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Author: huda1985

berkawan dengan lelaki bukan warganegara

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Post time 24-5-2015 04:47 PM | Show all posts
baru 3 bulan... baik just let him go... kalau ada jodoh berjumpa lagi..

complicated sgt ni..

dia pun nak duduk dekat dgn mak dia.. katakanlah hes telling the truth pun..

n kawin dgn u n mak dia tak dpat dtg ke sini.. u sanggup ke tinggal kan everything n ikut dia?

takut mula2 happy la.. tp lama2 tak tahan hidup susah kat sana... n bila nak balik ke malaysia nanti byk problem.. or dia tak bagi balik? n kalau ada anak mcmane pula?
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Post time 24-5-2015 06:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Tak payah la cari masalah atau mengada adakan masalah.  Tak kisah la lelaki tu baik ke romantik ke or hensem.
Dgn lelaki malaysia pun blom tentu takde masalah. Apa tah lagi lelaki foregner ni. Sudah2 la TT. Cari la yg semeggah sket. Usah dilayan rs rindu cinta tu...semua setan je
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 Author| Post time 24-5-2015 09:03 PM | Show all posts
dewimalam78 replied at 24-5-2015 06:37 PM
Tak payah la cari masalah atau mengada adakan masalah.  Tak kisah la lelaki tu baik ke romantik ke o ...

gulp!!, ye baik la.. TT akn stop dlm hubungan ini...

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 Author| Post time 24-5-2015 09:06 PM | Show all posts
mystica replied at 24-5-2015 04:47 PM
baru 3 bulan... baik just let him go... kalau ada jodoh berjumpa lagi..

complicated sgt ni..

tu la riso juga.. sblm melarat baik, tamatkan hubungan ini.. tq semua atas nasihat

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 Author| Post time 24-5-2015 09:07 PM | Show all posts
eileen80 replied at 24-5-2015 02:45 PM
sy xnak tt jd spt gadis2 yg pnh msk paper sblm2 nie... byk cnth kan... kesian tgk. yg dlnye comel2 ...

inshaallah amin.. mudah2an jodoh dgn lelaki tempatan... hehehehe

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 Author| Post time 24-5-2015 09:10 PM | Show all posts
midori888 replied at 24-5-2015 11:41 AM
Baru 3 bln kenal...biasalah semuanyer manis jer...jgn mudah percaya kat org...terutama kalu warga as ...

masyaallah, yeke.. ini cerita yang paling teruk sy dgr.. kena tido dalam kandang kambing.. dahsyat tu.. terima kasih atas nasihat anda..

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 Author| Post time 24-5-2015 09:23 PM | Show all posts
bellaa replied at 24-5-2015 11:11 AM
if awk dan dia plan nak bernikah..
biarkan habis permit bekerja dan suruh dia balik pakistan.

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dia juga ada kata yg dia akan kembali ke sini slps pulang ke pakistan. sy xpk dia seius utk kembali ke sini. dr cara katanya dia mcm xkn kembali ke malaysia sbb dia anak mak... sy juga da menerangkan pd nya xleh kwin klu dia dtg ke malaysia semula menggunakan permit kerja kt sini.. kena dtg as pelancong klu dia serius nk kt sy.. n dia kata inshaallah.. klu ada jodoh.. kt sini sy xmgharap apa2 da ttg hubungan ini sekiranya dia sudah pulang ke sana.. sy pn berserah pada takdir.. biar saya sakit skrg, jgn sakit masa akan dtg... klu family mertua xapprove lg sakit.. nk kawin kena ada restu dr ibubapa kedua2 belah pihak,,
terima kasih atas nasihat dan semangat yg diberikan..

