Interracial relationship - boyfriend sepetku

IzzyIbrahim

labusayong replied at 25-3-2019 05:49 PM
dia bukan taknak convert as in cakap taknak convert, tapi masalah dia ni semua benda aku kena suap ...

Lucky for u that he wanna marry u and bole kata he is okay and wanna learn to convert. If u tak nak ajar dia, fins any of your friend yg bole ajar dia. Cari lelaki sbb dia bole belajar jd ketua keluarga skali. X pun mntk ayah or siblings u ajarkn.

I plk mmg kene tinggalkn bf I, he's indian btw. He do love me but dia x nk convert sbb family dia. So, its not worth it to continue da. Lg pun bf I tau byk jgk tntg islam tp dia x buka hati n akal dia sgt. Can say that most of what he sees in Islam tu negative la. That's why I said u r lucky.

As long as dia willing to learn n accept, there is not much issue. Jnji u can teach him. Klu u sendiri da putus asa, dia yg baru nk kenal lg la susah nk accept.

virgocircus

labusayong replied at 25-3-2019 05:49 PM
dia bukan taknak convert as in cakap taknak convert, tapi masalah dia ni semua benda aku kena suap ...

TT, kalau u nak bwk hubungan ni to the next level which is marriage, u mmg kena guide dia betul2. Tunjukkan step pertama, step kedua dan seterusnya. Erti kata lain u mmg kena spoon-feed dia.
Tapi dari segi u cerita ni, mcm u pun acuh x acuh dgn hubungan ni. So kalau u xde efforts, apatah lagi ur bf. Lagilah dia terumbang ambing tanpa hala tuju.
Kalau tt rasa hubungan ni boleh pergi jauh, better tell him face to face how you feel, how you felt abandoned, the lack of spark, dan mcm mana nak kembalikan rasa cinta and all the excitement tanpa perlu korang nak sentuh2,pgg tgn tu sume.
Andai kata u rasa tak boleh pergi jauh, let him go now. Jgn bg harapan palsu kat dia.