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kesakitan akan hilang bila tgk wajah anak kan!!! |
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memang boleh hilang..just hilang rase sakit bukan fobia..... .... |
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Reply #23 fdyza82's post
fdyza.....sabar ok......forumer kat sini just bg pendapat.....heheh.....perasan x sume org ckp rasa sakit akan hilang bila tgk wajah anak? tu la cara mengatasi fobia....bila kita pk sakit tu akan hilang lps tu.....ia x akan berpanjangan...mmgla bila nk pegnent lg kita terpaksa berhadapan dgn rasa sakit yg sama jgk....tp kita kene pk yg bende tu x akan berpanjangan....n lg satu mcm yg forumer lain ckp b4 this la...x semestinya kita kene teruk ari tu next time kita akan kene mcm tu jgk...kalo kene jgk mcm tu mmg takdir Allah nk uji kita la kan......
mcm aku n aku rasa fdyza pon sama la kot...org panggil kes prolong labor....lps ni kalo nk bersalin lg.....3 hari jgk la lbh krg sakit contraction nye...so kene prepare fizikal n mental la kan...tp aku rasa anak fdyza kecik lg tu.....ape kisah sgt ngn org lain nk suh tambah anak lg sume....jgn pressure sgt...kita yg rasa sakit bkn diaorg....sokongan pon penting aku rasa kan...especially dr suami n parents...mcm mak aku...dia even suruh aku jarakkan anak 4 thn lg...tp aku rasa xnak la lbt sgt....umur dh meningkat....maybe 2 thn stgh or 3 thn la kot jarak..... |
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ish mcm tu nye kes pun ade ke??tkotnye... |
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kepada yang lain terima kasih kerana memberikan pandagan dan pendapat memasing...bukan nak takut kan sesiapa but just to share mungkin dgn cara ini saya boleh menjadi lebih positif and maybe boleh meransang saya tuk dapat baby lagi....hope so...
but pada yang tak pernah mengalaminyer dont take it as a negatif way.. i am sorry kalau ada yang rase macam tu...ok...
maybe mase tu saya tak byk bace surah maryam and yusuf macam mama saya ajar.. just dalam tempoh 9 bulan tu hanyer 2-3 kali jer kot..tule sebab busy kerja.. lepas ni kalau ada rezeki lagi insyaallah saya akan tingkatkan lagi iman supaya lebih senang...
thanks a lot semua.... just teruskan give your opinion k.... |
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Fydza,
boleh tak i ubah cara u tengok sesuatu benda tu like:
mmg lah trauma tapi apa yg doktor buat tu betul SEBAB kalau tak u WILL bleed to death, tau?
so dia terpaksa buat macam tu korek balik!
cari mana cebisan placenta yg carik tuuuuu...if not u will die
so in a way it's "good" trauma TO SAVE ur life , dear ...so
baik kan manusia sekeliling you , depa nak tolong u kan?
so u still able to convert oxygen to carbon dioxide???? |
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i faham you are trying to say that the doc dah selamatkan nyawa i... the thing is like the senario yang sebenarnyer ialah the doctor tu dah suruh i push walaupun i dah kata i cant...and she actually panic tak tau nak buat apa...yup lagi sorang doktor tu yang buat decision to vakum not the first doc....after the vakum my baby tak nangis... i dgr the
nursess berastagfar but my hubby bisik kata baby is fine....
after a while baru yang diorang perasan my plasenta still inside me because i start cant breath...mase tu baru doc perasan and terus masukkan tgn dia untuk ambil the whole plasenta bukanyer cebisan....that why i'm trying to say here is the doctor yang buat i fobia sgt..dahlah memula dia kata my baby is 3.35kg padahal just 2.89 jew....after all this
thing happen the doctor not even come and see me..yang datang doktor lain and now i find out that doc tu dah kena transfer after dia buat the same thing to another patient and the baby die and mother icu again because dia lupa kat plasenta.....
maybe this is called takdir....but for me is not the doc who help me Allah yang tolong i if not he wont send the other doc to help me...(actually the doc off duty he came over to take something just...takdir)
by the way thnanks so much mbhcsf for your sincere opinion... |
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Reply #28 fdyza82's post
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itu doktor kat MAlaysia - segelintir hehehehhehe oops sorry to say .....tapi u see...i dunno ....on a bright side ur second delivery <MIGHT not have to end that way , kan? |
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Reply #29 mbhcsf's post
tu lah..
insyallah kalau ada rezeki i wont end up in the goverment hospital again.... |
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aku xsabau nk peknen. haha |
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isyallah akan kepada sesiapa yang teringin nak mengandung and belum ada calon saya akan doakan agar dipercepatkan jodoh kalian....amin.... |
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gurl kalu bole nak prggnt lek,best per..tapi miscarriage 16weeks..ni tak de rezeki lagi.. |
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aku dulu peknen 2 2 aku mabuk teruk n demam panas keluar masuk hospital smpai habis bersalin mmg FOBIA.. MMg waktu tu byk susahkan org lain lbh2 lg somi yg terpaksa stanby kalo aku masuk wad lg.. tp hubby xpernah megeluh tmbh sayang lg ader kat aku manja2kan aku lbh2.. Tp ALLAH tukan MAHA adil bila nak bersalin tu di permudahkan tanpa ad sakit2 yg teruk smpai hospital terus msk LR n pastu bersalin.. ms dlm pantang tu xada masalah cuma yg buat aku FOBIA adalah SEMBELIT yg terlampau... OOooohhhh TTTIIIddddaaakkk! kalah sakit bersalin... |
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Originally posted by fdyza82 at 4-8-2008 11:15 AM 
memang tak sangkal kesakitan kiter hilang mase dgr suara baby tu nangis..sampaikan mase doc tgh jahit pun i tak perasan yang dah settle jahit sebab tak sabar nak tgk
baby...
the think is i pu ...
maybe for 2nd one you boleh bagtau doktor awal2 you nak c-sect...
so, at least you prepare for it...
mmg susah nak jangka what willl hepen during normal delivery....
kalo yg bad experienced to, i think doctor wil consider c-sect..maybe earlier that due date or sumthing like that...
i dah lalui dua kali delivery i..alhamdulillah..semua ok..tapi kesian gak dgr cerita member2 yg kena go thru pain for so long....i think doctor's judgement pun very crucial...mmg normal delivery is prefered in medical world..tapi if the mother dah suffer lama...kena tolong jugak..takkan nak tunggu masuk ubat 2-3 kali baru sibuk nak tolak ke OT..... |
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takutnye dgr pengalaman org bersalin...ni yg buat takut ni... |
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me kalau dengar cita jiran me, first baby c- sec..
second dia lahirkan tanpa epidural tu... 
bayangkan dahlah baby tu ala ala bb sumo masa lahir..
salute betul ngan dia.. then dia kata no more baby..
mesti sakit gila.. rupanya tak.. pregnant lagi 
sbb dia ambil midwife so semua traditional.. no epidural atau apa apalah...
best boleh bersalin kat rumah... |
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Originally posted by cuci_tangan at 16-8-2008 09:27 AM 
takutnye dgr pengalaman org bersalin...ni yg buat takut ni...
i will give everythings i have (Except my laki dan families) utk rasa sendiri camana sakit bersalin ni  |
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Post time 4-8-2008 12:10 PM
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