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Post time 24-5-2015 09:46 PM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 25-5-2015 01:11 AM
huda1985 replied at 24-5-2015 10:43 AM
sy byk juga terbaca kes2, kwin dgn warganegara nie. sy pn tkut jgk.. kang berkahwin, kena dera pla ...

dear,

saya nak kata banyak banyak pun saya tak berani sebab i personally dunno your guy,

tapi here 's a few tips  for you  ya

a) know where he is from?
b) socieconomic status
c) background - like  anak lelaki  ke berapa , parents dia apa dia kat sana
d) daerah mana depa - ini can give you some ROUGH  ideas about the people thinking, living conditions in that areas - poverty stricken ke ... city like ke etc etc, a general but not ACCURATE but  just enough to give you impressions on what they tend to be like
e) attitude dia  that means persepsi dia terhadap ladies, mak dia buat ape kat pakistan - housewife ke ...dan pernah tak dia tolong buat keje  yg kita consider ladies' job  dapur ( i mean your guy ni )
f) adik beradik perempuan dia buat ape
ni bukan ape  - this  info will help you  in having  some impressions on what the family is like - u have you know ye...kalau u dah ada pengalaman mingle dengan gang gang south asians ni
even kat UK pun ada pelbagai variasi - ada yg anak lelaki dan wanita brought up dalam keluarga yg open, terbuka but still ? traditional dalam certain things - i mean expectation peranan wanita  sebagai anak perempuan  ATAU MENANTU - get this  info really and for  REAL !!!

ada yg family yg liberal - ini anak lelaki  depa usually profesionals , sensible intelligent open tapi still a bit conservative jugak  but depa  set set lelaki mcam ni boleh justified dan can stand by their opinion  i takut;  just concerned  the family dynamics ...kalau jenis yg boleh terima GENUINELY u nampak depa  in terms of thinking , practising agama well... okay

- ada yg strict habis...u know  dalam negara depa pun ada boleh sambut 1 syawal in three different days hahah well there u go...

so u  nyer guy ni professional - as in engineer ke ape - ini tengok jugaklah if his thinking okay ..background etc
tapi kalau tak ada concrete things for you nak secure  - u tak sure about him and HIS FAMILY attitudes towards foreign ladies...women in general , what his family likes  PLEASE TAKE YOUR TIME....

kalau nak menikah sangat well u please jgn gadai passport , duduk dulu malaysia , u need to have strong backups secured yourself

i wish you well...

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Post time 24-5-2015 10:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Laki u tu kerja apa kat sini?
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 Author| Post time 25-5-2015 12:50 AM | Show all posts
mbhcsf replied at 24-5-2015 09:46 PM
dear,

saya nak kata banyak banyak pun saya tak berani sebab i personally dunno your guy,

hai,
wow thank you for your concerns.. sgt membantu dalam hal ini. ok sy berkongsi sedikit maklumat ttg dia ini sepanjang 3 bulan sy berkawan dgn dia
1. dia berasal dr Lahore, Pakistan. (he showed me the identity card of pakistani)
2. mak dia single mother dan surirumah, ayah meninggal tp ada pencen sbb government servant like he told me
3. adik beradik 4 org (3 lelaki, 1 perempuan) anak yg ketiga
4. adik perempuan dia masih belajar.
5. pekerjaan arkitek landscape (xtau profesional or general worker, never check sbb pd asalnya mahu berkawan saja after this i will check)
6. dia pernah cerita dia selalu bntu mak dia kt umh, cuma xspesifik dia bntu apa,
7. sy xtahu budaya mereka mcm ne sbb sy xterpk nk tnya, after this i will ask him
8. walaupun my family mix pakistan.. cara life kami seperti org2 melayu. sy sdiri duk di felda. sbb ayah sy melayu. cuma pak cik n mak cik sy duk di kawasan bandar.
apa2 pn budaya kita dgn pakistan tidak sama langsung..

ya btul pendapat awk, kita kena check semua nya baru la kita tahu the real life with. thank you pd Allah dan awk tlh byk buka minda sy psl nie.. sgt2 membantu..


