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How do you know if the guy is really for you?

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Post time 16-11-2016 10:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ifanonline replied at 16-11-2016 10:15 PM
well, i had a few heart breaking moments..but that is love right? trust and communication must exi ...

Love mana ada sama..bercinta sebelum kawen dan sesudah kawen tetap x sama sparks dia..nak nak bercinta bertahun2...xkan pernah sama rasa dia.
Tp cinta ni kena seiring dengan realiti..cinta fantasi tanggungjawab tu realiti..kalau dua2 xbleh seiring makanya xjadi haper ler..
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:23 PM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 16-11-2016 10:26 PM

Just a simple question, how do you know if a guy is really for you?

i dunno - only Allah knows. no one knows.  
when  i dont  have   to think  twice of marrying him then that is definite yes - itu pun  depends on context - dengan IZIN dan REDHA-NYA
Divine intervention , instinct - kan hati itu urusan Allah...so...yeah...
u nak org yg Allah izin dan redha...


You know him or just got to know him, but how sure are you that this guy has potential?

hmm...i guess for everyone  to be  married to another being - you definitely have to got to know him - but the critical question is - how much  do u know him / how informed was the decision made?

potential -  hmm yes kalau sampai consider  untuk marriage yes  la kot logically speaking , kalau dia tak ada potential then  tak lah masuk consideration...

jodoh tu kan rahsia Allah ...isk isk ...
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:25 PM | Show all posts
adheq replied at 16-11-2016 10:18 PM
Compatibility la.. trust la.. the one la..
Dlm hidup ni yg pasti cuma mati. Everything else is a ga ...

wow ..i like the statement ygpasti mati...yeah...bagus statement menyedarkan ni.
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:27 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ifanonline replied at 16-11-2016 10:15 PM
well, i had a few heart breaking moments..but that is love right? trust and communication must exi ...

Ok Ipan ayat ko romantik sangat ok. Aku siap screenshot ok. Cuba la ko berporum gini di CI,  kompom jadi dambaan andartu.  
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mokcikKSKB replied at 16-11-2016 10:23 PM
Love mana ada sama..bercinta sebelum kawen dan sesudah kawen tetap x sama sparks dia..nak nak berc ...

Kenapa perlu ada perbezaan mengenai cinta? You will always love that person before and after marriage. Marriage is just a fulfillment of love. Basically, Love is freedom. Realization of love is what matters. Realisasi cinta itu sendiri.

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Post time 16-11-2016 10:31 PM | Show all posts
Innrukia replied at 16-11-2016 10:07 PM
Such a sweet compliment; ying & yang
hakak rasa ipan lagi sesuai dgn sis mbfsh... dedua very ...

ifan? seriously  haish  no no  please jgn  gossip  Inn...i suka org yg senang i  interact boleh banter  cara yg i suka ...etc etc but you know sapa yg kenal i  akan tahu  i macam mana hahaha... i think Ifan is nice , you go for it...why not ? give yourself a chance ...
Dear Inn... i datang forum since 2003  for the fun of it , dan ada benda yg i take seriously and  ada benda yg i take it easy ...so ...i gunakan  forum sebagai platform untuk  tahu thinking and ragam manusia. learnt about people.  of course i do have life outside...alhamdulillah.


well...hahaha

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Post time 16-11-2016 10:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ifanonline replied at 16-11-2016 10:31 PM
Kenapa perlu ada perbezaan mengenai cinta? You will always love that person before and after marri ...

Cinta mmglah cinta tp sparks dia xkan sama mcm masa jatuh cinta kali pertama..how can someone loves so many times? Aku agak impress jugak..cos i only fell in love once..aku harap cinta mati aku ni selamanya...
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mokcikKSKB replied at 16-11-2016 10:16 PM
Dia curang masa kau jd bini ke belom jd bini?sekali byk kali?

Seblom dan selepas.

Banyak kali.

Hansuang kan.  

Tiga tahun terawal je dia tak curang,  first year masa dok diam di kampung belom keja,  second year masa training (dalam negeri). Third year, masa baru posted (luar negeri. Bukan negara ya,  negeri. ). Oh dan tahun kelima, masa training naik pangkat.

Jangan tanya apsal bertahan. Uol tahu la kalau blinded by love gimana. Aiol ada try curang balik but tak jadi,  hati ini tamau. Dulu la.
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
chazey replied at 16-11-2016 10:35 PM
Seblom dan selepas.

Banyak kali.

Astaga..agak sial jugak laki kau sis. Patut pon hang nekad habis...aku sokong je kau mintak cerai..smg kau dan anak sentiasa kuat..
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:38 PM | Show all posts
chazey replied at 16-11-2016 02:35 PM
Seblom dan selepas.

