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Post time 15-9-2017 10:49 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Electromagnet replied at 15-9-2017 09:51 AM
Budak2 bbnu baru couple seminggu pun dah decide nak kawen bila plus nama anak lagi.

Bbnu dah nampak syurga dunia
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Post time 15-9-2017 11:01 AM | Show all posts
Desperated nye
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 11:35 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
insulin replied at 15-9-2017 09:09 AM
X bersedia sebab takut nak berjumpa dengan parents kamu ke?

Cuba tanya lagi sekali. Entah2 a ...

takut jumpa mak i pun. sampai sekarang tak jumpa. kewangan takde masalah. dia berjawatan, gaji dibayar dalam euro. memang duit bukan masalah.
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 11:37 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kittycomey89 replied at 15-9-2017 09:29 AM
Kalau TT mampu bersabar nak tunggu lagi, silalah tunggu...tapi in my experince (even xkwin lagi hihi ...

kalau tanya lagi mesti jadi gadoh. nak convince cemana taktahu la. tinggal kang, sayang. bertahun i invest masa dan tenaga. waste my best boob years la adoi
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 11:42 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
annehuda replied at 15-9-2017 09:34 AM
sorry sis tp u n bf u serius ka? penah jumpa parents masing2? penah ke dia declare I love you ataupu ...

i serius dgn dia. dia mungkin ya. dia call i tiga kali sehari, mesej hari2 despite busy. video call wajib sekali sehari. i pernah jumpa family dia tapi dia tak penah jumpa family i. takut katanya.
bila i tanya pasal engage, dia mulalah shut me down. agama bukan penghalang antara kitorang pun.
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 11:43 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 15-9-2017 10:02 AM
Org kalau syg kite,  dia x takut ape2 pun. Redah je. I think you know what to do.

mak dia tinggalkan bapak dia dan dia umur 2 tahun. mungkin sebab tu dia takut komitmen. ni spekuan i je. nak tanya lebih pasal mak dia nanti dia maki i.
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Post time 15-9-2017 11:46 AM | Show all posts
joy_ah replied at 15-9-2017 11:42 AM
i serius dgn dia. dia mungkin ya. dia call i tiga kali sehari, mesej hari2 despite busy. video cal ...



kalau sis leh paham meme ni, good for you sis. some guys suka nk test market. i think i penah bc kat mana ntah, kwn lama tp lelaki taknak ikat komitmen ni, ada kemungkinan besar that girl tu cuma spare part je. taknak hidup kesunyian gitu. my advice is, maybe sis boleh bangkitkan dulu isu nk ikat ni. tgk apa alasan die.

stakat call 3 hari sekali la ape la, zaman skrang ni sis relationship is not exclusive anymore. tu je nasihat meols
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Post time 15-9-2017 11:48 AM | Show all posts
joy_ah replied at 15-9-2017 11:43 AM
mak dia tinggalkan bapak dia dan dia umur 2 tahun. mungkin sebab tu dia takut komitmen. ni spekuan ...

seriously die maki u ???? and u still nak kat die???
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Post time 15-9-2017 11:48 AM | Show all posts
Cuba lah bagi ultimatum dekat dia. You kena find a way out.

Try tanya dia, what makes him happy and content? Where does he see himself in 5 years, 10 years - in terms of career and personal?

You can't really ask bila nak kawen tanpa rasa pressure.  
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 11:50 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
annehuda replied at 15-9-2017 11:48 AM
seriously die maki u ???? and u still nak kat die???

last i tanya pasal  mak dia, dia cakap fuck off kat i.
tu jela level maki yg i terima.
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Post time 15-9-2017 11:51 AM | Show all posts
joy_ah replied at 15-9-2017 11:37 AM
kalau tanya lagi mesti jadi gadoh. nak convince cemana taktahu la. tinggal kang, sayang. bertahun  ...

Tepuk dada tanya hati TT...syg mcm mna pun if rasa waste time better take action sis, bukan apa mcm TT ckap dah invest masa tenaga kan...be ready to hadap reality is ur choice...i hope that TT akan ada good ending, INSYAALLAH...Btw, sy tua setahun dari TT, mmg xminat nk couple2 dah sbb takut nnt mbazir masa n tenaga, laki zaman skrg ni "I is xfaham"
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Post time 15-9-2017 12:29 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I know how it feels to be endlessly waiting. My case was 10 years. Which is even worst. And I chose not to wait any longer. But I'm just gonna give you the other side of the coin.

