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sue_0684 posted on 25-6-2013 11:13 PM 
bkn kg baru..tp kg di ceruk pedalaman..hanya dikelilingi kelapa sawit sahaja.....
KL yg penuh ...
aku pun org kg.... di mana jerebu pun x sampai.. sb jauh sangat..
syukur ujann arinih
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sue_0684 posted on 25-6-2013 11:06 PM
berdiskusi,berdebat di forum ..adakah slh satu cara untuk overcome loneliness ni?
Yes dear...
but U shud choose the best method that suit u.
It will be much better if u enjoy what ever thing that u do
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Why do some people never learn from their mistakes
Here is why some people keep repeating the same mistake over and over without learning anything:
1) The single strategy mistake: Lets suppose you kept moving from a job to another while discovering each time that you hate your job. In such a case you might waste your whole life repeating the same process over and over just because you aren't changing your strategy. What about doing something completely different? What about starting a business or turning a hobby into a career? The mistake you have been doing in such a case is using the same strategy that doesn't work over and over (finding a job in this case)
2) The comfort zone trap: Because learning involves making mistakes you will never fully develop your skills before you make many of them. Now some people prefer to remain in their comfort zone instead of trying anything new and as a result their skills never improve for years and years. The guy who always avoids social gatherings will never get the chance to make mistakes and to learn the proper way to communicate with others. This is also why two different persons could do the same thing for the same number of years but have totally different skill levels
3) Twisting the facts: You might think that people who give up say something like "OK, i gave up" but actually giving up can happen in much more complicated ways. One popular example of giving up is twisting the facts so that you don't blame yourself when you stop trying. "I discovered that i am not lucky", "If only i was a bit taller" and "I am not talented" are all phrases that people use to twist facts to allow themselves to give up without feeling guilty. A person who believes that he can't develop social skills because he lacks a certain gene or because he isn't lucky will never develop them even if you allowed him to socialize for 50 years
4) Depending on intuition: While intuition might help you in some situations still there are other one that require deep acquired knowledge. You can't depend on intuition to disarm a bomb else you will get yourself killed. Learning is sometimes essential for certain skills to be learned. For example you might spend years trying to make people love you and your methods might not work just because you don't know enough about the psychology of love. In other words, trying to develop a skill without properly educating yourself about it is like flying an airplane without reading its manual |
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outcast posted on 25-6-2013 11:15 PM
aku pun org kg.... di mana jerebu pun x sampai.. sb jauh sangat..
syukur ujann arinih
yup..kat sini pon hujan renyai..syukur...dah kurang jerebunya..
sampai jgk sini even dlm kelapa sawit..
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sue_0684 posted on 25-6-2013 11:18 PM
yup..kat sini pon hujan renyai..syukur...dah kurang jerebunya..
sampai jgk sini even dlm kelapa s ...
jauh bebenor tuh ....
sini hari2 kuar mcm meredah asap ... huahuaa
sib baik iollls x semput..........
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Innrukia posted on 25-6-2013 11:18 PM
Why do some people never learn from their mistakes
Here is why some people keep repeating the same ...
yup no.2 ....stuck in comfort zone... tau x elok
tp dah berlumut sampai takut nk tukau zon kerja 
tp bertekad today last year in this company
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What affects the perception of attractiveness according to psychology
Here are some factors that affect the perception of attractiveness:
1) Ease of processing: Studies found that people find faces which are easier to process by their brains more attractive. But what determines the ease of processing of facial features? Its familiarity and similarity !
2) Familiarity and attractiveness: People get more attracted to faces they are familiar with. This means that complete strangers might find you less attractive then your acquaintances. One study has shown that the brain gets used to processing the images it sees often and that's why the models you see on TV can define your beauty standards for you without you noticing.
3) Similarity and attractiveness: Another factor that impacts the perception of attractiveness is similarity. People might become attracted to those who have facial features that are similar to them, to one of their parents or to a person they loved before.