Banyak kali.

sungguh kuat anda ini

shuben mencelup kat luar tapi boleh bertahan.
standing ovation
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:38 PM | Show all posts
mbhcsf replied at 16-11-2016 10:31 PM
ifan? seriously  haish  no no  please jgn  gossip  Inn...i suka org yg senang i  interact boleh ba ...

why not ipan? susah ke nk interact dgn ipan? jodoh kan rahsia Allah

take it easy sis. Suka2 je mlm ni cuit ipan & gossip2.
I tak pernah take serious dgn forum ni... just tpt isi masa lapang.
cumanya skrg tak brapa lapang



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Post time 16-11-2016 10:40 PM | Show all posts
chazey replied at 16-11-2016 10:35 PM
Seblom dan selepas.

Banyak kali.

Mencabar jugak stage kecurangan somi mu sis...
decide la yg terbaik utk diri & anak yer....

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Post time 16-11-2016 10:43 PM | Show all posts
Innrukia replied at 16-11-2016 10:38 PM
why not ipan? susah ke nk interact dgn ipan? jodoh kan rahsia Allah

take it easy sis. Suka2 j ...

at my rate now - yes taking easy is a must ...when you are into this spiral of  weng weng weng ketepuan...
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:48 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
chazey replied at 16-11-2016 09:03 PM
Laki @ future ex aku buat semua ni.

Tapi sebab dia curang,

Future ex ?     first time aku dgar tuuu ! Haha

Knpa tknak bg dia peluang sis ?
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Post time 16-11-2016 10:59 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by chazey at 16-11-2016 11:01 PM
Victorioussss replied at 16-11-2016 10:38 PM
sungguh kuat anda ini

shuben mencelup kat luar tapi boleh bertahan.


No,  dia takda sampai mencelup. Aku yaqin sebab bila aku contact skendel2 heol deyol senang2 ja blah.

Tapi the last girl lain sikit. Siap ajak aku bermadu. Kata deyol dah buat macam2. Kenal tak sampai dua bulan. Aku masa tu dah soh deyol kawin, aku rela mengundur diri, but future ex mati2 tak nak. Kata nak aku only bla bla bla.

Aku terpujuk. Gamble je nikoh.

Lepas nikoh baru aku tau cerita sebenar between them.

Tu la manusia. Rupa baik, sopan, lemah lembut,  hormat orang tua,  humble, solat 5 waktu, bertudung litup,

Tapi hati kelam pon tak guna jua.

Yeah.
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Post time 16-11-2016 11:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
taikpekatt replied at 16-11-2016 10:48 PM
Future ex ?     first time aku dgar tuuu ! Haha

Knpa tknak bg dia peluang sis ?

Baca #55

*sorryyourpostingislessthan10bytes
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Post time 16-11-2016 11:03 PM | Show all posts
chazey replied at 16-11-2016 02:59 PM
No,  dia takda sampai mencelup. Aku yaqin sebab bila aku contact skendel2 heol deyol senang2 ja  ...

sis..itulah konsep skandal. senang blah.
kalau susah nak blah, tu bukan skandal namenyer. shuben orang berskandel untuk satu tujuan je. tak perlu sebut tujuan ape tapi semestinya bukan perbincangan ilmiah kearah keagamaan antara mereka
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Post time 16-11-2016 11:03 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Innrukia replied at 16-11-2016 10:40 PM
Mencabar jugak stage kecurangan somi mu sis...
decide la yg terbaik utk diri & anak yer....

Aku yang setupid. Bukan salah sesapa.

Sorry Ipan,  mencapub.

Ok berenti dah ni berentiiii dah niiiii

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Post time 16-11-2016 11:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by chazey at 16-11-2016 11:28 PM
Victorioussss replied at 16-11-2016 11:03 PM
sis..itulah konsep skandal. senang blah.
kalau susah nak blah, tu bukan skandal namenyer. shuben  ...


Yang aku cerita tu skendel seblom nikoh.

Lepas nikoh dia skendel PJJ 3 bulan gitu. Tu pun dia skendel balik bila berjauhan dengan seken wife. Oops.  

Yang penting,  doa2 aku didengarin. Satu2 kena cash.
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Post time 16-11-2016 11:08 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
chazey replied at 16-11-2016 11:00 PM
Baca #55

*sorryyourpostingislessthan10bytes

Ok memahami.

So skrg still tggl sebumbung ke ? Bertabah la sis. Tp sakit kan klau dicurangi. Klau kaya, rasa dah boleh uph pembunuh kerat dedua tu sekali  

Msa dlu pun kapel dgn jejaka kelantn diri ini dicurangi jua. Memang sakit apatah jika dah bernikh mcm sis ni. Mesti lg sakit kan ? Apapun, bersangka baiklah sis. Perancangan Allah itu indah  #jadisetazahjap
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