|
|
Originally posted by SweetCandy at 24-8-2004 01:19 PM:
tadi ade this colleague of mine nampak i tegur me tanya mcm gini "bila ko nak ade babylah, aku tengok ko ni belum2 ade lagi, ko plan ke? belum sempat me nak jawab, dia blah2 & ckp ko bette ...
Ha'ah, SC, betul cakap SC. Jangan layan orang macam gitu. Diorang ingatkan diorang pandai tanya2 macam gitu. Kalau Allah nak bagi, pakai BAPAK birth control pun bunting jugak....lain kali SC cakap dengan diorang macam gitu. Hari tu I just told a fren off.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by chicsee at 24-8-2004 02:41 PM:
Ha'ah, SC, betul cakap SC. Jangan layan orang macam gitu. Diorang ingatkan diorang pandai tanya2 macam gitu. Kalau Allah nak bagi, pakai BAPAK birth control pun bunting jugak....lain kali SC ca ...
ha'ah Chics, dorang ni semua ckp nvr tink of others' feeling, hairan2:geram: |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Divorce rates among Muslim couples in Spore
ASIA TRENDS CONFERENCE
Muslim divorce rates: S'pore tops KL, Jakarta
By Vivi Zainol
DIVORCE rates among Muslims here have risen since the 1970s, to top those of Indonesia and Malaysia where divorce rates have actually fallen since the 1980s.
Last year, there were about nine divorces among every 1,000 married Muslims. This was about three times that for Kuala Lumpur and Klang Valley and about five times that for Jakarta, says Professor Gavin Jones of the Asia Research Institute, who specialises in demography.
Advertisement
Prof Jones credits this in part to new marriage laws being enacted and divorce procedures being tightened in Indonesia and Malaysia.
He is due to present his paper, Not When To Marry But Whether To Marry, which describes broad trends in marriage and divorce in East and South-east Asia, at the one-day Asia Trends Conference tomorrow. p> He said a key factor affecting divorce trends in Singapore could be that Malays here are 'a minority group in a highly meritocratic society with all the pressures it entails'.
His suggestion has already provoked some spirited disagreement ahead of the conference, titled Untying The Knot: Ideal And Reality In Asian Marriage.
National University of Singapore sociologist Stella Quah said that in her comparative study of families in Asia last year, she found a high degree of correlation between economic development and divorce rates.
'Japan, Singapore and Hong Kong, which are highly developed places in Asia, have higher rates of divorce. It's not surprising that Singapore Malays too have a higher rate of divorce than their counterparts in less developed countries.'
The director of PPIS-Jurong family service centre, Mr Mohd Ali Mahmood, agrees.
He said: 'The higher divorce rate among Singapore Malays is likely to be due to the pressures of living in a highly developed country. Couples have a tougher time balancing material pursuits with marriage demands.
'Another could be procedural efficiency - divorce cases here are processed more quickly now.'
He added: 'I would disagree that being a minority is one of the factors causing higher divorce rates - unless a study of divorce rates of Muslim minorities in highly developed countries can prove otherwise.' |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
scary juga bila dapat tahu divorce rates among kita punya community is highly increasing:ah: |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by SweetCandy at 26-8-2004 02:11 PM:
scary juga bila dapat tahu divorce rates among kita punya community is highly increasing:ah:
Yup, and most common reason.....money....no surprises there.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
came across some couple,the boy still so young,baru lepas NS,dah nak kawin.please,i bukan nak say bad things about them.kawin is a big responsibility...ko belum tau jaga diri kau,macam mana ko nak jadi parents.
please pikir masak masak sabelum you tak the big step into marriage.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
last sat my BIL is in a very big dilema, he didn't noe who to choose in his life ::
we came to noe only last sat on his bthday & he told us abt this. well, i did tell him, he has to make a decision & also i did tell him too "org pompan kalo dah suka seseorg tu dia akan sayang & give all his love but den kalo dia dah benci org tu, dia tetap akan benci orgtu forever."
hai, dilema betul my BIL ni. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
one more thing.....pilih partner yang boleh get along dgn your family...ni important.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by LoLiPoP at 30-8-2004 01:46 PM:
one more thing.....pilih partner yang boleh get along dgn your family...ni important..
Yes I agree...sedih lah kenkadang dengar citer anak tak boleh pegi visit mak sebab laki atau bini tak kasi.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
ko cari lah orang yang cool,calm and collected.jangan dapat yang bengis and pemarah,nanti ko hidup miserable.
my married friend pernah cakap to me,matz you're the only one who makes me laugh.at home my husband is so serious and he never jokes.she ever cried when she was with me,i think dia tak happy at home....
kesian jugak....so carik lah orang yang cool.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by SweetCandy at 30-8-2004 12:26:
last sat my BIL is in a very big dilema, he didn't noe who to choose in his life::
we came to noe only last sat on his bthday & he told us abt this. well, i did tell him, he has to make a ...
suruh dia sholat istiharah lah.. nanti Allah kasi bayangan.. insyaallah.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
and look out for mami jarum dalam family... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
Originally posted by LoLiPoP at 31-8-2004 09:25 AM:
and look out for mami jarum dalam family...
nasib baik my mrs pendiam orang nya....dia tak banyak hee hor hee hor... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
|
what makes a marriage tick ?? your views please.thanks.......... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by matz_rockz at 31-8-2004 09:31 AM:
what makes a marriage tick ?? your views please.thanks..........
trust
understanding
care & concern
patience
love
support
compromise |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
Originally posted by LoLiPoP at 31-8-2004 09:37 AM:
trust
understanding
care & concern
patience
love
support
compromise
COMMITMENT ..............
jangan suka marah marah kat rumah,budak2 panggil me COOL DUDE
and kalo tengah joget kat rumah MISTER GROOVY..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
yes commitment.
luper lagi satu - joint responsibility |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
your money,my money
my money, my money................ avoid this creature..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
matz_rockz This user has been deleted
|
make sure your life partner,can help around with the chores at home.
kalau dia tarok kaki kat meja...mintak kopi cawan cup...ko tarok lah garam.
i've never ask my wife to make me drinks....gue semua DIY kat rumah.
some husbands,they think wife punya role is to serve him,macam lah dia king.
this is my opinion aja. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Originally posted by LoLiPoP at 31-8-2004 09:25 AM:
and look out for mami jarum dalam family...
Ha'ah....ini danger....look out and keep away.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
Category: Negeri & Negara
|
Post time 24-8-2004 02:41 PM
Author
