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Sexless marriage, stay or just build new life?
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Wow, thread yg sgt membuka mata ya, I muda lagi and still not married yet, I don't think this is the right time, kwn2 sekolah i yg sebaya dah rmi yg kahwin.. bagi I, klu benda masih boleh dibincang dan di selamatkan, usahalah.. tp klu dah menyiksa antara satu sama lain, let it go walaupun pyh, klu ada anak2 kesian anak2, kita sebagai anak2 perasan je klu ada something wrong dgn our parents..bcuz parents i pun dah cerai after 20 years of marriage..ok lah drpd menanggung dosa-dosa sesma sendiri  |
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Ada ye yg boleh bertahan sampai 10-20yr sexless. Seriusly terkejut. Maybe diaorg kena try enjoy moment diaorg berdua. Since mostly jenis berkejaya kan. Maybe busy and byk benda nak fikir buat diaorg hilang spark or xfikir sex.
Selagi xmendadih, xcurang, xkaki pukul, i think they can try to fix it. Lg2 yg bkerjaya. Maybe penat sgt dgn kerjaya masing2. |
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green~tea replied at 11-1-2021 01:29 PM
i have seen this with my very own eyes... kawan i tak terurus dah rupanya sbb kena urus semua send ...
Create a good life je dgn anak2. Anak2 ni ms kecik je penat. Nnti masing2 dah besar, kita dah xyah nak ssh2 dah. Nak start hidup baru dgn org baru ni bukan senang. Nak kenal, nak cari chemistry. Sex mmg xdpt kalau xkawen tp dildo ado, vibrator ado. |
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sanggup ye kwn you tu..lain orang lain citarasa
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adoiiiii..hahahhah..iols xsanggup bela biawak..biarpun anu nye berjam jam tanak turun...kahkahkah
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Pendapat aku takda dalam poll
Semua ni bergantung kpd individu tu sendiri
Kalau rasa nak stay, bertahan la dgn pilihan tu
Kalau rasa nak move on, jgn teragak2 lg nak tinggalkan ape yang dirasa tak worth it nak dipertahankan
Buat pilihan yang membahagiakan diri sendiri
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Post time 13-1-2021 10:51 PM
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Guccibamboo replied at 13-1-2021 10:44 AM
I pun rase yg same.....mungkin sbb kwn u obese sgt3 husben die turn off....hmm..yg ni susah la...s ...
Yeah end up kawan i tu bela laki dia to stay... rumah, kereta, duit utk travel, all sponsored.. latest i heard laki dia dah benti keje (or kena buang sbb covid).. so my friend is now sole breadwinner plak dah |
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Post time 13-1-2021 10:57 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 13-1-2021 11:00 PM
Jemahjemah replied at 13-1-2021 11:09 AM
Ada ye yg boleh bertahan sampai 10-20yr sexless. Seriusly terkejut. Maybe diaorg kena try enjoy mome ...
Kalo berkerjaya both, with anak2... kena ada sacrifice.. maybe sacrifice dgn cara upah babysitter and maid utk urus rumahtangga... tp besar lah nnti kerak nya....
Kalo nak hubungan masih normal, kena disiplin kan anak2.. tido bilik asing or kalo bilik cukup besar, anak kecik lg, bleh buat katil asing... i dengan husband mmg sibuk in our career... so utk kekal energetic, kitorg workout regularly and amek supplement..
Satu lagi peel married couple ni lambat sgt asingkan tempat tido anak2.... i sendiri pun quite late.. anak i baru sorang, tido katil sendiri dah tp still same room sbb dia penakut nak tido bilik dia... huhuhu so i dengan husband mmg kena disiplin kan dia tido by 10 pm... kalo turn ex husband i giliran jaga dia, mmg merdeka laa i dgn husband nak honeymoon.. sexlife time anak ada mcm selang sehari or 3 kali seminggu gitu je.. kalo anak giliran dengan ex husband, bleh honeymoon hari2  |
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Post time 13-1-2021 11:02 PM
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awenda507 replied at 13-1-2021 05:14 PM
Pendapat aku takda dalam poll
Semua ni bergantung kpd individu tu sendiri
Kalau rasa nak stay, b ...
Either stay or leave.. both options lah ada... tp nak leave kena kuatkan minda... its not easy to step out of marriage, lepas byk bina hidup bersama... mmg kena cekal hati and ada support system, and financial jugak... ada kawan iols sampai buat loan utk bayar legal fees bercerai... cerai maybe rm10k je, tp bab harta sepencarian tu boleh cecah 20-30k sbb kat mahkamah tinggi |
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Post time 13-1-2021 11:08 PM
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Jemahjemah replied at 13-1-2021 11:14 AM
Create a good life je dgn anak2. Anak2 ni ms kecik je penat. Nnti masing2 dah besar, kita dah xyah ...
Exactly.. takyah takut pun nak cerai and single... kot kegersangan, boleh je pakai vibrator.. online ada jual, beli la yg high quality sikit, brand ann summers ke, kat cultbeauty.co.uk pun ade juai...
tp kalo ada rezeki kawen why not.. bgtau siap2 kat spouse tu, what is the expectation, and how to make it right.. me personally, i takkan kawen dgn orang2 muda below 30... i would choose someone around my age sbb matang, same thinking wavelength, less merajuk2 sbb dia memahami, berkemampuan dari segi materials (sekuffu) and sex drive pun sama level dgn kita yg dah lanjut usia jugak ni.. |
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Post time 13-1-2021 11:10 PM
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zaza201516 replied at 12-1-2021 04:31 AM
Sexless marriage is not uncommon, especially kalau dh kawen lama and dh have kids. Tak semua orang a ...
