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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:32 PM
tats true abg matz, she's very insecure.. And thing is, its so hard to convince her tat she deserves better.. She's younger than me but she has everything - a stable job, a car and currently ...
wah.. mcm2 seh dia ader... career..car..bf yg merepek... mungkin shes lackin of IMAN~~~ |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:08 PM
Aku tak tau mana lagi thread nak luahkan perasaan ni...so far i can bilang bf je tapi tu pon kena sensor jugak coz kirakan ini pasal kawan dia jugak..I got tis fren a gal i call W eh..Dia ni sekara ...
tak banyak benda ko bleh buat untuk dia, kalo dia berdegil sangat..
ko jumpa dia, slow talk ngan dia
ko cakap kat dia, kalo dia nak continue, lain kali dia tak bleh menyesal atau nak ungkit bangkit. berani buat berani tanggung.
Tapi dia mungkin fikiran dia tak stable. |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:08 PM
Aku tak tau mana lagi thread nak luahkan perasaan ni...so far i can bilang bf je tapi tu pon kena sensor jugak coz kirakan ini pasal kawan dia jugak..I got tis fren a gal i call W eh..Dia ni sekara ...
...tell her truthfully that u are tired to think for her...so...cakap kat dia...good luck..pandai2 dia lerrr...dan..jangan lupa untuk mengucapkan kat dia...slamat hari raya aidilfitri...maaf zahir batin...:love: |
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Originally posted by guvnor at 19-10-2006 05:36 PM
wah.. mcm2 seh dia ader... career..car..bf yg merepek... mungkin shes lackin of IMAN~~~
klakar plak bila kau letak ini part :lol
True abt lacking of iman..i always advice her to pray and zikir to keep her mind off things like calling her bf every minute..she did..tapi yg tak bestnya dia kata, "i pray and pray to God..so tat H will not be frens with those people tat i dun like..." Thing is, solat memang tak salah tapi niat dia dah salah rite... Dia tak redha sekiranya her bf is really not the one for her... |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:32 PM
tats true abg matz, she's very insecure.. And thing is, its so hard to convince her tat she deserves better.. She's younger than me but she has everything - a stable job, a car and currently ...
dia living in denial..
mungkin dia jenis apa dia nak, dia dapat dari kecik. So same ngan bf dia ni. dia mesti nak. biar la..
doesnt mean orang tu berkereta, sekolah tinggi, succesful, good jobs, dia tahu pakai otak.
ko dah cuba cakap pun kan, so tak bleh buat apa unless ko tunjuk dia bukti evidence pakai henpon kamera ke apa ke, tapi tu pun nanti backfire pasal dia ngan bf dia lak nanti tuduh ko bukan2.., tapi kalo nak try, try la. |
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 19-10-2006 05:39 PM
tak banyak benda ko bleh buat untuk dia, kalo dia berdegil sangat..
ko jumpa dia, slow talk ngan dia
ko cakap kat dia, kalo dia nak continue, lain kali dia tak bleh menyesal atau nak un ...
memang dia tak stable pon dep...kalo tak, takkan dia asik call je tak kira siapa..Habit dia if tak dpt call matair, she will call any fren.if tat fren tak angkat she will call another fren..juz as long dia dapat sesiapa yg akan dengar luahan dia...semalam masa nak bunuh diri tu, sampai boleh plak dia telipon ex-bf dia..tapi padan muka jugaklah tat guy said "you gona jumpa down ah? if you do, jump from a building more than 25 stories ok?" (ntah2 rasanya pon dia pikir ini pompan mati pon bagus) |
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 19-10-2006 05:44 PM
dia living in denial..
mungkin dia jenis apa dia nak, dia dapat dari kecik. So same ngan bf dia ni. dia mesti nak. biar la..
doesnt mean orang tu berkereta, sekolah tinggi, succesful, good jobs, dia tahu pakai otak.
ko dah cuba cakap pun kan, so tak bleh buat apa unless ko tunjuk dia bukti evidence pakai henpon kamera ke apa ke, tapi tu pun nanti backfire pasal dia ngan bf dia lak nanti tuduh ko bukan2.., tapi kalo nak try, try la.
Tis is sound advice dep... Ya,u pointed one thing correct abt her.. I pon rasa dia dari kecik dia dapat apa dia nak, lagi plak dia ni anak sorang..Dia tak reti to share.. |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:43 PM
klakar plak bila kau letak ini part :lol
True abt lacking of iman..i always advice her to pray and zikir to keep her mind off things like calling her bf every minute..she did... ..so tat H will not be frens with those people tat i dun like.
dashatz~~~ tak baik simpan sikap benci membenci terhadap org lain~~~ hati kotor punyer org!!! |
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Originally posted by blackmore at 19-10-2006 05:40 PM
...cakap jer direct kat dia...that she is suffocating u...that u are feeling the heat from all her shiit...
...tell her truthfully that u are tired to think for her...so...cakap kat dia...good luck..pandai2 dia lerrr...dan..jangan lupa untuk mengucapkan kat dia...slamat hari raya aidilfitri...maaf zahir batin...
