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Reply #1 sarahmirza's post
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to err is human, bumi mana yg taktimpa hujan, nobody's perfect...so to give a second chance...yes...but not the third, fourth, etc.etc.....and it depends on the degree of the damage done & how the second chance will ever heal the damages |
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aji mahkamah syariah kite ni tima ke tuntutan fasakh isteri kepada suami yang ada gf tapi belum terlanjur..ekekeke..gf yang kalau jodoh kuat akan diangkat jadi bini ..tp tak tahu bila la..he he... |
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buat apa nak stay lagi...
tak relalah hati dan perasan dipermainkan/dilukakan... |
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Originally posted by zanorba at 6-3-2008 11:12 AM 
Pd yg nampak silap dia kat mana dan sanggup memperbaiki kesilapan, insaf dan taubat atas kesilapan tu , then why not a 2nd chance?
Sbb manusia mudah lupa, jd peluang kedua ni sbg peringatan juga ...
tapi kalo 'ulangan silap' tu masih berlaku, berlarutan perangai or perbuatan yang dia apologise tu..camna?
nak jadi a fool gak ke?
kalo kemarau..ari hujan ..kira rahmat
tapi kalo hujan tak henti2 sampai berminggu..ko nak duk diam saja? tak berfikir? kan ke nanti banjir lama2 gak..dan banjir ni kire musibah ler..ko de otak ko tak pakai..ko tenguk ujan sik turunnnnnnn jek..aik lain macamm ujan ni non stop..air di sungai tu ntah2 dah limpah..ko pi tido gak tau2 haaaa mimpi jadi duyung hihihihi
insaf, taubat seme tak cukup lagi..kene tenguk kali keberapa tu
malah kalo ko baca quran tu..ada maksud antara lain nya kata kalo ko buat silap dan taubat kendian ulangi silap tu dan kendian taubat dan ko buat lagi berkali2 macam tu, seolah NKO MEMPERMAINKAN AYAT TUHAN.
we dont want to be looked upon as a fool .. ok? pasal tu SORRY dalam erti kata sebenar..memang payah. Kalo laju jek sorry tu aku pun meluat dengo..sonang bono mintak maap tu sonang bono la besok2 dia buat lagi..esp jantan kurap
cakap la ego ke apa ke..but actually susah nak mintak maap seriously pasal dah bleh rasa ujian tu akan mai lagi cenggitu..bleh rasa pressure to change tu kuattttttt bebeno. kita leh tau bahwa kita ni lemah sebenonya cuma hati tu terlalu sombong cam iblis..tenguk nasib iblis tu camno. Iblis lain, dah termaktub.
Pasal tu salu kene doa supaya idup di jalan lurus cam baca fatihah tu, kita takut kalo tuhan dah tulis di loh mahfuz tu haaa..nasib cam iblis, termaktub..abissssssss ko, nauzubillah. Tapi bunga2 tu di dunia leh tenguk gak dah..tu pasal penting otak tu , menyelidik..cam penagih tegar tu..or oang sebut anjing tu tak makan taik dah ..tapi dia tetap hidu hidu gak..bahye tu aaaaa kan?
mengira membaca mengarang menulis berfikir menyelidik bertanya mengolah...ni seme aktiviti sangat penting. |
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rerasanya sesapa yg paham atau biasa dgr istilah "emotional bank account" lagi mudah nak paham kot kenapa ada org masih bagi peluang demi peluang utk org tersayang....so dlm keadaan2 tertentu bila spouse terbuat sesatu yg salah technically aka withdrawn the account.... selagi ada baki ccount tu, adalah 2nd chance..maybe 3 chance, kalo spouse pandai top-up balik!
nie kalo jenis spouse yg tak pernah top-up account, tetiba buat hal.....baki sampai overdraft ...yg nie memang kena tinggal sehelai sepinggang, nie pun utk wanita zaman millenium lah |
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Reply #26 ajinomotonosuga's post
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Bang aji...sy citer pun pasal 2nd chance je le...bukan berchance2 punya citer, k. |
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Reply #27 my-alja's post
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Sy suka explanation alja...make sense jugak...Tuh agaknya kdg2 kita tengok ada org still maintain w/pun dah berkali2 peluang diberi...hanya depa je yg tau kan! |
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Reply #25 NtahSapaNtah's post
Tu la kan...he he..anyway tq dude.. |
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alamak..saya nie baru belajar.. x baper reti..
2nd chance di kira.. kali pertama buat salah.. lepas tu minta maaf atau dah 2 kali buat salah.. mintak maaf lagi.. tolong explain skitttttttttt!!!  |
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Originally posted by NtahSapaNtah at 6-3-2008 12:16 PM
Ada jenis orang yang can survive without being feed with love... normally other factors contributing... or their love is just plain unconditional... agape (ni kalau bahasa melayu, gile buta c ...
i do believe in "unconditional love" but only apply to flesh n blood relationship
dan bila kita cakap pasal, hubungan manusia yg dah lebih drp 10-15 thn, anak2 yg tgh membesar...normal feeding for love dah makin berkurang, bukan kata takde tapi momemtum tu dah berkurang, memang byk faktor yg menyumbang pd kesinambungan family utk terus wujud....apakah faktor tu.....macam2, dari segi kewangan, segi status dlm masyarakat...and the list goes on esp if u are someone in public.... |
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Selagi ada ruang kemaafan, tingkatkan martabat anda dengan memberinya kepada mereka yang memerlukan. |
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Originally posted by LostSoul at 5-3-2008 10:11 PM
sarah,
to forgive is hard
to forget is harder
to keep grudges is painful
to be too patient is foolish
to give up too easy is weak
too complicated, eh? but if we love someone, we should ...
Masa concert anak kat sekolah hari tu, student gred 11 ada buat drama Mafia. Dalam drama tu, ketua Mafia, Mafioso said, "Second chances to me are like throwing money away or watching your wife get banged by your best friend. I don't enjoy either". |
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second chances means the first one screwed up...
get a new life!
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mcm saya.. saya penah bagi 2nd, 3rd, 4rd chance pada sesorg... memang saya sayang tapi hati saya tak terbuka utk terima kesalahan yang dia buat.. walaupun saya cuba utk terima tapi sebenarnya saya sakit di dalam.. tak boleh.. sudahnya saya pun hampir melakukan sesuatu yang sama mcm dia penah buat.. tapi bila time saya .. saya tak pulak diberi peluang .. |
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Reply #37 sarahmirza's post
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heh heh nice analogy, sis.. but in life, macam ada org kata, kekadang ada grey area... so how do we justify kalau dlm grey area? for me, 2nd chance given to someone we love is a gift.. kalau org tu tau appreciate the gift given, he/she worth the while.. kalau idak, maybe its time to give the gift to someone else.. |
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Originally posted by SleepyFish at 6-3-2008 08:13 AM
well really its up to the person, if the other party has apologize one can accept it and let go its all fine.
does not mean u have to be chummy2 and all.
however if there is still pain in ...
'the person' tu ? Husband, wife, children, mother, father? |
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Post time 6-3-2008 11:18 AM
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