Here's the thing - nak cari yg berkualiti nowadays, mmg seksa you. I've been back in the casual dating scene for almost 2 months now. So far, I tak jumpa pon lagi yg org dok kata 'when you know, you know'. I dated mostly professionals; yg blue-collar jobs pun ada. Drp history of kaki pukul, kaki perempuan, commitment phobes, etc. The list goes on and on. Dan kadang2 ada juga rasa menyesal sebab tak fight for him, whom I truly love. I dgr sgt ckp org; kalau org tu serius, cpt je masuk meminang. Kalau 20 tahun lalu punya dating scene memang la Last2 I cmni gak. Takde pulak org yg dok kata my ex tak serius tu nak tlg carikan yg semenggah utk I, kan?

If I were you, I'll dig deeper into his issues. And try to get him make peace of his past. He sounded like he has a lot of deep-seated abandonment issues ingrained in him. Lots of anger. In other words, he is a lot of work. If you're willing to put the time and effort for it, why not kan? I jadik menyampah dgn the mainstream advice yg kalau ada susah sikit in a relationship, pergi cari lain. Isn't a relationship supposed to be a safe place for you to be vulnerable and grow at the same time?

Apa2 pun banyakkan doa dan berserah pada-Nya. Sesungguhnya pengetahuan kita sebagai hamba-Nya amatlah terbatas.
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Post time 15-9-2017 12:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
i takut tt dijadikan backup dikala dia kesunyian.
lelaki ni walaupun dia contact kita hari2, belum tentu lg dia anggap kita sebagai special gf.
minta dia berterus terang nk ambik tt as wife atau x. jgn nk bazir masa, tenaga dn perasaan dgn lelaki yg x mau bg komitmen. hujung2 perempuan juga yg sakit hati.
nk tanya, bf tt bukan melayu ke??
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 12:51 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kakiseboksebok replied at 15-9-2017 09:49 AM
Kalau uol kata tahun ni belum tanya pasal kawen, so iols assume korang ni mmg kurang berbincang. Tan ...

dia jenis yang secretive pasal emotion. kalau ada issue, belum nak panas....dia akan cantas awal2 dengan cakap my job already had so many issues, i dont want my relationship to have one.
nak bincang hati ke hati memang tidakla
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 12:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Intanmahsuri replied at 15-9-2017 11:48 AM
Cuba lah bagi ultimatum dekat dia. You kena find a way out.

Try tanya dia, what makes him happy  ...

career je dia cakap. personal langsung tak bagitahu apa. cuma cakap tunggu right time... bertahun dah mereput tunggu dia.
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 12:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kittycomey89 replied at 15-9-2017 11:51 AM
Tepuk dada tanya hati TT...syg mcm mna pun if rasa waste time better take action sis, bukan apa mc ...

taknak start all over again kan?
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 12:57 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
QIsmail replied at 15-9-2017 12:29 PM
I know how it feels to be endlessly waiting. My case was 10 years. Which is even worst. And I chose  ...

dia memang ada issue dengan mak dia. i rasa dia tak percaya dgn perkahwinan dan jadi takut sebab his past. sekali lagi, ni i speku je.....
i ni indenial sangat kot, dibutakan dgn sayang. tak nampak apa2 signal yg dia bagi tentang hubungan kitorang
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 Author| Post time 15-9-2017 01:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winda_klose replied at 15-9-2017 12:36 PM
i takut tt dijadikan backup dikala dia kesunyian.
lelaki ni walaupun dia contact kita hari2, belum  ...

dia bukan melayu. agama dan bangsa memang bukan masalah.
dulu ex i pun buat i mcm ni, hari2 contact, dating segala sampai setahun. pastu tinggal i mcm tu je.
i yang tak belajar dari kesilapan. mungkin berulang lagi.

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Post time 15-9-2017 01:10 PM | Show all posts
TT ni actually dah tahu apa dia perlu lakukan. Not easy to change people ya. So kalau nak jawapan hitam putih, tinggalkan dia perlahan-lahan lah.
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Post time 15-9-2017 01:22 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
i dulu kapel dgn suami i 2 thn and we both da 30s something..i ada gak tnya dia how about us? family is asking..laki i ms tu bf diam je..maybe dia x ready..then since dia xleh decide for us..i yg decide sdiri..i ckp i yg berhak utk happiness i..i xleh pksa dia..xkn nk suh dia buat bnda yg bkn utk kepentingan dia kn..my kids are growing up and they need father..so i kne la cr father utk derang walaupon he is not my bf..dia kne phm..i pon apa lg..dating la dgn org lain siap pi tgk wyg semua..n bf i tau psl ni..terus dia msuk meminang..da kawen la kitaorg..laki ni kne sekeh cket kot pala br jln..ckp kias2 derang x pick up la..huhu
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