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Post time 22-9-2019 12:45 PM
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Rogue98 replied at 22-9-2019 11:06 AM
Find in urself apa kekurangan yg ada pada diri u n work on it then fight for him. I rasa terlalu awa ...
Hmm.. sayang tu bukan in context panggilan atau pet name.. sayang tu exclusive dpt masa dia wish good night je.. awal2 dulu ada gak dia panggil.. lps tu tetiba stop jadi ‘awak’ je.. |
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Post time 22-9-2019 12:53 PM
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MenteriWanita replied at 22-9-2019 11:41 AM
Lelaki kalau dia suka perempuan, energi dia memang konsisten, tak ada turun naik, macam dia main PUB ...
Iye menteri wanita.. masa bukak topic ni itu lah yg i fikir.. stop making excuses for him and focus on myself .. bila i rasa terpinggir, i convinced myself, biarla dia buat apa dia suka.. x semua org hadap phone 24 jam.. the first thing yg buat dia terpikat kat i dulu sebab dia ckp i independent.. dia kasi i sepenuh kebebasan.. buat la apa i nak, pegi la mana nk pegi.. he trust me .. dia x nak i harap kat dia semata2 utk buat i bahagia, which is true..
Tapi dah kata in a relationship kan, of course la i nak tau someone at the other end cares for me, interested with my life..bukan biar i sorang2..i pegi trip baru ni, excited nak cerita kat dia.. tp bila i msg ckp i dah sampai rumah, dia lgsg x respon..terbantut nak citer mg excitement..i send gambar pun lgsg xde komen.. communication out.. yg ada cuma good night message which i rasa just to string me along..
Anyway thanks for your advise.. hope you are happy with your life too.. |
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sweetpea911 replied at 22-9-2019 10:34 AM
Sorry to hear that.. so you akan teruskan kawin bulan 12 ni nanti?
Sedih i baca.. pattern sg ...
X yah check hp pelbagai dik. Buat sakit hati je.
Dump him. Jantan x guna je dia ni. Dia mgkn berguna utk org lain. Just buang dia. Berjuta pg lelaki lain dlm Malaysia ni yg akn appreciate u. |
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I rasa dia ada someone else..and dia dh start boring dgn u.lelaki ni kalau ada betine lain dia terus jd gitu...tp dia tanak tinggalkan u..dia tamak haloba..
U pijak telur dia.rasakan! |
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sweetpea911 replied at 22-9-2019 11:28 AM
Sebenarnya 2,3 bulan lepas ada la salah faham sikit sbb isu2 yg mcm ni.. lps tu dia ada ckp dan ka ...
U have ur answer here tt |
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sweetpea911 replied at 22-9-2019 12:53 PM
Iye menteri wanita.. masa bukak topic ni itu lah yg i fikir.. stop making excuses for him and focu ...
You need someone who can match your energy, who's really excited about life, someone who can be an eyes to monitor you no matter how independent you, someone who can be ears to listen to your stories and memories,
Kaka menteri tak rasa awak minta banyak, cuma awak minta dengan orang yang salah ja, bila awak rasa bf awak susah nak faham awak, sebenarnya bf awak pun sama, dia pun susah nak faham awak, dua apa pun tak faham 
Let say kaka menteri ada Rm1000, awak minta Rm10k tapi kaka malas nak usaha, suka tak suka adik terpaksa ambil Rm1000 ja, sama macam adik nak itu ini, tapi bf hanya mampu bagi goodnight, apa boleh buat, dia tak nak usaha lebih, dia cuma mampu bagi benda mudah, just a goodnight, so goodnight lah awak dapat,
Bertabah ya TT, ingat masa indah bersama dia, ada masalah bincanglah elok2, jadilah forumer Cari yang bertamadun, bukan macam kami yang kerjanya nak bergasak dlm thread
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Nasihat aku la, kalau kita sayang kan, bz mcm mana pun kita akan terpk or trigt nk love kita, love and relationships ni bkn complicated, dia mutual.. Kalau xsmpt ws. Dia akan call kau.. Sbb cm aku la, kdg2 ws yg xpntg aku xjwb.. Lama2 baru aku terigt x reply msg org.. Then aku senag je, call terus.. Then kalau jmp nk ckp psl org lain, what the heckkkk.. Kau pn blh rasa la kan... Mmg aku akui perempuan kdg2 suka pk kedepan berbanding lelaki.. Tp kau tanya je direct jgn kias2 dgn lelaki ni.. |
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Post time 22-9-2019 10:08 PM
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nor_aini.s replied at 22-9-2019 01:22 PM
Nasihat aku la, kalau kita sayang kan, bz mcm mana pun kita akan terpk or trigt nk love kita, love a ...
Terpikir gak dah kalau dia x reply kenapa x call je.. tp tu lah, bila dah selalu one way comm, kita dah jadi x semangat.. anyway thanks.. nk bertenang dulu at least bila i confront dia nanti, boleh ckp dengan tenang bukan emo or nangis2..
Tah2 kita mcm nk gila dok fikir what went wrong, tapi dia sedap2 layan netflix kat umah.. |
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sweetpea911 replied at 22-9-2019 10:08 PM
Terpikir gak dah kalau dia x reply kenapa x call je.. tp tu lah, bila dah selalu one way comm, kit ...
