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Reply #780 my-alja's post
off topic: something about friendship...
A Reason, A Season, and A Lifetime.
By Brian A. "Drew" Chalker
People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend too you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being part of my life.....
(c) Brian A. "Drew" Chalker |
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Reply #781 kikilalat's post
thanks kiki.....
gud one.... |
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Reply #779 eastrun's post
So, the selfish guy is????...LIFETIME, REASON or SEASON?
By the way, he just went away without even solving his problem with me....he is my team member and even though I am younger than him, but as a project leader, I have to know what he do and when is the actual date that he might departs from Malaysia to UK.Because I have arrange the milestones of my project accordingly...and when he left I have found a difficulty...furthermore, his staffs know nothing about my project. |
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Reply #781 kikilalat's post
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Reply #785 Sasha's post
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you nak berapa ramai anak?.you sekarang ada berapa anak dah? |
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Reply #783 eastrun's post
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nape tak de orang advise i untuk post 783? |
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Originally posted by eastrun at 14-5-2008 09:10 AM 
So, the selfish guy is????...LIFETIME, REASON or SEASON?
By the way, he just went away without even solving his problem with me....he is my team member and even though I am younger than him, b ...
Since tak ada orang bagi ko advise, meh aku bagi...
Kalau nak diikutkan, siapa ko nak tahu bila dia pergi ke luar negara, itu memang benar. Tapi, ko pernah tanya dia, kan?. Dan dia langsung tak jawab pertanyaan ko...yang tu dia silap...bila ko tanya dia, maksudnya ko dah merendah diri dah dengan dia...dan it shows that you care atau beria-ia nak dia dimasukkan ke dalam your team...
Yang aku pelik, kenapa officer ko ni macam berat mulut ek...dia ada kuasa, dia ada kedudukan, which, his word might change the situation..kalau dia beritahu ko bila dia nak chow, automatically problem tu boleh selesai...ini nak rahsia, itu nak rahsia, padahal, nama nak ada dalam papers ko, aku pun rasa macam tak adil buat ko...
Aku gak ada baca thread yang dia suruh ko kuar lab dia tuh...bila aku baca, aku dapat rasa yang ko punya masalah ini boleh selesai kalau officer tu buat statements. Kalau officer tu berkeras / stay solid by saying:"Ok, I want east to be under me and sit at my lab". Aku rasa automatically benda tu akan selesai...yelah, dia unit leader, kan?. Ko punya kedudukan tu berdasarkan cadangan dia juga, kan?.
Aku kerja kat LKIM, ketua aku memang aku respek sebab dia memang guna kuasa dia dalam menyelesaikan satu-satu hal....mengarah staf adalah normal, tapi dia juga hebat dalam membuat keputusan...itu aku respek...ini aku tgk ketua ko ni, macam nak tak nak je.....entahlah la east, aku baca pun aku sakit hati...macam mana la agaknya ko boleh bersabar dengan officer tu ye? |
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haku planning nak anak paling ramai 5 org..paling sengkek 3 la...skang baru 1..tunggu another 2 thn tmbh 1 lagi kot..Insyallah..kena tgk faktor minyak gak ni.. |
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[ Last edited by ammar_7e at 12-6-2008 10:52 AM ] |
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Originally posted by eastrun at 13-5-2008 06:25 PM
i wonder if he survives dok kat sana dengan 10 beranak. I have problem wif him kat sini yang dia tak selesaikan pun..but he left me without notice and without even solving the prob.Berat hati i d ...
Yang ni i rasa u tgh marah sesangat nih...be cool, once again I remind you, Allah might has another reason for letting him and his family go to the UK, after what he has done to you...You fikir senang ke nak hidup kat sana?. Anak tu nak kena bagi makan semua....perit la...tapi his wife boleh tahan ek?.Aku pun rasa dia selfish.... |
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bkn salah ibu mengandung kwang3 |
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Reply #792 pisang_goreng's post
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mengandungkan boleh, tapi mesti la sama2 jaga....kalau bini semua nak kena buat...habislah dia...hantar pergi sekolah, dia yang buat, makan minum dia yang buat, kemas rumah dia yang buat...mati la..suami lak, pergi kerja...balik tengah hari kalau rasa lutut tu kejang je...nak buat lagi....pastu biar je bini uruskan semua.. |
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Reply #791 raducan's post
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takpelah..aku tgh marah sangat waktu tu..... |
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Reply #791 raducan's post
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takpelah..aku tgh marah sangat waktu tu..... |
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Post time 14-5-2008 09:00 AM
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btw kalau dah besar mak pak senanglah sgt tp kalau masih kecik2 ni... very tuff to handle..is not realy about money but other than that such as kasih sayang..masa..commitment..kebajikkan....dan hal2 yg berkaitan dgn sosiol ..dan personality..
but in this situation i just feel takde sapa bersalah... 