Ada probability the guy makan luar.. atau mungkin tak makan luar pun... maybe dia masturbate je utk elak curang... sbb guys masa dia 20s, mampu sex hari2 even sibuk cemane pun keja.... tp bila dah above 35, libido dah berkurangan, tp seminggu tetap nak at least 2x seminggu... so pasti dia kena ada cara utk channel keperluan sex dia tu.... samada scandal, masturbate, kawen dua, atau bersukan berlebihan utk kurangkan keinginan tu |
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Post time 13-1-2021 11:15 PM
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songket_merah replied at 12-1-2021 04:37 PM
Do you think if layan sex elok2, husband akan jatuh cinta?
I dont think so.
Depend how great layanan tu... ni bukan soal vagina ketat atau tidak.. but its more to how open the wife nak blowjob handjob, mampu orgasm, nak tengok porn sama and open to try new things... nak menten bentuk badan.. and of course masakan...
Rupa dan bentuk badan ni pun penting la... takleh la kepam hodoh cam bibik indon (sorry terkutuk bibik indon, tp i kena buat analogy)... body pun biar la fit berkadar dgn usia jgn cam tong dram...
And perangai tu biar lah hormat suami, jgn provoke or rendahkan ego suami |
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Post time 13-1-2021 11:18 PM
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shy79 replied at 12-1-2021 07:35 PM
x ngesek ngn dia je kot..kot ada skandal kt luar ke or gay maybe??? or xdak napsu ngn wife sdri
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Pompuan boleh je tahan tak ML.. tp kitorg akan masturbate lah sbb nafsu menggebu jugak.. kalo tak masturbate, takut tendency nak mencurang tu ada... sometimes kalo eksesais tu boleh je i ter orgasm sbb i sendiri used to be in sexless marriage... skang ni my 2nd marriage, alhamdulillah cukup nafkah zahir batin, no more experiencing coregasm (orgasm masa workout intense cardio) |
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bukan kawan i.. kawan pd kawan i..
kalau kawan i, i paksa suruh bercerai.. kalau tanak putus kawan..
aku tak kawan dgn bodoh konsepnye
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pmpuan yg sexless tu try jela angan2 nengok vid xxxx. nengok la versi dibuat utk woman taste , romance drama gitu. jgn ditgk utk version laki - geli.
mana tau dh angan2, rs berahi memuncak nk goda suami sendiri ke ( r*** reverse suami gitu), suami xdpt elak. tergoda pulak dgn lirikan isteri. ( goda suami sendiri bkn anak ikan luar ye). klu suami x tergoda tu anggapla mati pucuk dia malu nk bgtau, atau gay.
tp bg ak klu boleh cerai hidup sendiri , cerai. nk companion stay jela. |
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my staff siap kena depression lps suami x sentuh almost 1 year.. Lps bersalin anak ketiga..terus x disentuh.. Tgn penuh kesan luka kena gigit.. Now dia refer dgn pakar.. Dia sendiri tertanya2 why hb x mau sentuh.. Part lain ok.. |
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so weird, kena tanya husband dia nape tak sentuh dia. |
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my sister ada macam2..yang first tu sebelum ni marriage berantakan gak..takde anak dan my sis on off kerja..tapi since dah masuk 40s, dia ng suami cam enjoy life..jalan sana sini..tiap bulan checkin hotel..dinner restaurant yang mewah2..my 2nd sister tu lepas anak sulung lahir pun gaya dah sexless..sebab my sister dan suami pjj sampai anak sekolah rendah..now dorg bilik asing2..my sister mula2 stress la kot..batin tak dipenuhi..tapi lama2 dia cam dah tak kuasa..janji ada suami as companion..my 3rd sister pulak sex life hebat kot sampai tiap kali balik kg bawak condom dan KY jelly bagai..cuma my sis cam bela bewak gak la..suami dia dulu keja tetap, pastu benti konon nak bisnes..tapi kete, modal bisnes, yuran sekolah anak2 dan paling latest beli rumah semua my sister yang buat loan..kitorg bising gak..tapi maybe sexlife dia hebat, dia bertahan..huhu..tepuk dada tanya selera la..selari tak mendera, memukul, hadap jela.. |
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Post time 14-1-2021 08:49 PM
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ila.ali replied at 14-1-2021 08:13 PM
my sister ada macam2..yang first tu sebelum ni marriage berantakan gak..takde anak dan my sis on off ...
Uish warna warni ya kehidupan.. kebetulan sama ngan contoh2 married life tu.. huhuhu...
But yes... fungsi i sebagai kawan.. support whatever decision kawan kita buat, supaya dia tak depress... we're not in their shoes... |
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Exactly.. Luar nmpk ceria, happy2..Dia terpaksa cerita kt i sbb i susun jadual keje dia. Dia minta pelepasan utk jumpa pakar sekian2 tarikh..
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Post time 13-1-2021 10:52 AM