Dont worry, just ada rasa was2 tu penting, nt esok2 dah kahwin lg ssh. My husband pn bkn jns bercakap, but rjn ws, rjn call, even everyday jmp, but after marriage, ws pun blue tick je dia bg.. But kalau kt rumah selalu je bercakap.. So kau pun tau apa ptt buat kan.. Relationships bkn semata cinta, byk aspect kita kena pk.. Then ask ur self, org ni ke nk kau jd ketua dlm hdp.. Timbang tara mana ptt.. Buat keputusan yg btl.. Good luck babe.. Hope u find ur answer. |
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Are you afraid to be single again? |
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Post time 23-9-2019 03:59 AM
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tiramisuu replied at 22-9-2019 10:02 PM
Are you afraid to be single again?
The first time I had this uneasy feeling, yes.. afterall dah mmg sayang kan.. he ticked all the boxes utk ciri2 lelaki yg sy nak.. apart from this coldness, part lain boleh kata almost perfect..
Tp bila dah selalu rasa terpinggir mcm ni.. this time around mcm dah x kisah what will happen next.. life is short, and i wouldnt waste my time to wonder if someone really loves me or not |
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Post time 23-9-2019 04:03 AM
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nor_aini.s replied at 22-9-2019 09:30 PM
Dont worry, just ada rasa was2 tu penting, nt esok2 dah kahwin lg ssh. My husband pn bkn jns berca ...
Thanks babe.. ni mmg phase i kena timbangkan betul2.. just that i x nak buat keputusan ikut emosi.. tapi tu lah, bila dah tahap bukak topic kat sini, mksdnya i dah reach another stage..i ada cerita to my bff, dia pun dah smpi point suruh i move on je .. |
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hi TT, kalau tt rasa ada sikit hope, tt ignore je dia dulu tak payah bg timeline..
kalau he comes back you bagi ke layanan ala ala. tak payah merentan tak puas hati itu ini..
tengok bila you layan dia ala ala dia panic ke tak..
bila tny kenapa senyap you jawab je i pun bz ada life. jangan membebel itu ini..
kadang kadang i rasa laki ni kalau dah dpt and tau perempuan tu syok habis kat dia, dia selalu layan
acuh tak acuh je. bila dah lari beru terhegeh-hegeh nak kejar |
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Trust me TT...kalau dia sayang dan appreciate you dia takkan buat you mcm ni...just diam2 leave him...jaga your self worth |
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KimK replied at 22-9-2019 10:59 AM
Aah i decide nak teruskan, apa jadi lepas ni i memang dah sedia.
Kantoi sebab i check phone dia ...
Still kawin dgn dia?...Nanti selama2 you ada trust issues dan i rasa you will lead unhappy life...unless you tak ada hati dgn your tunang dan blh anggap dia mcm furniture kat rmh ja |
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Edited by tiramisuu at 23-9-2019 02:41 PM
sweetpea911 replied at 23-9-2019 03:59 AM
The first time I had this uneasy feeling, yes.. afterall dah mmg sayang kan.. he ticked all the bo ...
Communication tu bg aku main priority. Klau sblm kawin dia dh refuse nk compromise and it is all about him and him again, apa yg ko harap akn berubah lps kawin? None. Effort sblm kawin pn dh zero. Goodnight tu setakat automatik reply with no emotion.
Aku percaya je tips forumers sini yg ulang ckp klau sesibuk mana dlm sehari, 24 jam tu takkn x blh spend masa 10 minutes klau ko main priority. Unless ko priority no 100 dia. Boleh dh buat no contact for a month. |
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tipikal perangai seorang pompuan...org laki ni bukan 24 jam tengok handphone...bukan mcm org pompuan...
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Post time 24-9-2019 08:51 AM
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Ok update sikit..
I xde la dpt completely ignore.. cuma dah slow down sikit.. maksudnya ikut je rhythm dia.. dia msg i reply.. kira dah x initiate la.. i try to shift my focus to other things especially kat kerja
Hasilnya i rasa refresh.. so smlm lps balik keje ada jmpa jap.. pelik, normal je.. xde la pulak rasa dia bosan atau dingin so i pun hold dulu nak terjah psl dia senyap tu.. dah lama sikit, i tny la elok2 ckp nape sombong sgt seminggu langsung x nk tny kabar.. dia gelak2 je reply ckp dah u cuti, so dia x nak la kacau i.. hmm.. confuse jadinya..
Mgkin ktrg masih dlm adjustment process lg.. tp at least benda ni dah change i punya perspective.. part of it maybe i terlalu focus sgt kat dia and at some point dah jd emotionally dependent, harap dia je yg boleh buat i happy sedangkan byk lagi benda lain yg i boleh channel my energy
Bak kata morgan freeman, the best way to throw a punch is to take a step back.. Selagi belum kawin, i x perlu nk tnjuk sayang lebih2 sgt.. maybe dia bosan sbb tu dia x ‘kejar’ i mcm dulu2 sbb dia tau i dah cinta mati kat dia..so kena belajar relax & enjoy the journey je.. ada jodoh ade lah.. kalau xde pun i can still be happy..
Thanks everyone for your concern.. and wish me all the best.. |
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sweetpea911 replied at 24-9-2019 08:51 AM
Ok update sikit..
I xde la dpt completely ignore.. cuma dah slow down sikit.. maksudnya ikut je r ...
maybe u leh baca buku..
men are from mars, women are from venus..
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Bagi pendapat i lah, lelaki ni kalau die senyap tu, kalau bukan sebab die tawar hati ngan kita dan dah ada org lain, maybe die tgh fokus on sumtin atau ada masalah. Cth nye, die kena lead project, atau die mmg ada masalah yg die tak nak share... selagi tak selesai atau tak nampak solution mmg senyap je. Sebab bagi die msg2 tu semua hal kecik. Lelaki ni mmg bukan sejenis yg multi task.
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Post time 22-9-2019 01:12 PM
