How to move on, we are working together...

selyusi

You will be fine.. just ignore them, you ignore je, memang susah, tapi cuba la ignore, sakit itu simpan dalam, don't trust siapa2 la, just be nice to them, kalau nampak diorang sweet2 depan you, join the crowd usik2, etc... cakap nice2 je tau, macam tak pernah apa2 jadi antara korang, tak pernah dating and all... senyum je...  watlek watpisss

ninja boy

Campur tangan org luar dlm bercinta mmg x bagus. Is gangguan, boleh jadi faktor penghalang jodoh. Biasanya jika berjodoh perjalanan ke pelamin begitu lancar Tanpa gannguan. I rasa u bukan jodoh bersama dia disebabakan byk halangan, elokla move on buat x tau

hanibee

i tak berapa faham lah citer u.. to me, maybe u overthink and u shud stop from assuming.. senang cerita, klu based on hearsay atau apa reaction org kt u, takyah lah nk fikir sgt.. org lelaki ni senang.. klu nak, dia ckp je nak.. lautan api pon diorg sanggup.. klu takat takut org mengata, baik u lupakan aje.. hidup tak mati dgn org mengata.. mcm mana nk move on, toughen up, buat bodoh je.. gi kerja, buat kerja then blk kerja.. habis.. refrain yourself dr mengharap dan assuming apa yg org dok membawang pasal u.. make yourself look good.. melawa, improve diri u kt office, improve job performance AND control your thoughts!

anggap je kita ni manusia biasa, kadang2 offtrack with bad relationship atau pun friendship.. time to get yourself back in the track.. and relationship dgn laki taguna tu adalah one of the offtrack..

peringatan utk diri i jugak..

nmi

nicuya replied at 16-10-2018 10:33 PM
Team dia ramai pompuan ek...kalau ya, pttla mcm tak bape nk matang sbb mostly yg ikut geng2 gini ial ...

yeap rmai perempuan..type2 baik2 ala2 suci pendiam tapi sbenarnya suka ngumpat and ketawakan org..

matamata

Panjangnya tulis...bulih lukis tak?....

jgn marah gurau

akik

The only way to move on is to get yourself a new boyfriend.  Shouldn't be hard for an extrovert like you to find one. Good luck.

_yuzhu_

find someone who is better than him..
pergi la join mana2 social events..

DaoMing_Si

aku pernah kena macam ni.. tapi aku punye kes die boleh perkecilkan aku lepas tu dekat team member yang lain (die manager aku time tu)..

so aku nekad nak move on.. ape aku buat aku totally ignore die.. social media aku block die.. msn (zaman tu ade msn) pun aku block.. die try nak borak bende takde kaitan ngan keje terus aku tak respon.. even time lunch pun kalau aku nampak die tengah makan kat satu kedai ni, aku sanggup jalan jauh untuk elak lalu depan kedai tu.. walaupun hati masih sayang giler kat dia..

sampai satu tahap, aku rase tak boleh nak terus camni, aku resigned tanpa ada kerja baru.. resigned pun aku tak bagitau die.. aku direct terus ke big boss.. hari last day dia ajak lunch sama nak belanja, dekat kedai aku bagi dia bayar, balik je office aku terus tinggalkan duit lunch atas meja dia.. and the moment aku keluar dari office tu, aku terus block and delete no hp die.. sampai sekarang aku masih elakkan dari jumpe die.. die add aku kat social media balik pun aku tak approve.. lantak ko situ.. and akhirnye aku takde hati lagi kat die..

so TT kalau memang nak move on sile serious.. lantak lah die nak show off ngan gf baru ke apa ke.. ko tak payah lah nak bitter sangat.. tunjuk je kat die yang ko tak terkesan langsung pun dengan ape die buat..

gummiebear

Iols nak suruh tukar kije tapi tt dah bagitau awal2 lagi. Camnilah just ignore them. Its been 2 years oredi. Dont give them the satisfaction to see youre upset or affected by their actions. Lagi la seronok dorang show off sebab tau you akan jadi bitter and miserable.

