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Nak share dgn sapa2 yg ada experience jadi close friend dgn Koreans..
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Best bace citer tt... Imo, korean lebih expressive and straightforward... Meaning kalo xsuke diorg akan cakap depan2 and biase bg ahjumma2 or ahjussi2 tegur depan2 n yg ditegur idokla amik ati since da mmg culture diorv... Unlike japanese diorg mmg either xmasuk campur lgsg hal org ataupun diorg ngumpat blkg... Hahaha... Kuat ngumpat okay japanese ni... Tp mmg dr segi kesopanan japanese nmpk lagi sopan lah
Dr segi drinking habit, rasenye xbyk beza pun between japs n korean... Minum alcohol tu mcm minum teh la dlm culture diorg, tiap2 hari pun kne minum... Klo kat japan cukup umur je diorg ade sambut seijin no hi, so arini diorg ramai2 kampai tuk celebrate da boleh minum... N nomikai is a culture yg sampaikan klo salaryman balik umah x mabuk2 tu macam x cukup keje keras la dia tu... So klo nti g kobe diorg ajak g nomikai, well terpulang klo nk join sbb iols sendiri penah join nomikai even x minum... Btau sesiap ape xleh makan sume nti mesti diorg order makan special sbb diorg mmg hormat je agama kite n since japs ni mmg sejenis particular, so agak leh caye la jgk sbb iols dlu time nomikai tu diorg ckp dessert kat situ sume xleh mkn sbb ade gelatin so diorg order kan buah je tuk iols as dessert siap mintak maaf bgai sbb xsame ngn diorg while kite ok je.. Haha
Well iols dlu pun penah masuk kelas korean language kat pj tp beginner level je la sbb lepas tu pregnant n malas... Adekah language school yg same? Heheh |
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appleringo replied at 26-3-2018 11:01 PM
hehe..thanks..i akan update jap lg..mula2 i dengar memang mengejutkan..sbb Oppa sndiri bgtau 2 org ...
Iols pun ade kenalan yg suicide mase stay kt japan dlu... Tgk macam biase2 je cam ok je... Tetibe dpt tau da commit suicide |
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Thanks...tu la last time my ex-husband stay lama kat jepun, about 7 years.. pernah dia cerita normally lepas habis labwork his supervisor akan ajak g lepak..x kira la karaoke ke or minum2 ke.. even now Oppa pun ada cerita jugak. korean culture pun lebih kurang jugak. after work, dorg x kan straight blk rmh. haha.tp Oppa jenis x join sgt activity after work. selalu blk rmh terus. kalau ada pun jumpa bff dia like once in a month utk hang out.
ckp psl language centre tu..haha..maybe sama. tp kat PJ byk kan language centre. iols belajar smpai level 3 je..lps tu memang iols dpt free class dgn Oppa je..hehe...
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Edited by appleringo at 29-3-2018 07:23 AM
baru ada masa nak sambung cerita.. ok masa lepak dgn Oppa kat tepi pool, I teringat I pernah text dia n tanya psl commit suicide issue among Korean. Surprisingly, Oppa cakap in his family, 2 of his uncles pun commit suicide. sorang, minum racun, sorang lagi terjun kat Hangang (Han River)..Han River memang jd tmpt Korean bunuh diri. paling famous kat Mapo Bridge tu. smpaikan Seoul City government made some initiatives letak motivational sign kat tepi bridge. actually tak tinggi pun terjun dr Mapo bridge tu. jarak bridge ke Hangang tu dlm 60-feet je. tp still ramai sgt try bunuh diri.
So, in the end i tanya personal opinion from Oppa..tp jwpn Oppa beza la dr my other Korean friends. Oppa ckp masa 10 tahun lepas, dia pun ala2 depress jugak. sbb dia ckp living cost sgt tinggi. last 10 years, Oppa kerja dgn Hyundai. dia ckp overwork..sampaikan 20 hours/day pun pernah. dgn business trip byk. penat la. tp dia kata dia mmg set 10 tahun je kerja mkn gaji, then dia start his own business. so by the age of 32 tu dia dh start business lps save duit masa keje kat Hyundai. masa umur 32 ni dia ada pernah try nak commit suicide. reason sbb masa tu 1st business dia fail n gf dia tinggalkan dia. tp nasib dia cpt sedar. so dia ckp, selagi dia tak jumpa 'happiness' yg dia nak in life, dia takkan cabut nyawa sendiri. Oppa ni dulu Atheist, skrg dia Buddhist. dia ckp dia selalu remind himself yg if dia commit suicide, he's a loser. yg mengalah before fight. i suka jwpn dia sbb positif la bg I. tp unlike religion punya influence ke apa dia kata die lebih prefer if u have inner strength.