4) Non physical traits that affects attractiveness: Psychologists found that non physical traits such as courage , sense of humor or self confidence greatly affect the perception of attractiveness. The study showed that people's perception of a person's attractiveness changed after they got to know more information about his personality!. That's another reason why complete strangers might find you less attractive than you really are
5) Culture and the perception of attractiveness: The culture also affects the perception of attractiveness to a great extent. In some cultures ,that are to a certain extent isolated from the western definition of beauty, fat women are considered much more attractive than slim women. So your perception of attractiveness is also affected by your culture to a certain extent.
6) The need for attention: Some people have been brought up in such a way that they need more attention than others. Those people are very likely to get attracted to those who have features that are rare among their culture. For example a person who lives in a place where blonds are rare might only get attracted to blonds if he has an unmet need for attention
According to psychology the perception of attractiveness is not constant
Did someone tell you that you are not good looking before?
If i were you i wouldn't feel bad at all. According to these studies the perception of attractiveness is not stable and it changes from one person to another.
Even for the same person new factors might happen that affect his own perception of attractiveness and so forces him to change his opinion about the attractiveness of others. |
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outcast posted on 25-6-2013 11:23 PM
yup no.2 ....stuck in comfort zone... tau x elok
tp dah berlumut sampai takut nk tukau zon kerj ...
then u shud know what to do
ACTION ACTION ACTION dear
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sue_0684 posted on 25-6-2013 11:24 PM
3) Twisting the facts: You might think that people who give up say something like "OK, i gave up" bu ...
like my dearest said cik sue stop complaining...
and remember.. nothing to lose
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Innrukia posted on 25-6-2013 11:27 PM
then u shud know what to do
ACTION ACTION ACTION dear
this is what laling akak always advice..'usaha,usaha,usaha'..
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sue_0684 posted on 25-6-2013 11:34 PM
yup..jgn buang masa,ayuh berusaha dgn sungguh2..jgn jadik mcm pam shaw..
Good!
Life is a learning process.
Its ok if u fall down, but its not ok if u want to remain there.
Be positive, positive & positive.
Action, action & action
Ganbare
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Jadi konklusii nya ... semua hanya bersiaran di cari forum saja ka untuk mengatasi kelonelian ini ..
Tak der gathering2 ka dekat luar ... movie time ka ... sembang2 ka ... I boleh join sama .. hahaha
kannnnnnn 
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SiBOntot posted on 25-6-2013 11:42 PM
Jadi konklusii nya ... semua hanya bersiaran di cari forum saja ka untuk mengatasi kelonelian ini ...
bkn salu ada gath ke bon (x leh panggei abg bon sbb hang sama baya ngn aku..)...?.ko join2 lah..
bkn tu jer..join porum ni ada yg nk share info,nk dpt kan info...nk tmbh kwn2...
bnyk fungsinya asalkan jgn misuse..
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Innrukia posted on 25-6-2013 11:27 PM
then u shud know what to do
ACTION ACTION ACTION dear
Tuh aaaa... new year resolution konon |
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sue_0684 posted on 25-6-2013 11:31 PM
ada yg kata putih melepak itu cantik,hitam manis tu menawan..
kurus itu seksi dan gemuk itu comel ...
Mula2...waktu muda pk yg selalu org berminat pasal rupa paras..tp sebenarnya personaliti...itu yg boleh buat org angau ngan kita...
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outcast posted on 25-6-2013 11:56 PM
Mula2...waktu muda pk yg selalu org berminat pasal rupa paras..tp sebenarnya personaliti...itu yg ...
yup..bila kita dah matang ni..mmg kita tngk personaliti....
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sue_0684 posted on 26-6-2013 12:02 AM
yup..bila kita dah matang ni..mmg kita tngk personaliti....
Hehehe tp aku x mampu kalo nok cr x berapa comey.sedap mata memandang...ahaks
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