Hehehe..i wish i could be this direct, kak tam..tapi takot it will affect our frenship in future pulak... Tapi memang betol i am so tired to think for her... Cakap sampai berbuih mulut, masuk telinga kiri, *faster than a speeding bullet*, kluar telinga kanan... paling tak larat bila dia call pepagi buta... sekali dua i masih heran tapi bila da kena every morning siapa tak boring.. |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:53 PM
Hehehe..i wish i could be this direct, kak tam..tapi takot it will affect our frenship in future pulak... Tapi memang betol i am so tired to think for her... Cakap sampai berbuih mulut, masuk ...
sembur jer... tak perlu nak werry... kalu dia ade pemikiran yg baik... in future musti dia mengerti yg ko ni berniat baik~~~ |
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Originally posted by guvnor at 19-10-2006 05:53 PM
dashatz~~~ tak baik simpan sikap benci membenci terhadap org lain~~~ hati kotor punyer org!!!
dia dun like pada i kirakan ada sebab, guv... si H ni dgn kengkawan dia slalu buat benda, sape yg suka... |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:55 PM
dia dun like pada i kirakan ada sebab, guv... si H ni dgn kengkawan dia slalu buat benda, sape yg suka...
Harami tu dia tak benci pulak... padehal semaser kwn2 beliau membuat 'benda'... berat sebelah~~~ |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:46 PM
memang dia tak stable pon dep...kalo tak, takkan dia asik call je tak kira siapa..Habit dia if tak dpt call matair, she will call any fren.if tat fren tak angkat she will call another fren..j ...
aku tak agree la ex bf dia cakap gitu pasal terjun 25 tingkat, maybe its just sarcastic la, tapi tak bagus la..
walau berapa biol kawan ko ni pun, kita kena ingat hari ni hari dia, besok mungkin hari kita.
Maybe ko bleh la introduce dia kat aktiviti2 lain, kalo dia jenis sporty, ko suruh dia join outdoor activities ke , hapa ke..
Maybe jugak, ko sound dia la, carik kelas2 agama kat mesjid ke hapa ke, dekat ngan rumah dia ke, dengar2...
ustazah habsah nye kelas ke hapa ke... Suruh dia je dengar2 sikit isi masa tu.
dia mungkin free time banyak sangat. |
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Originally posted by guvnor at 19-10-2006 05:57 PM
Harami tu dia tak benci pulak... padehal semaser kwn2 beliau membuat 'benda'... berat sebelah~~~
Ntah la eh..banyak sangat pasal benda2 haram ni... For me personally i would tinggal je coz i dowana get involved dlm pon benda bf dia tu bergiat.. If anything bad happen, bf kena tangkap for example, then how? She never thinks for her future... |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 05:50 PM
Tis is sound advice dep... Ya,u pointed one thing correct abt her.. I pon rasa dia dari kecik dia dapat apa dia nak, lagi plak dia ni anak sorang..Dia tak reti to share..
its never too late, ko perhatikan dia la, kalo mana2 civic manners dia terkurang ke hapa ke...
ko pandai2 la tegur dia cara lembut or cam aku, aku selalu kutuk2 je..
example, kalo ko ngan dia makan2 ke, dia bayar something cam car park ke, ko nengok, dia cakap thank you ke hapa ke..
kalo dia tak cakap please tegur..
Indirectly, teguran ko untuk dia jadi more courteous and have basic social skills akan buat dia bleh fikir pasal keliling dia.
Hopefully then dia bleh fikir lagi terang pasal hubungan dia ngan bf dan kawan2 dia..
dia maybe lack social skills nak interact cara betul. So ko please la tegur dia. |
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 19-10-2006 06:02 PM
aku tak agree la ex bf dia cakap gitu pasal terjun 25 tingkat, maybe its just sarcastic la, tapi tak bagus la..
walau berapa biol kawan ko ni pun, kita kena ingat hari ni hari dia, besok mu ...
To me nak kata free time, kalau i ni dia tak mungkin ada free time sebab u have to juggle with work and school, isn't that enough to keep your hands full..? Dia mcm making herself terlalu bz by minding her bf's business..Me and another fren da kata to bring her out and stuf tapi its not gona be enough to keep her occupied every day.. pasal kelas agama, maybe i can try that too..kalau untuk kebaikan, why not.. |
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guvnor This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 19-10-2006 06:02 PM
aku tak agree la ex bf dia cakap gitu pasal terjun 25 tingkat, maybe its just sarcastic la, tapi tak bagus la..
walau berapa biol kawan ko ni pun, kita kena ingat hari ni hari dia, besok mu... Maybe ko bleh la introduce dia kat aktiviti2 lain, kalo dia jenis sporty, ko suruh dia join outdoor activities ke , hapa ke..
panggil dia join ini forum... musti seronox~~~ |
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Originally posted by skgerl at 19-10-2006 06:08 PM
To me nak kata free time, kalau i ni dia tak mungkin ada free time sebab u have to juggle with work and school, isn't that enough to keep your hands full..? Dia mcm making herself terlalu bz ...
pelan2 la... kalo kawan perlukan kita, atau kita rasa kawan tu perlukan kita, walaupun dia berapa pestering pun, sabar je la.
tak mau buang dia 100%, maybe just tolong her berapa yang mampu.
Besok lusa sapa tahu dia jadi better person, kita pun tumpang happy kan. |
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Originally posted by guvnor at 19-10-2006 06:09 PM
panggil dia join ini forum... musti seronox~~~
 klako |
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 19-10-2006 06:14 PM
pelan2 la... kalo kawan perlukan kita, atau kita rasa kawan tu perlukan kita, walaupun dia berapa pestering pun, sabar je la.
tak mau buang dia 100%, maybe just tolong her berapa yang ma ...
wah dep...ur advice getin better la..bagus, bagus... I cuma tolong where i can..in the end, its her who makes the decision.. it was her choice to stil stick w him despite wat he did tapi nampaknya dia masih sama je...ntah eh..apa pon i will try my best...(timer kaceh dep :tq |
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Post time 19-10-2006 05:36 PM