dia kata, the other reason mcm uncles dia yg bunuh diri tu sbb sunyi. dah umur over 50 tp tak kawin. tp dlm fikiran most Korean, if org memang dah x nak hidup, dorg ckp dorg x halang. sbb buat apa nak paksa org nak mati utk terus hidup. n dorg percaya, lps mati, u'll be in different, better place. Oppa kata dia x judge org yg nk bunuh diri. knowing he himself pun pernah try kan. tp betul la psl overwork kat Korea n Jepun mmg one of the culture. ada sorg film producer, korean shows fans tau yg selalu org panggil PD tu..ada one them muda lg, tp bunuh diri, last year. Lee Hanbit nama dia. dlm suicide note dia ckp dia hidup x mcm org normal sbb teruk sgt bekerja. tidur 3-4 jam je sehari.
Ok we both borak2 dekat sejam jugak..x sedar dah pkl 12. ok la Oppa ckp dia kena grk blk dh. so I pun hantar la kat entrance condo. smbil tunggu Grab sampai, dia byk tanya psl Islam in general. sbb to my surprise, I am his first Muslim friend. dia ckp dlm English class dia attend, ada ramai org Arab, tp bila dia nak ajak lunch ke apa, dorg reluctant. so dia mcm fkr mmg Muslim x boleh kwn non-Muslim ke.
Ok in next story, I akan share Korean punya honest opinion psl our local foods pulak. Oppa ni jenis apa2 mknn semua korean foods. dia x mkn sgt Malaysian foods. tp Oppa jenis mkn byk ok. if masak tu ayam sekor. nak mkn 2 org je kdg2. haha.. but again, mkn byk pun body dia slim je..later I bwk Oppa try mkn nasi dagang..so, from that moment, dia jd peminat nasi dagang dh.. 
@yokoono
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appleringo replied at 28-3-2018 04:45 AM
baru ada masa nak sambung cerita.. ok masa lepak dgn Oppa kat tepi pool, I teringat I pernah text ...
Fuyoo sis tros perkenalkan nasi dagang...baguslah heols pon kena try jgk mknan luar xkan sis jek nk makan makanan diorangkan..haha..
owhh so kebabyakannya sbb lonely and overworked la ye...meols tgk kes mati sorang diri pon tinggi di korea smpai berminggu2 baru org tau meninggal..sbb duk sesorang..jd org xsedar dah xda... |
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my personal experience ngan koreans ni, they are very demanding. Tapi tataua la i nasib tak baik ke apa. kikiki |
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Haha...tu la tak beragak introduce nasi dagang kan.. sbb i pengsan dah mkn korean food almost every weekend. yup mostly overworked..tp celebrity mungkin lain kisahnya kan..sbb celebrity dorg pun ramai commit suicide.
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oh yeke...share la kat sini mcm mana kisahnya...nak tau jugak..hehe
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lepas ni blh bagi dia try nasi lemak, roti canai..byk je our local food yg sedap2.
Teh tarik oppa da rasa belum? mgkin lpas ni blh tukar dari soju ke teh tarik. who knows? |
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haha.. pernah bg try. tapi pakcik ni practice healthy eating..once in a blue moon dia kata ok la. air yg bersusu pekat tu dia x minum. I pun jenis x minum air bersusu pekat. tp kdg2 kalau terasa nk minum, I minum jugak. cuma 3-4 bln, ada la sekali. bg Oppa nasi dagang tu jugak kena dgn selera dia. local meals yg ada nasi setakat ni dia suka nasi dagang je. oh, dia suka satay jugak. Korean kan suka meat. Lately, Oppa lama dah x minum alcoholic drinks. dia ckp dia x tahan hangover lps minum. lately dia kata if dia minum, esoknya dia diarrhea. haha.
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Hi all.. I br ada masa nak sambung. Kalau sblm ni I share pasal commit suicude issue, this time round I nak share psl philosophy for most Korean time mkn. So far since I kenal Oppa, memang dia makan byk..seriously banyak. means apa yg dihidang kat meja kena habiskan. yg Oppa cerita dari kecik like since umur 2-3tahun dorg dah diajar table manners. tu antara 1st education dorg kat rmh. dr kecik dorg dah start belajar makan guna chopsticks or fork and spoon. If any of u guys tgk korean show "슈퍼맨이 돌아왔다" (The Return of Superman), korg mesti tgk anak2 dorg yg kecik2 dah boleh makan tanpa parents suap seawal umur 2 tahun mcm tu. mula2 memang berterabur tp lama2 anak2 tu biasa dah.
