough to keep what he/she should keep, you tell me. now you gotta tell the whole wide world this is all just a make-up story? why on earth would a person make up any stories, a very shameful story that put no one others, but that person down and circulating it around?

i did mentioned about my problems, in an effort to get some feedback. i'm not ashamed to say that i too, had marriage problems. but from the feedback, i know what i gotta do, so i did what i did. the situation right now is much, much better, no thanks to you.

so for me, if i share, does not mean that people have to adhere, all of us have different ways to approach all kinds of problems.

and pretending is not something i'm good at. so, i rather be who i am. scorn as much as you wanted.

zanorba

Selalu mcm nih...masuk je manak+dianthe....

be_nign

Originally posted by LostSoul at 26-2-2008 10:33 PM
be_nign, bila kita dah lama kawin, there is a bond between both of us yg tie us stronger.. it is more than merely love n lust.. susah nak describe but it is there, esp for those yg dah lalu susah senang sama2.. so, the feeling of less romantically inclined is replaced by the spirit of comradeship, friendship, that delves more than just that adrenaline-ridden love.

if an old couple has this, to revive the marriage to the stage where fireworks starts firing again is not that difficult. simplest gestures would be enough.

last valentine, i saw google's artwork.. showing an old couple, the old guy with a stick, and the old lady with a balloon, walking hand in hand... sweet..

Ya..makin lama kahwin sepatutnya  begitulah...tapi sometimes kita tengok,ada pasangan yang dah 20-30 tahun kahwin,dah beranak cucu..tup-tup bercerai..samada si suami ada perempuan lain ataupun si isteri tu ada lelaki lain..

kenapa sampai jadi camni..apa yang mereka tak puas hati dengan pasangan masing2...padahal sudah berpuluh tahun hidup susah senang bersama...
adakah sbb sudah kurangnya daya cas-cas tertarik dan ditarik dalam diri pasangan masing-masing...atau sebab apa...

manakautau

Originally posted by zanorba at 27-2-2008 09:25 AM
Selalu mcm nih...masuk je manak+dianthe....

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