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semua nk bagitau 1 dunia...semua nak letak kat fb la, twitter la...
so, iols tjumpe 1 article ni.
tepek sini ya
Why do people Show off
Most of us don’t like showy people because we assume that they are arrogant and because they sometimes remind us of our few achievements.
From the outside showy people appear to be happy, possessing many things that others really want and sometimes superior But what most people don’t know is that their inside is much different.
In this article I will take you inside the mind of the showy person, let you understand how he thinks and show you the truth behind showing off. If you want to know why do people show off then read this article.
Showing off is equal to "did you notice me?"
Little kids try to do really distracting movements when their parents don’t give them much attention. The child might do actions that appear to be weird and very risky in order to get the parent’s attention.
But why would a child strive for attention? Because he believes that he is not getting enough of it.
If you met the CEO of a large well known corporation then he is very less likely to tell you that he earns a lot of money or that he lives in a large house simply because the man knows that you have already guessed that.
If the man became unsure of the impression you formed of him he might then start to show off to improve that image if he cares about your opinion.
Try to put a confident person down or to prove to him that he is worthless and he will reply back by showing off all of his Good qualities and achievements.
In short, the following is the truth about showy people:
They feel that they aren’t noticed or recognized: Showy people believe that they didn’t get the attention they deserve and so they show off to send one clear message
"I am here, please notice me". So actually a showy person is begging you to notice him while you might be begging him to accept you!!
They care about people’s opinion: To some people the opinion of others doesn’t matter that much and doesn’t have a significant impact on their happiness. To showy people it’s the opposite the opinion of others is the most important thing and if they failed to let others like them they might feel really bad
Some of them believe that people are underestimating them: because of believing that people are underestimating them showy people do their best to show off their best traits to prove that they are worthy!!
Post time 22-12-2012 12:16 AM
