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btw.. minggu lepas.. minggu nie.. mmg menyedihkan utk saya.. last week dahlah mc 3 hari straight lepas tu last friday, my lawyer call tarikh pengesahan cerai kami pada 3hb 12 nie.. so senin nanti kenalah cuti masuk court..
rasanya nak sampai ke 3hb nie mcm cepat sgt.. mgkn saya belum boleh terima kenyataan yang saya akan bergelar 'ibu tunggal' lepas nie.. entah mcm manalah nak kuatkan hati ni..
dahlah skrg musim org kawin.. dah banyak sgt jemputan diterima kat ofis nie.. sampai ader suara2 sumbang yang bleh plak ckp.. "lepas nie sampai plak lah kad jemputan ex ko ekk ".. boleh plak dia tanya kat kita tu...  |
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Originally posted by arysa at 27-11-2007 12:12 PM 
laki aku pun takde masa anak sulung bersunat... FIL yg bawakkan...masa tu ada majlis berkhatan ramai2 kat surau near his house... FIL jugalah yg tolong jagakan...
kalau camnih...pada aku sangat ok...sbb bapak kepada bapak si anak2 tu amik alih tanggungjawab....masih di dalam daerah garah daging/waris kepada budak2 tu.....
cam kes yg aku sdg pkkan nih....aku sama laki aku ni....totally outsider dan cuma kawan...dan hanya saudara seIslam..... |
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Originally posted by LostSoul at 27-11-2007 12:17 PM
mmm akupun kalau kena camtu tak tahan... n tak sepatutnye dia ckp muka ko tak menyeronokkan utk dipandang.. apa maksud kata2 camtu? mmmmm... whats his prob sebeanrnye, meow? heran aku.. borak2 ko ...
die cuma 'byk' ckp bila die nak update timing kerja2 die.
sbg contoh, kalau bulan tu ade district meeting kat luar ke, ada event balik kerja 2 pagi ker,
ada hari ape2 die kena balik lambat, pegi kerja cepat mcm pukul 5.30 pagi
or ada reunion member sekolah dulu, st8 to the point, takde berbasa basi sgt.
bila org dah pendiam mcm tu
kan dah buat kita pikir bukan2.
bila meow tanya ape expenses kat statement kredit kad die
die jawab, tapi meow tahu die tak selesa di tanya begitu
bila meow ckp, die mesra dgn anak2, tapi tak dgn meow
sampai bila nak hidup mcm tu? die jawab "entahlah tak tahu"
tonight you must give answer, everthing must have time limit,
camner nak buat nie?
that's why meow dah bersedia to give option live separately.
meow pun makan gaji jugak, ade career nak jaga
ada badan dan otak yg perlu di jaga
kalau idup kejap ok kejap tak ok mcm nie, besok happy hari nie nangis atas benda yg sama
mana boleh! ingat wanita nie patung ker? |
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Reply #44 meow_tompok's post
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meow.. baca your comment ni, i rasa macam too many dark shades about him that you don't have any idea about. dia kena clearkan all these.. kalau tak, i think sampai bila2 u will feel dissatisfaction. so, tonite, ask him to clarify all your doubts... kalau dia tak boleh, maybe separation will do some good to make him thinking really hard for the good of your marriage. |
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Originally posted by bakawali_04 at 27-11-2007 12:25 PM
btw.. minggu lepas.. minggu nie.. mmg menyedihkan utk saya.. last week dahlah mc 3 hari straight lepas tu last friday, my lawyer call tarikh pengesahan cerai kami pada 3hb 12 nie.. so senin nant ...
saya percaya anda wanita kental.
tabahkan hati.
yg u punye officemate tu pun satu lah, mulut takde insuran betul
awat tak jawab balik: "bagus jugak erk, nanti ko teman aku pegi butik, aku nak pasang badan kaw2 punye kat majlis die" |
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Reply #40 meow_tompok's post
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aku benci tul lelaki jenis menghina...mcm..s....!!!!! |
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Reply #17 Qurnia's post
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lerrr.. apa punya bapak daaa... |
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Originally posted by LostSoul at 27-11-2007 12:37 PM
eow.. baca your comment ni,i rasa macam too many dark shades about him that you don't have anyidea about. dia kena clearkan all these.. kalau tak, i think sampaibila2 u will feel dissatisfaction. so, tonite, ask him to clarify allyour doubts... kalau dia tak boleh, maybe separation will do some goodto make him thinking really hard for the good of your marriage..
that's the reason why i choose to be separated.
sukak betul la aku dgn komen lostsoul nie. thanks my friend. |
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Originally posted by Vvenus at 27-11-2007 12:26 PM
if u really love him, don't give up on him 
sbb tu, tonight saya nak ckp berdepan dgn die
nekad utk mintak die keluar dari rumah tempat kami tinggal, utk tinggal berasingan itu sudah ada.
biar dua2 rasa mcm mana pasangan takde disini
time tu dptlah fikir dgn tenang dan terbaik.
saya pun percaya, saya juga mesti ada silap dan salah
masing2 kena cuba perbaiki diri masing2. |
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Reply #38 sarahmirza's post
kerja kerja jugak... tapi tak salah kalau amik cuti 1 hari...
tapi kalau kes sibuk persiapan kahwin lagi satu... bobitkan aje si bapak tu... |
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Reply #53 5w_1h's post
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mmm thread ni open to both genders, dude... ego tu setiap org ada.. but what steps do you take to tame her ego? |
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Reply #54 LostSoul's post
yelah..
of cos la kaum wanita pun ade..
hmm..i've read alot..
mags..this FD..
see how u guys react..
how u guys handle situations..
mostly only works for several weeks..
or even worse..days
our pro and contra just doesnt match  |
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taktau ngapa sedey....kecik ati je kot. |
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Reply #55 5w_1h's post
of coz la pro n cons different.. we are different genders, what.. 
and diff situation, kena applied diff approach, measures.. you can applied what you read here n in mags, but will it work? only u know.. |
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em..masing2 ade masalah memasing..kalu tak suami, in law, family sendiri pun ade..
to meow tompok , kesian dgr prob u tu. u pun banyak bg pendapat utk kes SIL i tuh.nak nasihat pun, saye ni pun bertatih lagi. tapi dulu, husband penah berubah perangai kejap sejak tukar career. penahla mintak pendapat kat forumni gak.
pastu,i print komen2 yg ok tuh..i bagi die bace. ade yg tergelak2 die bace. lepastu, die promise lepas ni die akan ubah memane perangai yg negatif tu.
kdg2 die tak perasan perangai die ubah sbb stress keje dan sbgnye.
dari pihak saye gak, bile nengok org tu moody jek,kite pun moody jek. takde la cube2 nka amek ati die. itu makin teruk jadiknye. cube la meow bawak bincang bebtul. sedih sebnrnye kalu pk2 pasal cerai berai nih. lg sedih bile pk anak2 tuh.. |
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aku sedih sbb
bila keje sini...aku kena buat keje2 yg tak pernah aku buat sebelum ni.
khamis ni ada meeting...aku lak kena sediakan makanan dan minuman utk org meeting.
nyampassssssssssssss jeee |
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