Oppa ckp budak2 dorg ajar utk appreciate rezeki, means apa yg org tua hidang mkn smpai hbis.jgn merungut. that's why if kita tgk dorg selalu sebut ni before mkn "잘 먹겠습니다" - (I will eat very well) especially bila mkn dgn org lg tua. sbb tu if budak throw tantrum time kat dining table, memang kena denda. bg dorg tu paling penting. and I selalu perati if I makan dgn Oppa, kdg2 ada time dia lpr sgt2, tp I jenis mkn slow motion sikit. dia akn ikut pace I mkn. bkn sbb sengaja ye. tp parents dia ajar if mkn sama2, biar habis sama2.
another table manner yg I observe is Oppa mkn x angkat bowl or plate masa mkn. means mkn ramyeon ke nasik ke, dorg akan tundukkan muka ke meja rather than angkat bowl ke atas. tp yg ni Oppa ckp recently ramai x ikut dah. tp Oppa jenis mkn cmtu, means dia x kan angkat bowl ke atas.
ckp psl favourite local foods Oppa.. before this, eventhough dia dr bln Sept 2017 stay kat KL, tp dia tak mkn local foods. ntah la. katanya berminyak la apa (byk songeh kan..).so everytime mkn sama, normally dia yg akan masak. so everytime pun mkn Korean foods. sampai I dah x larat dah  tekak Malaysian kan. sesekali teringin jugak nak mkn Malaysian foods sama2.
sudahnya I heret dia g mkn kat kedai Kelantanese foods. tu dia, in the end baru dia tau betapa sedapnya nasi dagang tu. so far satay and nasi dagang are his favourite local foods. but as I said, Oppa jenis mkn byk. in fact I rasa most korean jenis mkn byk. tp bg dorg that's one of the happiness in life, means having the best foods. but bg dorg if mkn byk, 운동(undong) means exercise pun kena sama byk. that's why Oppa ni jenis slim je even time mkn ayam sekor pun boleh habis  his height 180cm, weight 70kg. so BMI normal. but i think bab practice exercise ni mngkin golongan Korean yg muda2 je la. yg ahjumma ahjussi ada je yg I jumpa overweight tp x ramai sgt so far.
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seronoknya dgr psl culture dorg..
Bca thread u ni mcm tgh tgk K-drama
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Ntah la dik...kwn baik sis korean girl...ao far dia sgt hormat akak...kalau lunch or dinner...mmg dia akan suruh akak pilih tptnya sbb dia takut x halal...n kalau beli korean groceries..dia akan checkkam ingredient...drinking habit plak..mostly girls x suka minum sgt..n kalau dia nk minum pon bukannya dia ajak pon ..dia akan cari drinking buddy dia...so akak pon xtau nk komen apa dgn oppa uols tu... ... ... ... ........ |
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yokoono replied at 2-4-2018 04:31 PM
seronoknya dgr psl culture dorg..
Bca thread u ni mcm tgh tgk K-drama
haha.. bila dh berkwn dgn korean, br nmpk kan the real stories behind Kdrama..tp selain Oppa, i ada few korean friends yg lain sikit la perangai.biasa la manusia, lain2 kan..hehe |
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siputsedut replied at 2-4-2018 04:45 PM
Ntah la dik...kwn baik sis korean girl...ao far dia sgt hormat akak...kalau lunch or dinner...mmg di ...
oh yeke sis..aah sama la..if Oppa masak pun segala bahan tu dia check dulu.sbb housemate dia kt KL pun muslim kan.mayb dia lebih alert sikit.
tp bab drinking tu..haha..setakat ni if mkn kt rmh, mmg ada je la soju tu.tp Oppa jenis jarang keluar minum dgn member..once in a blue moon ada la sis.. |
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My advise..stay away from the oppa..because korean has bad drinking habits..once they are drunk..they akan balun you habis- habisan..sampai u senak... |
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well thanks for the advise..so far, after 6 months kwn dgn dia, I rasa selamat je. n dia sndiri tau do's n dont's for Muslim. In fact before start kwn, I mmg bgtau my stance. there are few times yg dia mabuk lps minum soju, but dia just blk rmh.
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appleringo replied at 2-4-2018 09:44 AM
Hi all.. I br ada masa nak sambung. Kalau sblm ni I share pasal commit suicude issue, this time roun ...
Owhhh patut la..tngk variety show diorang mmg mcm tu la gayanya...makan bnyak n sngt2 menghargai makanan...
Sis ajak la oppa tu try rendang plak...hot topik skang ni rendang crispy |
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Ok park. Since i sengal mcm kwangso |
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appleringo replied at 2-4-2018 04:52 PM
oh yeke sis..aah sama la..if Oppa masak pun segala bahan tu dia check dulu.sbb housemate dia kt KL ...
Oppa x friend dgn muslim housemt dia ke... |
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Post time 27-3-2018 09:39 AM