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Post time 25-5-2015 01:14 AM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 25-5-2015 01:22 AM
huda1985 replied at 25-5-2015 12:50 AM
hai,
wow thank you for your concerns.. sgt membantu dalam hal ini. ok sy berkongsi sedikit maklum ...

check uni mana dia pi ...Aga Khan is good , any Khans  i dunno ...but you know ...landscape architect? no idea what that is oh i see...macam klcc garden designer tu ke? landscape horticulturist ke?

i dunno ...

then it is  your job to find out ...kalau ada profesional  bodies  kalau architect ..check , but the family dynamics man....hmmmmm......pertinent ye

but takeeeeeee your time...

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Post time 25-5-2015 02:03 PM | Show all posts
baru 3 bulan..? kawen..?
better think twice..
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Post time 25-5-2015 03:25 PM | Show all posts
nanti jangan ghiyau suruh family p amik di pakistan sudah
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Post time 25-5-2015 06:39 PM | Show all posts
my cousin kawin ngan pakistani. belajar tinggi. husband tak kasi kerja. nasib parents pompuan berduit. dua dua tak kerja. fil support a-z. belikan rumah mewah, dok bergolf kulu kilir. kerja nya tidak. dulu main pompuan, maid pun disental jugak. pukul lempang toksah cakap. mak pak dia pun tak pernah lempang. tapi udah suka, nak buat cam mana. biarkan saja. koser nak tegur dah cinta sangat sangat.


jadi u pikir pikirkanlah ye.
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Post time 27-5-2015 06:06 PM | Show all posts
bukan ke penah ada kes..
minah ni kawin ngan org pakistan
siap duduk sana..
tapi mak mentua hambakan dia..
smpai merayu mtk tlg sbb nk balik mesia balik?

tp maybe x semua kot mak mentua pakistan camtu
huhuhu
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Post time 28-5-2015 08:04 AM | Show all posts
cer tt tepek gambar mamat tu.. tringin gak nak tgk wajah pakistani yg berjaya menambat hati tt ni
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Post time 28-5-2015 05:08 PM | Show all posts
tightcherry replied at 24-5-2015 10:14 AM
Ketiak busuk boleh tahan ke..LPs kawen salunyer dijadikan hamba saje

akak dok tunggu jugak kot2 tt nak reply komen ketiak busuk chuols
takde dik
meh speku tiak pakwe tt ni bau tengik ke idak







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 Author| Post time 6-6-2015 08:22 AM | Show all posts
makton replied at 28-5-2015 08:04 AM
cer tt tepek gambar mamat tu.. tringin gak nak tgk wajah pakistani yg berjaya menambat hati tt ni

nk tgk ker.. hihihihhi
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 Author| Post time 6-6-2015 08:27 AM | Show all posts
cik_tonggek replied at 28-5-2015 05:08 PM
akak dok tunggu jugak kot2 tt nak reply komen ketiak busuk chuols
takde dik
meh speku tiak ...

maaf ya lambat reply.. tt busy berniaga tapak konvo..
tnya pasal bau ketik ke x?
seriously mmg xda bau.. klu jenis yg bau even pakai deodoran still bau.. sbb tt pernah
berkawan dgn mamak.. even dia pakai deodoran.. ketik ttp bau.. tp yg pakistani ni mmg xda bau..
tt xbohong... hehehehe
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 Author| Post time 6-6-2015 08:34 AM | Show all posts
munchkin replied at 25-5-2015 06:39 PM
my cousin kawin ngan pakistani. belajar tinggi. husband tak kasi kerja. nasib parents pompuan berdui ...

sy sudah bertanya kn soal budaya perempuan pakistani. mmg budaya mereka pmpuan atau wife tidak bekerja.
hnya la surirumah.... sy seorg yg bercita tggi dan ingin ada kerjaya sendiri..
sy perlu pk lebih dalam lg berkenaan dgn budaya mereka ini..

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