Why People Behave Badly?

ajinomotonosuga

nobody is behaved badly..they merely behaved DIFFERENTLY

by giving the term 'different' rather the term 'bad' , we do justice to our brain, instead of putting 'more fears' into the mind

the natural tendency of human brain is self survival, thus anything bad, smelly, dirty, black , dark,  will be feared and avoided because these 'labels' meant risks to survival of the brain (i.e. the owner)

competition in real sense is cooperation and not 'us versus them.'

confrontation should become communication in empathic manner, listen with intent while talk with decent

i dont believe there is bad person..what i believed is there are different kind of person..

nobody and no living things are created similar to one another.

with this principle firm in mind....i have only myself as my real enemy.

my-alja

pak menteri tak jahat....dia cuma behaved differently

hamizao

.....dan masjid?

Hmmm macam mana pula tu?

hamizao

It would be hard to believe that a child rapist is merely being different...........

hamizao

Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 13-11-2008 08:00 AM
nobody is behaved badly..they merely behaved DIFFERENTLY

by giving the term 'different' rather the term 'bad' , we do justice to our brain, instead of putting 'more fears' into the mind

the ...

Aji, you may be referring to the other end of the scale here. It is OK by normal standards to be different. But When one
have to deny justice to others in order to satisfy one's own "needs" that's immoral.

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by hamizao at 15-11-2008 06:37 PM


Aji, you may be referring to the other end of the scale here. It is OK by normal standards to be different. But When one
have to deny justice to others in order to satisfy one's own "needs" ...

inadequency of some needs will lead to multitude of behaviours

boleh jadi tak cukup pengetahuan sivik

boleh jadi tak cukup kasih sayang

boleh jadi tak cukup attention etc.

a healthy ego that has not been build can lead to lot of problems

inherently there is nothing what we called 'bad', it is just another term to refer a different form of result

u takmo result hitam..u buat lah kekdah which bring the result putih

hamizao

You are absolutely right there...............all behaviour has a reason.

In every society there is a set of acceptable and  unacceptable behaviours. In most cases, unacceptable behaviours are those that goes counter to survival of the tribe, then community, then family and in the modern world individual rights, for example. So norms would be changing over time. In ancient Mexico, sacrificing a human life would be regarded as necessary to appeace their gods.

Now, killing another human being is regarded differently. Yes, deviation from the norms may be attributed to knowledge and a  multitude of other reasons. This  thread is about the extreme deviation........at least that was  in my mind .

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cekman

to me ppl behave badly because of the circumstances they are in during that moment...they either do A or B whichever they think would solve their problem or draw attention to their predicament...this is usually the case when doing the right thing or acceptable behavior does not have a positive outcome..

lealaurielle

because perhaps people who behaves badly shares the same understanding towards to situation as I do, which is... maybe it's good to be bad when becoming bad makes you to be of a good person, or somewhat better...

Ok, another approach to that - "I like being bad because when I'm bad I'm very good"?

redsinner

or maybe 'I'm bad because I'm good at being bad'?

hamizao

Originally posted by cekman at 25-11-2008 06:23 PM
to me ppl behave badly because of the circumstances they are in during that moment...they either do A or B whichever they think would solve their problem or draw attention to their predicament... ...

I do agree that depending on circumstances we may go for plan A or B and so on. It would be nice if we have the  luxury of many alternatives and ultimately we tend to choose the lesser of the evils should all alternatives have some negative implication in them. Overall how we make that choice  depends on our own philosophies/values in life ......."Biar puteh tulang....jangan putih mata." for example.....

hamizao

Originally posted by lealaurielle at 3-12-2008 03:36 PM
because perhaps people who behaves badly shares the same understanding towards to situation as I do, which is... maybe it's good to be bad when becoming bad makes you to be of a good person, or s ...

Cor, that's a bit mind boggling, eh!

It is probably an issue of what's good and what's bad here?

lealaurielle

and depending on what bad sector are we talking about? Who says anything bad can't be good? HEHEHEHE

lealaurielle

Hehehe I LOIKE! hiks!

Agul

shared belief. so something becomes good, something else becomes bad.

absence of shared belief, no such thing as good or bad. everything is just is.

lealaurielle

Originally posted by Agul at 7-12-2008 10:57 PM
shared belief. so something becomes good, something else becomes bad.

absence of shared belief, no such thing as good or bad. everything is just is.

But then dear mod agul, how can "EVERYTHING IS JUST IS" when we have EVERYTHING back then which means its just a WAS and EVERYTHING coming soon which means, yeap, everything is just a WILL BE? It sounded like i'm making a fool out of myself, or trying buat lawak bodoh, tapi sorry eh. didn't mean to be rude or saje2 nak joke around, but do u get ape i said tu? Logicnya - everything is just is - its just not so right when we think about it... kan?

Agul

sumimasen. wakarimasen...

sorry tak faham post u...

actually apa yang saya tulis tu pasal kebiasaan dalam sesuatu masyarakat, norma2 yang dikatakan baik dan dipersutujui ramai, itulah yang baik. kat tempat lain pulak. tak sama.

lealaurielle

tudiah! Terus ditranslasikan ke bm buat I... *pengsan

hamizao

Originally posted by lealaurielle at 7-12-2008 03:44 AM
and depending on what bad sector are we talking about? Who says anything bad can't be good? HEHEHEHE

Heheh, dear lea  memang suka buat otak akak berputarlah.....!

Generally, how people evaluate good and bad depends on reasoning about values. There is this normative reasoning in every community.  Very generally, it refers to thinking about issues concerning what is right or wrong, good or bad, or what might or might not be valuable. Normative reasoning encompasses not just reasoning about morality and virtues, the justification and legitimacy of rules and social institutions, but also aesthetic values and the meaning of life.

Now, would you say this opens a whole spectrum of critical thinking and logic etc..etc..Perhaps Agul might want to contribute? Agul your shared values is close.

Off hand, lea, we normally say a thing is bad/good  not just for it's own sake but also for the consequence of the action ..if it is an action.

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lealaurielle

hiks! kite take that as a healthy compliment - hehehe lea yang suka buatkan otak orang pusing2 pening2. hiks! bukan semua orang leh buat camtu kan? heheheh *tepok2 tangan* "Owhhh gumbirrra...." hiks!