Kalau nak cari new guy pun, cari sebab you dah bersedia.. jangan cari sebab nak show off kat heols or your colleagues. Do it for you.

b_n_c

mana tt, where are u?

dh move on ke blum

TulenBang

Aku expect tt ni tkde kwn kt luar opis. Tu sbb tkleh move on lagi even dh past 2 years

Selagi ko tkde environment baru& keep on stalk their socmed selagi tula ko takleh move on. Terperangkap dgn masa silam

nmi

akik replied at 18-10-2018 08:46 AM
The only way to move on is to get yourself a new boyfriend.  Shouldn't be hard for an extrovert like ...

hahah ader lah kenal a few man after him but dont know agak kurang serasi (or maybe i too compared the other guys with him ) i dont know..well if its meant to be it will be kan..

nmi

_yuzhu_ replied at 18-10-2018 03:39 PM
find someone who is better than him..
pergi la join mana2 social events..

dulu i agak social butterfly tapi pergerakan i terbatas bec of them but alhamdulillah i already started back slowly..couple tue always pose for the camera smpai gmbr event asyik gmbr diorang dua jer but thanks to you all i tengok dgn hati terbuka...whats not meant to be will not meant to be.

nmi

DaoMing_Si replied at 18-10-2018 06:01 PM
aku pernah kena macam ni.. tapi aku punye kes die boleh perkecilkan aku lepas tu dekat team member y ...

ermmm smpai burukkan you...mcm shit kan..nasib baik lar Mr A nie tak pernah ckp apa2 bout me to his gang..i assume his gang knows nothing because diorang asyik curious jaa..

nmi

b_n_c replied at 19-10-2018 07:17 PM
mana tt, where are u?

dh move on ke blum

hahaah alhamdullilah going that way...try to remain composed and act calm all the way..

nmi

TulenBang replied at 19-10-2018 08:14 PM
Aku expect tt ni tkde kwn kt luar opis. Tu sbb tkleh move on lagi even dh past 2 years

Selagi k ...

true bro...ramai geng2 dah settle down, kahwin, beranak pinak..aku nie hah terdampar masih single lagi..also looking for single friends..

TulenBang

nmi replied at 20-10-2018 08:47 AM
true bro...ramai geng2 dah settle down, kahwin, beranak pinak..aku nie hah terdampar masih single  ...

Aku penah on your situation maybe 10yrs back but aku pun sama tk sggup breti kje just 4 that reason. So what i did was aku joint charity termasuk yg tlg org serve mknan during fasting kt klcc mosque. End up even at office aku having issue maybe hati aku lebih tenang in fact pastu sng lak dpt jodoh which is wayyy more better than my ofismate td.. Just my  cents

liz001

Satu benda yang I belajar ialah U jangan ukur kebahagiaan u dengan kayu ukur orang lain. Sampai bila pun tak akan berjaya. Buat apa yang u rasa happy dan jangan peduli apa orang lain cakap. Jangan disebabkan nak buktikan kat ex yang u ni happy so u couple dengan orang yang u tak berapa suka.  Just be happy & enjoy every thing in life.

Catpaw

nmi replied at 20-10-2018 08:45 AM
hahaah alhamdullilah going that way...try to remain composed and act calm all the way..

Bagusla tt dah nampak jalan. Pedulik kan je la diorang nak show off, who r yus? Takde makna pun dia dalam life u sekarang...  Masa u lagi berharga fikir benda lain dr teringat kat dia kan...

cahaya_almas

Boringnya cara tt bercinta...nak sorok2..nmpk sgt jantan tu tk serius ok...tinggal n hiduplah tt ngan gembira...tkyah fikir psl dia..insyallah akan ada yg lebih baik menanti tt...